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An aguna or agunah (, plural: , ''ʿaḡunoṯ'') is a
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woman who is stuck in her
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as determined by traditional
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(Jewish law). The classic case is a man who has left on a journey and has not returned or has gone into battle and is
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. It is used as a borrowed term to refer to a woman whose husband refuses or is unable to grant her a
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(which requires a document known as a '' get''). For a divorce to be effective, halakha requires a man to grant his wife a ''get'' of his own
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. Without a ''get,'' no new marriage will be recognized, and any child she might have with another man would be considered a ''
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'' (
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). It is sometimes possible for a woman to receive special dispensation from a
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(halakhic authority), called a ''heter agunah'', based on a complex decision supported by substantial evidence that her husband is presumed dead, but this cannot be applied if the husband is alive. Because of the difficulty for women in such situations, it has been a task for every generation of halakhic authorities to try to find halakhically acceptable means to permit such women to remarry. In the past, it was not uncommon, due to the danger of travel and primitive means of communication, for people to leave home and never be heard from again; consequently, rabbis often had to deal with this issue. Over the past few centuries, thousands of
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have been written to deal with cases of agunot. In the past, most aguna cases were due to a husband dying without leaving evidence of his demise or becoming
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. Many aguna cases arise from a husband withholding a ''get'', perhaps seeking a more favorable divorce settlement or out of vindictiveness. In response aguna groups have organized to support these women and try to find a solution to this problem. Various remedies have been proposed, but no one solution has common acceptance. Nevertheless, the
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is one remedy in use in
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and is accepted by moderate halakhic authorities.


Jewish law


Causes

Circumstances leading to a woman being declared an aguna are: * The disappearance of the husband without any witnesses declaring that he is dead; * The husband succumbing to a physical or mental disease that leaves him in a
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or insane and unable actively to grant a divorce; * The husband refusing to grant his wife a ''get'' when she is deemed entitled to one under Jewish law. A woman denied a ''get'' by her husband is technically called a ''mesorevet get'', although the term aguna is more commonly used. A woman who is denied a divorce from her husband is not considered an aguna until her husband refuses an order by a '' beth din'' (rabbinic court) to give her a ''get''. What constitutes a legitimate request for a divorce is based on halakhic considerations and the particular case of the couple. See ''Mesorevet get'' below. In modern and ancient times,
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fare has been a major cause of women being declared ''agunot'' (plural of aguna), as (especially in ancient times) soldiers are often killed with no one knowing. Many efforts have been made to resolve this problem following ''halakhic'' principles, including issuing a provisional ''get'' that only goes into effect if the husband does not return by a specified date. During
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s provided combat soldiers with a "provisional ''get''", which only goes into effect if the husband is missing in action, leaving his wife an aguna. This practice is based on the Talmudic declaration that
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did not commit adultery when lying with
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(see II Samuel 11), since all of his soldiers (including Bathsheba's husband) gave a "provisional ''get''" to their wives before leaving for battle. This practice can raise ''halakhic'' issues, especially for
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(members of the priestly class). Since they are forbidden from marrying divorcees, were they to end up returning safely after the date the provisional ''get'' went into effect they would be unable to remarry their wives.


Ways to resolve an agunah case

Because of the serious nature of
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in Jewish law, an aguna is forbidden to marry another man, regardless of the circumstances, whether accidental or malicious, that left her an aguna in the first place, or the amount of time that has passed since she first became an aguna. A child born from another man to an aguna is considered a ''safek'' ''
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'' (
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), and may only marry a convert. Because of the dire situation of the aguna, every effort is made to release her from her marriage. This can be done in three ways: * Locating the husband and persuading him to give his wife a ''get''; * Providing evidence that the husband is dead; * Finding a flaw in the original marriage ceremony, thereby retroactively annulling the marriage. According to most
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s, reasonable circumstantial evidence is sufficient to prove the death of the husband, and no direct testimony is required. This is based, among other things, on the
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ic assertion: "The Rabbis taught: 'If he fell into a
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's den, ring witnesses totestify
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In other words, if it is known that the man fell into a ditch of snakes and scorpions and did not come out, it can be assumed that he is dead, and there is no need for further evidence (unlike falling into a lion's den where there is still a slight chance of survival). If, however, it is later discovered that the husband is not dead, the woman will find herself in particularly bad circumstances: her children from her second marriage will be considered ''mamzerim'', and she will be forced to divorce both her first and second husbands, subject to the ''halakhic'' ruling that an adulterous woman "is forbidden to her husband and the man with whom she fornicated". While such situations are extremely rare under normal circumstances, they did occur in the aftermath of the
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and also occurred frequently in the wake of
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s and other forms of persecution. Finding a flaw in the marriage ceremony is considered to be a last resort in releasing an aguna. It is rarely used as it is typically difficult to find actual cause in most marriages sufficient to invalidate them retroactively. In Jewish law, a marriage must be performed in front of two witnesses. In order to release the aguna, efforts are made to identify reasons why one of the witnesses was ineligible. This is typically unachievable as strong efforts are made at the time of marriage to ensure the validity of the witnesses and the marriage ceremony. Another possibility is to prove that the woman did not consent to the marriage clearly and of her own free will, so that the marriage ceremony is declared invalid. This too is not generally accepted amongst the ''halakhic'' authorities as there is generally no method to disprove intent. It is felt that the purpose of this endeavor is solely or primarily to retroactively delegitimize a marriage that was performed and accepted often many years previously. Annulling the marriage has no impact on the status of the woman's children. However, since it is not a generally accepted mechanism, it may leave the wife susceptible to a ''halakhic'' ruling that she was still married, and any subsequent relations with another man to be adultery. And it may lead to other halakhic problems, so it is only used as a last resort by the authorities that do accept its use.


Conservative Judaism

At the 1998 Jerusalem ''Agunot Conference'', Mayer Rabinowitz, the Chairman of the Joint Bet Din of the Conservative Movement, explained the four approaches taken by leaders of Conservative Judaism to find remedies for the problem of the aguna. The first, beginning in the 1950s, was the inclusion of the
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in the ''
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'' (marriage contract). Named for Talmudic scholar and Jewish Theological Seminary (JTS) professor
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, the clause requires that a ''get'' be granted if a civil divorce is ever issued. While most Orthodox rabbis have rejected the Lieberman clause, leaders of the Conservative movement claim that the original intent was to find a solution that could be used by Orthodox and Conservative rabbis alike, and that leaders of Orthodox Judaism's
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, and respected Orthodox rabbis, including
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, supposedly recognized the clause as valid. Later, because some civil courts viewed the enforcement of a religious document as a violation of the
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, Conservative rabbis began to require couples to sign a separate letter, stating that the clause had been explained to them as part of pre-marital counseling, and that both parties understood and agreed to its conditions, recognizing that this letter would constitute a separate civil document, enforceable in a civil court. However, many Conservative rabbis, including some on the movement's own law committee, had growing misgivings about the clause for religious reasons. The second approach fell into the category of conditional marriages, ''t'nai b'kiddushin,'' and was based in part on past approaches used by both the French and Turkish rabbinates—but, according to Rabinowitz—had improvements gleaned from lessons learned from those past experiences. The ''ketubah'' was not changed, but a separate pre-marital agreement was signed, and in the presence of the rabbinical court, the prospective groom read it, and the prospective bride stated that she agreed to it. The agreement was that the parties understood that if a civil divorce were ever granted, then a get must be delivered within six months of that date. A refusal to abide by that agreement would give the court no choice but to consider the original marriage, and the original declaration of the groom, so flawed that it would be as if that marriage never occurred. The third approach, using contacts both within Judaism and external to it, was to coerce the recalcitrant husband to grant a get. One example cited at the conference was a case where the civilly-divorced husband planned to remarry, this time to a Catholic woman in a Catholic religious ceremony. The Conservative movement's Bet Din contacted the Catholic Church, which agreed to refuse to have the marriage performed until the previous marriage was religiously dissolved, resulting in the almost immediate granting of the get by the husband. Finally, in 1968, by a unanimous vote of the law committee, the final approach was initiated, when it was decided that the Joint Bet Din of the Conservative Movement could annul marriages as a last resort, based on the Talmudic principle of ''hafka'at kiddushin''. According to Rabinowitz, just the threat of this action was sometimes enough to compel the former husband to grant a get.


Changes in Orthodox approach

There is a long history of concern for the agunah on the part of Orthodox rabbis, and a number of proposals have been put forth for consideration by religious leaders. So far, no solution has been found that satisfies most orthodox religious leaders. A number of modern papers and conferences have continued to discuss both issues and possible solutions, including the possibility of a modern ''
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'' (religious legislative enaction), to empower the
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to intervene to annul marriages retroactively, in a way that was possible for some time during the Middle Ages. Such proposals are considered too radical—and not legally permissible (in terms of halakha)—by most orthodox leaders. However, as studies and discussions continue, a number of modern works and conferences have referenced the work of past Orthodox rabbis, such as
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, who recommended in 1930/31 that every Jewish marriage be made contingent on the "continuing agreement" of the local rabbinic court, so that the court could retroactively annul the marriage as a remedy to the agunah problem; and
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, who recommended in 1937 that such consideration be given not to every local court, but at least to the Jerusalem rabbinical court, specifically recognizing that authority in the words recited under the ''
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'' (wedding canopy). Risikoff, among others, also proposed a discussion of the reinstatement of the Biblical status of the
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, a relationship status between man and woman that does not require a Get upon dissolution, thereby avoiding the category of agunah. Other approaches that have been discussed by religious leaders, including leading Orthodox rabbis, have included the possibility of
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s, not incorporated into the ketubah or mentioned in the words recited by the groom during the ceremony, through which the husband and wife agree to abide by orders of a designated Beth Din, regarding the giving or acceptance of a get. Jechiel Perr discussed such a proposal, and it has been reported that
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, looked upon this idea with favor, and Australian Chabad rabbi
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has spoken out strongly in favor of it. Additionally, discussions have considered the possibility of various forms of coercion that could be applied to the husband, to compel him to grant the ''get''. No proposal has so far met with wide approval on the part of the Orthodox rabbinate, although there have been some cases of individual rabbis taking what has been viewed as "maverick" individual action, including the convening of rabbinic courts to annul marriages, using the
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model. Such actions have been widely condemned within the orthodox community. In 2012 the International Rabbinic Fellowship (IRF), an organization of (as of 2012) 150 Modern Orthodox rabbis, passed a resolution saying that, "IRF Rabbis may not officiate at a wedding unless the couple has signed a halakhic prenuptial agreement. IRF Rabbis are further encouraged to participate ritually only in weddings in which the couple has signed a halakhic prenuptial agreement. Ritual participation includes but is not limited to reading the ''ketubah'', serving as a witness, and making one of the ''sheva berachot''". By 2019, the vast majority of Modern Orthodox rabbis took the same approach.


''Zika le-Yibbum''

A related case is that of a woman whose husband has died childless: in such a situation, the husband's brother is required by Jewish law to enter into ''
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'' (a kind of
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) with the widow so as to have children with her in the name of the deceased. The brother can refuse to do ''yibbum'' and instead perform a ceremony known as ''
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'' to release her from her bond to him (in modern times ''halizah'' is nearly always performed instead of ''yibbum''). If the brother is missing, or if he is still a child, the woman is required to wait until he is located or has reached
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so that he can perform the ''halizah'' ceremony. There have been recorded cases of the husband's brother trying to blackmail the widow by delaying the ''halizah'' ceremony, effectively leaving her as an aguna.


In Israel

In 1947
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acceded that the authority in matters of marriage and divorce would be invested in the hands of the Chief Rabbinate of Israel, and an agreement was signed in recognition of this decision (among other matters). This agreement is known as the "status quo letter". In 1953 the
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enacted the Rabbinical Courts Jurisdiction (Marriage and Divorce) Law, 5713 – 1953. Section 1 of the Law states, "Matters of marriage and divorce of Jews in Israel, being citizens or residents of the State, shall be under the exclusive jurisdiction of the rabbinical courts." The substantive provision of section 2 of this Law further states: "Marriages and divorces of Jews shall be performed in Israel in accordance with Jewish religious law" (din torah). In 2007 the Chief Rabbinate found that in Israel men and women were refused divorce in equal numbers, 180 women and 185 men over a two-year period. The Director-General of the Rabbinical Courts said this showed that "the claims by women's organizations of thousands of women whose husbands refuse to give them divorces have no basis in reality". Nevertheless,
"A woman suffers more in this situation, as she is Biblically forbidden to marry again; and children she might bear to another man would be considered ''mamzerim'' according to ''halakha''. A man is similarly not permitted to marry before being divorced, but the ban is much less severe (because monogamy was instituted by one single overreaching authority in Europe in around the year 1000 CE, and was accepted in Europe among the (
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), whereas
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and
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(Eastern) Jewish communities did not formally accept monogamy only until very recently, after
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to Israel in 1950's onward.) This considered, a man's future children will not be considered illegitimate."
In 2015 Tzohar (a religious Zionist rabbinic organization in Israel), along with the
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, introduced a prenuptial agreement meant to help ensure divorcing wives will receive a ''get''; under the agreement the husband commits to paying a high sum of money daily to his spouse in the event of a separation. In 2018 the
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passed a law, slated to remain in effect for three years, allowing Israel's rabbinical courts to handle certain cases of Jewish women wishing to divorce their Jewish husbands, even if neither the wife nor the husband is an Israeli citizen.


''Mesorevet get'' (''Get'' refusal)

A ''mesorevet get'' is a Jewish woman who is a victim of "get refusal", and is known as a modern-day "agunah". According to ''halakha'', a ''get'' is only valid when it is given by a husband to his wife of his own free will. However, under certain circumstances such as intimate partner violence or emotional abuse, especially where such abuse and refusal to grant a get, or ignoring the ruling of a beit din, has been ongoing for a period of several years, certain kinds of pressure may be applied on a husband to force him to grant a divorce to his wife. Where a woman has proven one or more of a list of particular grounds for divorce, the beth din (rabbinical court) may apply pressure on the husband in these situations. There are some ''halakhic'' decisors who would act accordingly in the cases of abuse or neglect. Nevertheless, not under all circumstances is a wife entitled to demand a divorce according to ''halakha''. If a wife who is not ''halakhically'' entitled to a divorce does demand one, she may not be considered as a ''mesorevet get'' by a rabbinical court. However, not any woman who wants to leave an unwanted marriage but is refused by her husband, is considered to be a victim of ''get'' refusal. There are opinions that deem a woman's repugnance for her husband as acceptable ''halakhic'' grounds for coercion. "It is said: In cases of granting a ''get'' to a woman, the man is forced until he says, 'I wish to do so. Nevertheless, in almost all cases, it is required to leave the man some say in the matter, lest the ''get'' be considered a "coerced divorce", which is halakhically invalid. As ruled by ''
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'', pressures that can be exerted against the man include
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, denying him communal benefits and honors, and in extreme cases even imprisonment. Starting in the mid-1980s, the
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employed violent tactics such as kidnapping, beating and torture to extort ''gittin'' and money from husbands in troubled marriages. They were arrested by the
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in 2013, and sentenced to prison. In 2016, another rabbinical team was arrested on suspicion of planning the contract killing of a husband in order to free his wife. In Israel, rabbinical courts are allowed by law to implement various measures to persuade a man to grant his wife a ''get'' (Rabbinical Courts Law nforcement of Divorce Rulings5755–1995). These sanctions are a modern-day version of the aforementioned, ''Harchakot D'Rabeinu Tam,'' which include: revoking of a driver's license, closing of bank accounts, revoking professional licenses such as medical and legal, cancellation of a passport, and incarceration. Practically, one of the most effective of these has turned out to be revoking a recalcitrant husband's driver's license. Even so, neither the laws nor the Israeli Rabbinical Courts' enforcement, or lack thereof, have succeeded in eliminating ''get'' refusal in Israel. In the Diaspora, the rabbinical courts have no such powers, and any practical power that they may wield would be the product of a binding arbitration agreement (such as Prenuptial Agreement for the Prevention of Get-Refusal), if signed previously by the combating couple. Within the past decade, both Orthodox rabbinical groups and women's organizations have decried the increasing number of cases of ''get'' refusal, as well as establishing task forces to deal with the issue and to help individual victims of ''get'' refusal.


Activism

Many women's groups assert that rabbinical courts fail to use all the measures at their disposal to force men to grant their wives a ''get'', thereby allowing a vengeful husband to blackmail his wife for years. Public criticism of the courts, as well as demonstrations, have been attempted to influence particularly notorious cases. Several solutions have been proposed to help women who are denied a ''get'': * Increasing the means available to the rabbinic courts to force husbands to grant their wives a ''get''. In Israel, rabbinic courts can even imprison a husband until he acquiesces and grants a ''get'' to his wife. This is not, however, an option for rabbinic courts elsewhere, since they do not have the support of the state. * Having couples sign a
Jewish prenuptial agreement The Jewish prenuptial agreement has been developed in recent times with the stated intent of keeping the Jewish woman from becoming an agunah in cases where the husband refuses to grant her a ''Get (divorce document), get'' (Jewish divorce document ...
, which requires the husband to pay high spousal support to his wife if he denies her a ''get'', so as to provide incentive to the couple not to delay the divorce. Halakhic authorities in the United States have validated particular prenuptial agreements for the prevention of get-refusal. * Having couples prepare a "provisional ''get''," which will only go into effect under certain predefined circumstances. * Having couples agree to a "conditional marriage," which includes a stipulation in the marriage ceremony citing that under certain conditions (such as living apart for an extended period of time), the marriage itself would be nullified with no need for a ''get''. In 1995 the Israeli parliament gave the rabbinical court expanded legal power to sanction men who refuse to give their wives a ''get'' by suspending their driver's licenses, seizing their bank accounts, preventing travel abroad and even imprisoning those who do not comply with an order to grant a divorce; however, women's groups say the 1995 law is not very effective because the court uses sanctions in less than 2% of cases. In 2004, Justice Menachem HaCohen of the
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Family Court offered new hope to ''agunot'' when he ruled that a man refusing his wife a ''get'' must pay her NIS 425,000 in punitive damages, because " fusal to grant a ''get'' constitutes a severe infringement on her ability to lead a reasonable, normal life, and can be considered emotional abuse lasting several years." He noted that " is is not another sanction against someone refusing to give a ''get'', intended to speed up the process of granting a ''get'', and this court is not involving itself in any future arrangements for the granting of a ''get'', but rather, it is a direct response to the consequences that stem from not granting a ''get'', and the right of the woman to receive punitive damages." This ruling stemmed from the Public Litigation Project initiated by the advocacy organization Center for Women's Justice as one of a number of successful lawsuits filed in Israeli civil courts claiming financial damages against recalcitrant husbands. In 2007, the Rabbinical Courts Administration released a report concerning agunot in Israel. The report clarified that various categories of unresolved divorce cases existed and that only a small percentage of cases are deemed as receiving the status of agunah. The report stated that in 2006-07 there were 942 unresolved divorce cases, with 69 receiving the status of agunah. The report selected 346 of the total as a sample for analysis. Referring to a subset of the total cases, the report indicated that 180 cases involved husbands refusing a divorce while 190 cases involved the wife refusing a divorce. Outside Israel, an aguna could obtain a civil divorce and remarry via
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, as non-Israeli legal systems generally do not recognize the aguna status. Nevertheless, an aguna would not typically pursue a second marriage, since her first marriage is still valid according to halakha, any other sexual relationships would constitute
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from her first husband. Furthermore, according to halakha, any children born by an agunah are considered ''mamzerim''. In 2014 the Rabbinate of
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instituted the requirement for all Jewish couples that marry under its auspices to sign a rabbinic prenuptial agreement. The agreement states that in the case of the couple divorcing civilly, the husband is obligated to immediately deliver to his wife a get. The initiative was launched by Sara Winkowski, a director of the Kehila, the Comunidad Israelita del Uruguay (Jewish Community of Uruguay), who is also a Vice President of the World Jewish Congress and longtime activist for the rights of women within Jewish law. In a 2020 landmark case in London, a woman obtained a ''get'' after launching a private criminal prosecution against her husband for "controlling and coercive behaviour in an intimate of family relationship" contrary to section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015. This was submitted on the basis that her husband had kept her in an intimate relationship against her will. The criminal prosecution was dropped when the husband relented and provided the ''get'' rather than face the prospect of a substantial prison sentence. Subsequently, in 2022, another suit was successfully pursued resulting in a Manchester businessman pleading guilty to coercive behavior for refusing to give his wife a ''get''. This case marks the first complete application of the 2015 legislative effort to prevent the situation of agunot. In March 2024, Orthodox social media influencer Adina Sash (known online as Flatbush Girl) called for women in the Orthodox community to refrain from having sex with their husbands in order to draw attention to Malky Berkowitz's four-year-long effort to secure a ''get'' from an abusive husband. The "''mikvah'' strike" (so named because Orthodox women must ritually purify themselves in a bath known as a ''mikvah'' before engaging in sexual relations) generated significant controversy within Orthodox communities around the world. Berkowitz received a ''get'' in September 2024.


Agunah Day

Agunah Day was established by ICAR—The International Coalition for Agunah Rights—in 1990, to raise public awareness to the plight of the Agunah and galvanize action to solve the problem. It is observed on the
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date of the Fast of Esther. The Fast of Esther was chosen by ICAR as Agunah Day in order to symbolize identification with the Agunah for two contrasting reasons—due to affliction and due to salvation. Like Esther, the aguna of the present era does not want to be in the marriage in which she finds herself. Like Esther, many women who are refused a get live in fear of their spouses and live a double life. Like Esther, the aguna, a victim of get-refusal, finds herself lacking control of her own freedom.


Male "agunim"

The Torah allows a man to have multiple wives, and a child born to a married man with a single woman is not considered to be a ''mamzer''. Thus, while a woman who enters a new relationship while married suffers severe halachic consequences, a man doing the same suffers much lighter consequences. However, in the beginning of the 11th century,
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issued a decree prohibiting Jewish men from practising
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(though this was not accepted by certain remote Jewish communities such as the
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s). To prevent this decree from causing flippant divorces previously unnecessary, Rabbenu Gershom also decreed that "a woman may not be divorced against her will." These decrees made it possible for men to become "agunim" just as women become "agunot", if his wife should disappear or refuse to accept a get. To resolve the situation of such a man, the ''
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'' (exemption by one hundred rabbis) was established, to permit him to take a second wife (after depositing a ''get'' for the first wife with the rabbis). However, due to complexities, costs and other reasons, many husbands do not succeed in obtaining a ''heter meah rabbanim'', and thus remain chained to their wives. In Israel, there are more cases in which women choose not to accept a ''get'' when a husband wants to give one, than cases in which the man refuses to grant a ''get''. There are also cases where the ''get'' is offered to protect the wife. For example, if the husband is undertaking a dangerous activity, or is being imprisoned for a lengthy time, he may wish to divorce entirely to help his wife by freeing her. Often, such offers are refused.


Karaite Judaism

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, which does not recognize the authority of the
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, bases its divorce law entirely on the Torah: "A man takes a wife and possesses her. She fails to please him because he finds something obnoxious about her, and he writes her a bill of divorcement, hands it to her, and sends her away from his house." (Deuteronomy 24:1) Therefore, under Karaite law, it is difficult for a woman to obtain a divorce unless it is explicitly written and delivered by her husband (or an appointed agent) whereas in Rabbinic Judaism there are several rare exceptions and cases where alternatives are available (annulments, forcing the husband to participate) Section 18 of ''Mikdash Me'at'' (an English translation of the Karaite halakhic work ''Adderet Eliyahu'') states:
A writ of divorce is called a ''sefer keritut''. Whether man or wife initiates the divorce, the woman is the one to receive the ''sefer keritut''. The purpose of the ''sefer keritut'' is to free a woman from her husband and certify that she may marry another man. It is preferable for the husband to willingly grant his wife a writ of divorce. The Sages differed, however, regarding cases in which the husband refuses to provide the writ. Some Sages held that the ''beit din'' may grant a woman a divorce even without a ''sefer keritut'' he equivalent of the Rabbinic Jewish ''get''from her (ex-)husband. Other Sages, however, argued that the beit din should coerce the man into writing a bill of divorce. This coercion may be done through gentile authorities.
This text clearly refers to known cases where a ''sefer keritut'' was denied, though it has been apparently uncommon:
Today, Karaite ''batei-din'' may grant women divorces even should the husband refuse to provide a writ. But this has occurred very rarely. As discussed, Rav Bashyatzi notes that some of the classical Sages also held this to be permissible. One such Sage is Rav Levi. Another is the 19th century Sage Rav Yitzchak Ben Shlomo.
Given the absence of ''agunot'', it has been said that "the Karaite halakhah introduced a real reinforcement of women’s rights in matters of divorce: divorce by juridical decree."


In the arts

* ''Getting Your Man'' (1996)—A play written and directed by Australian theatre director Margie Fischer for performance by Jewish community members on issues surrounding the Jewish religious divorce and get refusal.''The Australian Jewish News'', Friday, 25 July 1997.


See also

*
Lieberman clause The Lieberman clause is a clause included in a ''ketubah'' ( Jewish wedding document), created by and named after Talmudic scholar and Jewish Theological Seminary of America professor Saul Lieberman, that stipulates that divorce will be adjudicat ...
(Conservative Judaism) * Organization for the Resolution of Agunot


References


External links


Chabad.org: The Agunah

Organization for the Resolution of Agunot

Mavoi Satum: Opening The Dead End For the Aguna

The International Coalition for Agunah Rights

Jewish Virtual Library: Agunah
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