Lenore Skenazy () is an American speaker, blogger, syndicated columnist, author, and
reality show
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host, known for her activism in favor of
free-range parenting
Free-range parenting is the concept of raising children in the spirit of encouraging them to function independently and with limited parental supervision, in accordance with their age of development and with a reasonable acceptance of realistic ...
. In 2008, she wrote a controversial column on her decision to let her then-9-year-old son take the
New York City Subway
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home alone. The piece became a national story, prompting massive media attention. She was dubbed "America's Worst Mom".
In response, Skenazy wrote ''Free-Range Kids,'' adding a blog of the same name. She is the president of Let Grow, co-founded in 2018 with
Daniel Shuchman,
Peter Gray and
Jonathan Haidt
Jonathan David Haidt (; born October 19, 1963) is an American social psychologist and author. He is the Thomas Cooley Professor of Ethical Leadership at the New York University Stern School of Business. Haidt's main areas of study are the psyc ...
, an organisation advocating free-range parenting.
Early life
Skenazy is a 1981 graduate of
Yale University
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. She got her master's degree from Columbia in 1983.
Career
Skenazy spent fourteen years as a columnist for the ''
New York Daily News
The ''Daily News'' is an American newspaper based in Jersey City, New Jersey. It was founded in 1919 by Joseph Medill Patterson in New York City as the ''Illustrated Daily News''. It was the first U.S. daily printed in Tabloid (newspaper format ...
'', but was fired in December 2006. She wrote about “intriguing oddballs”, such as a couple who got married underwater. She was featured in the 2006 Bravo series ''
Tabloid Wars'', which focused on ''Daily News'' journalists. She subsequently moved to ''
The New York Sun
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'' and wrote there until closed in 2008.
Skenazy's 2008 column in the ''Sun'', "Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone," described her controversial decision to let her son take the
New York City Subway
The New York City Subway is a rapid transit system in New York City serving the New York City boroughs, boroughs of Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, and the Bronx. It is owned by the government of New York City and leased to the New York City Tr ...
home alone, which was completed without incident. The piece resulted in accusations of child abuse and memories of first-time subway trips and childhood freedom. The story was covered on ''
The Today Show
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'',
Fox News
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,
NPR
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, and
MSNBC
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, becoming worldwide news and being featured on ''
Penn & Teller: Bullshit!'', ''
The View
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'', ''
Nightline
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'', ''
Good Morning America
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'', ''
CBS News
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'', ''
NBC Nightly News
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'', ''
Anderson Cooper
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'', ''
Dr. Phil
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'', ''
Nancy Grace
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'', the
BBC
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, the CBC, and ABC in Australia. In 2015, she was profiled in ''
The New Yorker
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'' and ''
The New York Times
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''.
Her blog's popularity led to ''Free-Range Kids.''.
Blogger
Skenazy proposed May 22, 2010, as the first "Take Our Children to the Park & Leave Them There Day"—a day for children to learn how to play by themselves without constant supervision. In 2012 Skenazy hosted the reality television show ''
World's Worst Mom'' on
Discovery Life
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. The 13-episode series features Skenazy visiting anxious parents, including the mother of a 10-year-old who she still spoon-fed; the mother of an 8-year-old who bought home a skateboard, but only let him "ride" it on the grass, and the mother of a 13-year-old who still took him into the ladies' room.
In 2017, Skenazy co-founded the nonprofit Let Grow, along with Jonathan Haidt, Daniel Shuchman and Peter Gray. Let Grow's mission is to make it "easy, normal, and legal to give kids the independence they need to grow into capable, confident and happy adults." Its free materials for parents, schools, and counselors help them encourage independence and unstructured, unsupervised free play and real-world responsibility for adolescents and children. In 2018, Utah became the first state in the U.S. to pass the Free-Range Parenting bill, assuring parents that they can give their children some independence without this being mistaken for neglect, for which the ''Washington Post'' credited Skenazy's 2008 column as a contributing influence. Similar laws recognizing reasonable childhood independence have since been enacted in other states, including Colorado, Oklahoma, and Texas. Several other states have relaxed laws regarding some aspects of childhood independence.
Skenazy is a frequent contributing writer for ''
Reason
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'' magazine, covering mostly topics related to her concept of Free-range parenting as well as
overprotective parents and laws that punish parents when they leave their children unsupervised.
Personal life
Skenazy is Jewish. Her paternal grandparents emigrated from
Çanakkale
Çanakkale is a city and seaport in Turkey on the southern shore of the Dardanelles at their narrowest point. It is the seat of Çanakkale Province and Çanakkale District.[Turkey
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.
Her maternal grandparents came from Russia and Poland.
Bibliography
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* ''Who’s the Blonde that Married What’s-His-Name: The Ultimate Tip of the Tongue Test of Everything You Know You Know…But Can’t Remember Right Now'' (
Penguin Books
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, June 2009)
* "The Dysfunctional Family Christmas Songbook" (Broadway Books, 2004), with co-author John Boswell.
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*Why Parents are More Paranoid than Ever, NY Post, March 31, 2018
References
External links
Lenore Skenazy Website & Blog Lenore Skenazy archive, New York SunLenore Skenazy - Reason.comLet Grow
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1959 births
Living people
20th-century American Jews
20th-century American non-fiction writers
20th-century American women journalists
20th-century American journalists
20th-century American women writers
21st-century American Jews
21st-century American non-fiction writers
21st-century American women journalists
21st-century American journalists
21st-century American women writers
American people of Sephardic-Jewish descent
American women bloggers
American bloggers
American women columnists
American women non-fiction writers
Jewish American journalists
Jewish American non-fiction writers
Jewish bloggers
Jewish women writers
New York Daily News people
The New York Sun people
Yale University alumni