"Dance with Me" is a song recorded by American rock band
Blink-182
Blink-182 is an American Rock music, rock band formed in Poway, California, in 1992. Its current and best-known line-up consists of bassist and vocalist Mark Hoppus, guitarist and vocalist Tom DeLonge, and drummer Travis Barker. Though its so ...
. The song was released on October 5, 2023, through
as the fourth single from their ninth album ''
One More Time...''. It was written by bassist
Mark Hoppus
Mark Allan Hoppus (born March 15, 1972) is an American musician and record producer. He is the co-lead vocalist, co-founder, and bassist for the rock band Blink-182 and the only member to appear on every album.
Hoppus became interested in ska ...
, guitarist
Tom DeLonge, and drummer
Travis Barker
Travis Landon Barker (born November 14, 1975) is an American musician, songwriter, and music producer who is the drummer for the rock band Blink-182. He has collaborated with hip hop artists, is a member of the rap rock group Transplants ...
, alongside engineer Aaron Rubin and songwriters
Dan Book
Daniel Steven Book (born July 20, 1983) is a producer and songwriter, originally from Baltimore, Maryland. After moving to Los Angeles, he has racked up a discography with notable label artists as well as composing and producing songs for Disney ...
and
Nick Long
Nicholas Alexander Long is an American songwriter and singer. He is best known as the founder and frontman of indie pop band Dark Waves, and for co-writing Machine Gun Kelly (musician), Machine Gun Kelly's ''Tickets to My Downfall'' and ''Mainstrea ...
.
Background
The song opens with a crude, spoken-word joke from DeLonge: "When I teach
masturbation
Masturbation is a form of autoeroticism in which a person Sexual stimulation, sexually stimulates their own Sex organ, genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. Stimulation may involve the use of han ...
, I'm always just like, 'Have fun with it.'"
Throughout the song, DeLonge encourages a partner to dance, with lyrics like "I've been waiting around to lose / So dumb, trying to make believe / You're mine, what are you gonna do / Come here, do you want to come dance with me?"
Columnists for ''
Spin
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'' observed the song shares a title with another song by
T.S.O.L.
T.S.O.L. (True Sounds of Liberty) is an American punk rock band formed in 1978 in Huntington Beach, California. Although most commonly associated with hardcore punk, T.S.O.L.'s music has varied on each release, including such styles as deathro ...
, one of DeLonge's preferred groups.
Music video

The song's music video was intended as a "love letter" to the
Ramones
The Ramones were an American punk rock band formed in the New York City neighborhood Forest Hills, Queens in 1974. Known for helping establish the punk movement in the United States and elsewhere, the Ramones are often recognized as one of th ...
, one of their biggest influences.
It finds the band dressing up in the style of the Ramones, including wigs,
sunglasses
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, and
leather jackets.
The clip begins with an interview (featuring
Lisa Gilroy
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Early life
Gilroy is originally from t ...
as host), spoofing the Ramones' 1981 interview on ''
The Tomorrow Show
''The Tomorrow Show'' (also known as ''Tomorrow with Tom Snyder'' or ''Tomorrow'' and, after 1980, ''Tomorrow Coast to Coast'') is an American late-night television talk show hosted by Tom Snyder that aired on NBC in first-run form from October ...
''.
As the song begins, the video switches to the three seated at a table—a reference to the 1988 "
I Wanna Be Sedated
"I Wanna Be Sedated" is a song by American punk rock band Ramones, originally released on the band's fourth studio album, '' Road to Ruin'' (1978), in September 1978 and as the B-side of the UK single "She's the One" released on September 21, 19 ...
" visual
—while doctors, nurses (with one portraying the nurse from the band's own ''
Enema of the State
''Enema of the State'' is the third studio album by American rock band Blink-182, released on June 1, 1999, by MCA Records. After a long series of performances at various clubs and festivals along with several indie recordings throughout the ...
'' album cover), clowns, cheerleaders, construction workers, brides, and various other people run around. The footage is intercut with shots of the band playing at a
CBGB
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-style backdrop,
as well as posing in front of a brick wall, a la the Ramones' famous
debut album cover.
The video was directed by
the Malloys
The Malloys is the working name of music video and film directors and brothers Emmett Malloy and Brendan Malloy. They have been with Superprime Films since 2010.
Videography
*" DANCE WITH ME" by blink-182 (2023)
*"Holiday" by Vampire Weekend ...
,
with whom the band last collaborated with on the 2001 videos for "
The Rock Show
"The Rock Show" is a song by American rock band Blink-182 for the group's fourth studio album, ''Take Off Your Pants and Jacket'' (2001). It was released as the lead single from the album on May 7, 2001. The track was composed primarily by bassi ...
" and "
First Date
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".
Reception
"Dance with Me" was well-received among music critics. Kate Solomon at ''
The Guardian
''The Guardian'' is a British daily newspaper. It was founded in Manchester in 1821 as ''The Manchester Guardian'' and changed its name in 1959, followed by a move to London. Along with its sister paper, ''The Guardian Weekly'', ''The Guardi ...
'' observed: "Blink have not lost their knack for crafting thumping choruses before hitting you with a ghostly, mesmeric bridge to remind you that life is fleeting and you might as well be in a sweaty pile of bodies yelling “olé olé olé” while you’re here."
Bobby Olivier at ''
Spin
Spin or spinning most often refers to:
* Spin (physics) or particle spin, a fundamental property of elementary particles
* Spin quantum number, a number which defines the value of a particle's spin
* Spinning (textiles), the creation of yarn or thr ...
'' called it "a high-tempo party cut with its deliciously dopey chorus
..Is it a little hollow? Sure, but you'll be singing before the tune is finished."
Uproxx
Uproxx Studios (stylized as ''UPROXX'') is an American music, entertainment and popular culture website and content studio. It was founded in 2008 by Jarret Myer and Brian Brater. The website was acquired in 2014 by Woven Digital (which later ...
writer Danielle Chelosky described the "clamorous" song "as fun as it is loud, and the lyrics are as chaotic as the sound."
Helen Brown from ''
The Independent
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'' commended its energy and "pelting pace,"
while Gil Kaufman of ''
Billboard
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'' described "Dance with Me" as a "raucous
pop-punk
Pop-punk (also punk-pop, alternatively spelled without the hyphen) is a rock music fusion genre that combines elements of punk rock with power pop or pop music, pop. It is defined by its fast-paced, energetic tempos, and emphasis on classic pop s ...
tune".
Many reviewers favorably compared the song to the band's earlier material.
Stereogum
''Stereogum'' is a daily Internet publication that focuses on music news, reviews, interviews, and commentary. The site was created in January 2002 by Scott Lapatine.
''Stereogum'' was one of the first MP3 blogs and has received several awar ...
editorialist Pranav Trewn viewed the song as a "real gem" that earns its place among "pre-hiatus material on a setlist."
Emma Wilkes from ''
NME
''New Musical Express'' (''NME'') is a British music, film, gaming and culture website, bimonthly magazine, and brand. Founded as a newspaper in 1952, with the publication being referred to as a "Rock music, rock inkie", the ''NME'' would be ...
'' concurred: the "gloriously sticky hook is instantly memorable and is silly enough to have been a relic from Blink’s most popular era."
Matt Collar from
AllMusic
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considered the song a "classic Blink-anthem that wouldn't sound out of place" on its millennial albums.
Personnel
Credits adapted from the song's YouTube video.
Blink-182
*
Tom DeLonge – vocals, guitar, songwriting
*
Mark Hoppus
Mark Allan Hoppus (born March 15, 1972) is an American musician and record producer. He is the co-lead vocalist, co-founder, and bassist for the rock band Blink-182 and the only member to appear on every album.
Hoppus became interested in ska ...
– vocals, bass guitar, songwriting
*
Travis Barker
Travis Landon Barker (born November 14, 1975) is an American musician, songwriter, and music producer who is the drummer for the rock band Blink-182. He has collaborated with hip hop artists, is a member of the rap rock group Transplants ...
– drums, producer, songwriting
Additional Musician
*
Kevin Bivona
Kevin Bivona (born November 8, 1986) is an American multi-instrumentalist and audio engineer best known for his work with Tim Armstrong's various musical projects, particularly the Transplants and Rancid. He is currently the guitarist for the ...
– piano, synthesizer, recording engineer
Production
*Aaron Rubin – songwriting, co-producer,
recording engineer
An audio engineer (also known as a sound engineer or recording engineer) helps to produce a recording or a live performance, balancing and adjusting sound sources using equalization, dynamics processing and audio effects, mixing, reproducti ...
*
Nick Long
Nicholas Alexander Long is an American songwriter and singer. He is best known as the founder and frontman of indie pop band Dark Waves, and for co-writing Machine Gun Kelly (musician), Machine Gun Kelly's ''Tickets to My Downfall'' and ''Mainstrea ...
– songwriting
*
Dan Book
Daniel Steven Book (born July 20, 1983) is a producer and songwriter, originally from Baltimore, Maryland. After moving to Los Angeles, he has racked up a discography with notable label artists as well as composing and producing songs for Disney ...
– songwriting
* Nick Morzov – recording engineer
* Eric Emery – recording engineer
* John Warren – recording engineer
*
Kevin Gruft
Kevin Gruft or Kevin Thrasher or Kevin "Thrasher" Gruft (born May 5, 1988) is an American guitarist and music producer from Albany, New York, known for being the former lead guitarist of the rock bands Escape the Fate and LoveHateHero. He releas ...
– recording engineer
*
Adam Hawkins
Adam Hawkins (born July 1976) is an American recording and mix engineer.
Life and career
Hawkins was born in New Jersey, and later moved with his family to North Carolina. After graduating from high school he moved back to New Jersey to become a ...
–
mix engineer
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* Henry Lunetta – assistant engineer
*
Randy Merrill
Randy Merrill is an American mastering engineer who has worked with international artists including Blink-182, DAY6, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Maroon 5, Harry Styles, One Direction, Adele, Imagine Dragons, Beck, Liam Gallagher, Jonas Brothers, Muse ...
–
mastering
Charts
References
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2023 singles
2023 songs
Blink-182 songs
Columbia Records singles
Music videos directed by The Malloys
Songs written by Mark Hoppus
Songs written by Tom DeLonge
Songs written by Travis Barker