Damayanti prays to gods to recognize Nala

Svayamvara ( sa, स्वयंवर, svayaṃvara, translit-std=IAST), in ancient

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, was a method of marriage in which a woman chose a man as her husband from a group of suitors. In this context, in Sanskrit means '

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' and means 'groom'. The bride wishing to marry would select an auspicious time and venue and then broadcast her intentions. Kings typically sent messengers to outside lands, while commoners simply spread the news within the local community. On the appointed day, suitors would gather at the venue and declare their qualifications. The bride would place a garland on the man of her choice and a marriage ceremony was held immediately.

Indian literature

Sīta

In the Hindu epic ''

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'', King Janaka proclaimed that

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would be wed to the man who could lift and string the

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(

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's bow), calling this feat , meaning the cost to be paid by a suitor. Sita married

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, the only man strong enough to lift and string the bow.

Kunti

King

Kuntibhoja The ''Mahabharata'' is one of the two major Sanskrit epics of ancient India; it was composed by the sage Vyasa. The most important characters of ''Mahabharata'' can be said to include: Krishna; the Pandavas Yudhishthira, Bhima, Arjuna, Nakul ...

arranged a svayamvara for his adopted daughter

Kunti Kunti ( sa, कुन्ती, ), named at birth as Pritha ( sa, पृथा, ), is one of the prominent characters of the Hindu epic ''Mahabharata''. She is best known as the mother of the Pandavas and Karna, the main protagonists of the epi ...

in the Hindu epic ''

Mahabharata The ''Mahābhārata'' ( ; sa, महाभारतम्, ', ) is one of the two major Sanskrit epics of ancient India in Hinduism, the other being the '' Rāmāyaṇa''. It narrates the struggle between two groups of cousins in the K ...

''. Many kings and princes from the Aryan region attended her svayamvara. Among them was

Pandu In the Hindu epic ''Mahabharata'', Pandu ( sa, पाण्डु, Pāṇḍu, pale) was a king of the Kuru Kingdom. He was the foster-father of the five Pandava brothers, who were the boons bestowed upon his wife Kunti by a number of deiti ...

, the king of

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. Kunti chose Pandu as her husband.

Draupadī

The Swayamvara of Panchala's princess, Draupadi

For Draupadī (), the daughter of King

Drupada Drupada (Sanskrit: द्रुपद, lit. ''firm-footed'' or ''pillar''), also known as Yajnasena (Sanskrit: यज्ञसेन, lit. ''he whose army is sacrificial''), is a character in the Mahābhārata. The son of King Prishata, he was ...

of Panchala in the ''

'' (), aspirants had to hit a fish's eye with a bow and arrow. This fish was just an image on a rotating wheel placed over a pan filled with oil. The many suitors had to aim using the reflection of the fish in the oil.

Damayanti

Another famous svayamvara from the ''

'' is found in the story of

Damayanti ''Damayanti'' (Sanskrit: दमयंती) is a character in a love story found in the Vana Parva book of the Mahabharata. She was the daughter of Bhima (not the Pandava one) and a princess of the Vidarbha Kingdom, who married King Nala of th ...

, who chose

Nala Nala (Sanskrit: नल) is a character in the '' Vana Parva'' book of the ''Mahabharata''. He was the king of Nishadha Kingdom and the son of Veerasena. Nala was known for his skill with horses and for his culinary expertise. He married princ ...

for her husband, against the wishes of the gods.

Modern literature

''The Bearded Prince'' tells the story of Princess Roopali, whose father holds a svayamvara for her to select her groom.

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's ''

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'' has the heroine Maya's father stage a svayamvara for her early in the novel.

Iranian literature

Kitayun

The Shahnama of

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records a similar tradition in

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, of one ''Kitayun'', eldest daughter of the Emperor of Constantinople, selecting the Iranian Gushtasp. With a view to procure a husband for one of his daughters, the Byzantine emperor determined to hold a grand assembly of illustrious and wise men for her to see and select from. She did not find a suitable husband in the first assembly, so a second one was held, where she placed the crown on Gushtasp's head. Gushtasp, also known as Vishtaspa, returned to Iran with his bride and was crowned King.

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(literally "Rome") was the common name used for the Eastern Roman or

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