DeLancey Astor Kane (August 28, 1844April 4, 1915) was an American soldier and horseman who was prominent in New York Society during the

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. He was called the "father of coaching in the United States."

Early life

Kane was born on August 28, 1844, in

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. He was the second of eight children born to Oliver DeLancey Kane (1816–1874) and Louisa Dorothea (

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Langdon) Kane (1821–1894). His brothers were Walter Langdon, John Innes Kane,

Woodbury Kane Woodbury Kane (February 8, 1859 – December 5, 1905) was a yachtsman and bon vivant, and member of Theodore Roosevelt's Rough Riders. A director of the Metropolitan Register Company, Kane served aboard the ''Columbia'' in the 1899 America's ...

, and S. Nicholson Kane. His sisters were Louisa Langdon Kane, Emily Astor Kane (who married Augustus Jay and was the mother of Peter Augustus Jay), and Sybil Kent Kane. Kane was a grandson of Walter Langdon and Dorothea (née Astor) Langdon of the

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and a great-grandson of

John Jacob Astor John Jacob Astor (born Johann Jakob Astor; July 17, 1763 – March 29, 1848) was a German-born American businessman, merchant, real estate mogul, and investor. Astor made his fortune mainly in a fur trade monopoly, by exporting History of opiu ...

. He was a cousin of Colonel

John Jacob Astor IV John Jacob Astor IV (July 13, 1864 – April 15, 1912) was an American business magnate, real estate developer, investor, writer, lieutenant colonel in the Spanish–American War, and a prominent member of the Astor family. He was among the most ...

. His paternal lineage descended from John O'Kane who emigrated to the country in 1752 from

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and

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. During the

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, O'Kane (who dropped the "'O" once in America) was living at Sharyvogne, his estate in

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, which was confiscated after the War due to his

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ties. His eldest son, John Jr., stayed and became one of the most prominent merchants in New York. The family lived fashionably in lower Broadway. Their summer cottage, Beach Cliffe, designed by

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, was one of the earliest Newport houses "to attain a sort of Beaux-Arts purity." Kane graduated from the

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, in 1868. Following his service in the

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, he studied at

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, in

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and in 1873, graduated from

Columbia Law School Columbia Law School (CLS) is the Law school in the United States, law school of Columbia University, a Private university, private Ivy League university in New York City. The school was founded in 1858 as the Columbia College Law School. The un ...

Career

Kane, who inherited $10,000,000 from his mother's family, was a

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in the First Cavalry, U.S.A. from 1868 to 1870, when he retired as a

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, a title by which he was known for most of his life. In 1876, Kane founded, with Col. William Jay, Coaching Club of New York devoted to the coaching of horses which he picked up after his time spent in England. His

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, "Tally-ho" was the first private stagecoach for pleasure riding in the

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Society life

In 1892, both Kane and his wife Eleanora were included in

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's "

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", purported to be an index of New York's best families, published in ''

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''. Conveniently, 400 was the number of people that could fit into Mrs. Astor's ballroom. He was a member of the Union Club,

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, the

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, Country Club, the Coaching Club, the

New York Yacht Club The New York Yacht Club (NYYC) is a private social club and yacht club based in New York City and Newport, Rhode Island. It was founded in 1844 by nine prominent sportsmen. The members have contributed to the sport of yachting and yacht design. ...

and the

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s. His wife's father built them a county estate, known as "The Paddocks" in

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. The estate had a panoramic view of the

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and

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Personal life

In 1872, Kane was married to Eleanora Iselin (1849–1938), a daughter of merchant and banker

Adrian Georg Iselin Adrian Georg Iselin (January 17, 1818March 28, 1905) was a New York financier who invested in and developed real estate, railroads, and mining operations. For many years during his early business career he was engaged in importing with his broth ...

. Eleanora was also a sister of Adrian Jr.,

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and Charles Iselin. In 1901, Kane and his wife purchased the former home of Arthur Astor Carey in Newport for $100,000 where he became a permanent resident. Together, they were the parents of one child: * DeLancey Iselin Kane (1877–1940), who was painted by

Thomas Dewing Thomas Wilmer Dewing (May 4, 1851November 5, 1938) was an American painter working at the turn of the 20th century. Schooled in Paris, Dewing was noted for his figure paintings of aristocratic women. He was a founding member of the Ten America ...

in 1887. Kane died of

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on April 4, 1915, at the Kane estate in

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Notes

References

External links

*
Painting of DeLancey Iselin Kane dressed in a sailor suite
by Thomas Wilmer Dewing in 1887 at the

Museum of the City of New York The Museum of the City of New York (MCNY) is a history and art museum in Manhattan, New York City, New York. It was founded by Henry Collins Brown, in 1923Beard, Rick. "Museum of the City of New York" in to preserve and present the history ...

Painting of Eleanora Iselin Kane (Mrs. DeLancey Astor Kane)
by Thomas Wilmer Dewing in 1888 at the

{{DEFAULTSORT:Kane, DeLancey Astor 1844 births 1915 deaths DeLancey Astor Kane United States Military Academy alumni Alumni of Trinity College, Cambridge Columbia Law School alumni Military personnel from New Rochelle, New York Iselin family Kane family United States Army officers People from Newport, Rhode Island Deaths from pneumonia in New York (state) Burials at Common Burying Ground and Island Cemetery