
Slapping or smacking refers to striking a person with the open
palm
Palm most commonly refers to:
* Palm of the hand, the central region of the front of the hand
* Palm plants, of family Arecaceae
** List of Arecaceae genera
* Several other plants known as "palm"
Palm or Palms may also refer to:
Music
* Palm (b ...
of the hand. A backhand uses the back of the hand instead of the palm.
Etymology and definitions
The word was first recorded in 1632, probably as a form of
onomatopoeia
Onomatopoeia is the process of creating a word that phonetically imitates, resembles, or suggests the sound that it describes. Such a word itself is also called an onomatopoeia. Common onomatopoeias include animal noises such as ''oink'', '' ...
. It shares its beginning consonants with several other English words related to violence, such as "slash", "slay", and "slam".
The word is found in several English
colloquialism
Colloquialism (), also called colloquial language, everyday language or general parlance, is the linguistic style used for casual (informal) communication. It is the most common functional style of speech, the idiom normally employed in conversa ...
s, such as, "
slap fight
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", "
slap-happy
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", "
slapshot", "
slapstick
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", "
slap on the wrist" (as a mild punishment), "
slap in the face
Slap or slapping may refer to:
* Slapping (strike), a method of striking with the palm of the hand
* Slapping (music), a musical technique used with stringed instruments
* Slap tonguing, a musical technique used on wind instruments
* ''Slap'' (m ...
" (as an insult or, alternatively, as a reproof against a lewd or insulting comment), and "
slap on the back" (an expression of friendship or congratulations).
In music
In
jazz
Jazz is a music genre that originated in the African-American communities of New Orleans, Louisiana in the late 19th and early 20th centuries, with its roots in blues and ragtime. Since the 1920s Jazz Age, it has been recognized as a majo ...
and other styles of music, the term refers to the action of pulling an instrument's strings back and allowing them to smack the instrument.
Bitch slap
"Bitch slap" is
slang
Slang is vocabulary (words, phrases, and usage (language), linguistic usages) of an informal register, common in spoken conversation but avoided in formal writing. It also sometimes refers to the language generally exclusive to the members of p ...
phrase that dates back to the 1990s.
It means to slap someone hard for being insolent or unproductive in order to show dissatisfaction, contempt, or disrespect with the goal of gaining dominance over them and reducing them to submission.
Happy slapping
For about five years beginning in 2004,
happy slapping became a UK
fad. Happy slapping is the phenomenon whereby kids assault someone while being taped by a friend on their
mobile phone
A mobile phone, cellular phone, cell phone, cellphone, handphone, hand phone or pocket phone, sometimes shortened to simply mobile, cell, or just phone, is a portable telephone that can make and receive telephone call, calls over a radio freq ...
: afterwards the video is uploaded to a site like
YouTube
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. Media coverage of the alleged trend led to a nationwide
moral panic
A moral panic is a widespread feeling of fear, often an irrational one, that some evil person or thing threatens the values, interests, or well-being of a community or society. It is "the process of arousing social concern over an issue", usua ...
, including a call by one member of parliament for schools to block mobile phone signals.
Usage and meaning
The purpose of a slap is often to humiliate, more than injure. A "slap in the face" is a common idiom, dating back to the late 1800s, that means to rebuke, rebuff or insult.
In his 2004 text
''The Naked Woman: A Study of the Female Body'', anthropologist
Desmond Morris defines what he calls the "cheek slap," which he describes as "the classic action of a lady responding to the unwelcome attentions of a male." Morris categorizes the cheek slap as a "display blow", meaning one that is impossible to ignore but doesn't cause much damage.
The word "slap" is frequently used to minimize the perceived violence of an act, even if the act was especially severe. One person may hit another across the face and injure them severely, but in calling it a slap, it may seem less severe, since slapping is often associated with minor violence.
Cultural aspects
Slapping is viewed differently by different cultures. In many countries, such as
Iceland
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, slapping a
child is viewed as a form of physical abuse, and is illegal (see
corporal punishment of children
Physical or corporal punishment by a parent or other legal guardian is any act causing deliberate physical pain or discomfort to a minor child in response to some undesired behavior. It typically takes the form of spanking or slapping the c ...
), whereas in others, such as
England
England is a country that is part of the United Kingdom. It shares land borders with Wales to its west and Scotland to its north. The Irish Sea lies northwest and the Celtic Sea to the southwest. It is separated from continental Europe ...
, it is seen by only some parents as abusive, and even then only moderately so. A 1998
India
India, officially the Republic of India ( Hindi: ), is a country in South Asia. It is the seventh-largest country by area, the second-most populous country, and the most populous democracy in the world. Bounded by the Indian Ocean on the ...
n study found a high rate of approval for
husband
A husband is a male in a marital relationship, who may also be referred to as a spouse. The rights and obligations of a husband regarding his spouse and others, and his status in the community and in law, vary between societies and cultures ...
s slapping their
wives
A wife ( : wives) is a female in a marital relationship. A woman who has separated from her partner continues to be a wife until the marriage is legally dissolved with a divorce judgement. On the death of her partner, a wife is referred to as ...
, particularly among husbands and
middle class
The middle class refers to a class of people in the middle of a social hierarchy, often defined by occupation, income, education, or social status. The term has historically been associated with modernity, capitalism and political debate. Co ...
Indians.
In some cultures, when girls
menstruate for the first time, their mothers often slap them across the face, a cultural tradition thought by some to signify the difficulties of life as a woman.
Studies have shown that although
Americans
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frown upon
domestic violence regardless of whether the perpetrator is male or female, generally they are more accepting of minor violence, such as slapping, when it is perpetrated by a woman against a man or vice versa. Women who inflict minor acts of violence on their male partners have a higher-than-normal probability of being severely assaulted by those partners, and domestic violence experts therefore advise at-risk women to refrain from even minor acts of physical aggression against their partners.
[Loseke, Donileen et al. ]
Current Controversies on Family Violence
'' Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications, 2005. pp. 66–67 It has been suggested by Michael Lamb that both men and women who are violent toward their
spouse
A spouse is a significant other in a marriage. In certain contexts, it can also apply to a civil union or common-law marriage. Although a spouse is a form of significant other, the latter term also includes non-marital partners who play a social ...
s are more likely to be so with their children as well.
In India, the "insult slap" is a political maneuver used to express disapproval of ideas of a particular public figure or politician.
Slapping is very often portrayed in films and television programs. For example, in ''
Slap Her... She's French'' girls and women typically slap boys, men and other females who offend them in some way and humiliate them.
Slapping contests
In Russian bodybuilding championships, slapping contests are often held between contestants where opponents stand across from each other and exchange blows until one concedes or is knocked out.
Slapping incidents
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The
Will Smith slapping Chris Rock incident at the 94th annual Academy Awards Ceremony in 2022 sparked a large amount of controversy.
See also
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Battery (crime)
Battery is a criminal offense involving unlawful physical contact, distinct from assault which is the act of creating apprehension of such contact.
Battery is a specific common law offense, although the term is used more generally to refer to ...
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Bullying
Bullying is the use of force, coercion, hurtful teasing or threat, to abuse, aggressively dominate or intimidate. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. One essential prerequisite is the perception (by the bully or by others) of an i ...
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Child abuse
Child abuse (also called child endangerment or child maltreatment) is physical, sexual, and/or psychological maltreatment or neglect of a child or children, especially by a parent or a caregiver. Child abuse may include any act or failure to ...
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Corporal punishment in the home
Physical or corporal punishment by a parent or other legal guardian is any act causing deliberate physical pain or discomfort to a minor child in response to some undesired behavior. It typically takes the form of spanking or slapping the chi ...
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''The Slap'', 2008 novel
References
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