Inter-caste marriage
Intercaste marriage (ICM), also known as marrying out of caste, is a form of Exogamy, exogamous nuptial union that involve two individuals belonging to different castes. Intercaste marriages are particularly perceived as Acceptance, socially unacce ...
( ) is a type of marriage that is done outside of one's
caste
A caste is a Essentialism, fixed social group into which an individual is born within a particular system of social stratification: a caste system. Within such a system, individuals are expected to marry exclusively within the same caste (en ...
. Nepal has many castes and inter-caste marriage is generally considered
taboo
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. However, this kind of marriage has been gradually gaining acceptance.
It is against the law to discriminate against a person for their "cultural and ethnic" background.
Nevertheless, most Nepali families disapprove of inter-caste marriages because "they fear they will become
social outcasts".
According to research done by
Jagaran Media Center, inter-caste marriage often leads to
harassment
Harassment covers a wide range of behaviors of an offensive nature. It is commonly understood as behavior that demeans, humiliates, and intimidates a person, and it is characteristically identified by its unlikelihood in terms of social and ...
, forced separation, displacement, and
institutional discrimination
Institutional discrimination is discriminatory treatment of an individual or group of individuals by institutions, through unequal consideration of members of subordinate groups.
Societal discrimination is discrimination by society. These unfair ...
. Additionally, brides who are not accepted by their families were found to be at risk of
depression and psychosocial difficulties.
Background and reactions
In 1854, the Government of Nepal passed the "
Muluki Ain" commissioned by
Jung Bahadur Rana
Jung Bahadur Rana, , was born Bir Narsingh Kunwar (1817-1877). His mother, Ganesh Kumari, was the daughter of Kaji Nain Singh Thapa, the brother of Mukhtiyar Bhimsen Thapa from the prominent Thapa dynasty. During his lifetime, Jung Bahadur eli ...
.
This law outlawed marriage between people of a lower caste with those of a higher caste.
In 1963,
King Mahendra
Mahendra Bir Bikram Shah Dev (; 11 June 1920 – 31 January 1972) was King of Nepal from 13 March 1955 until his death in 1972.
He led the 1960 Nepal coup d'état, 1960 coup d'état, in which he dismissed the government, jailed other political ...
modified the law to abolish the "caste-based unequal citizenship".
Since then, inter-caste marriage has been gradually gaining acceptance throughout Nepal.
In 2009, the Government of Nepal announced that it would give a sum of रू100,000
Nepalese rupee
The Nepalese rupee (; currency sign, sign: रु; ISO 4217, code: NPR) is the official currency and legal tender of Nepal. It is also sometimes abbreviated as N₨ or Re./Rs. informally. The rupee is subdivided into 100 paisa, although coins of ...
s (roughly US$1,350) away to couples who have an inter-caste marriage.
The recipients would have to claim the sum within 30 days of the marriage.
Republica
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, however, has reported that there was no "government assistance for
Dalit women
Dalit ( from meaning "broken/scattered") is a term used for Untouchability, untouchables and Outcast (person), outcasts, who represented the lowest stratum of the Caste system in India, castes in the Indian subcontinent. They are also called ...
" who were left jilted by their upper-caste husbands.
Notable incidents
2004 Saptari kidnapping
In January 2004, Manoj Khanga, a member of the
Dalit
Dalit ( from meaning "broken/scattered") is a term used for untouchables and outcasts, who represented the lowest stratum of the castes in the Indian subcontinent. They are also called Harijans. Dalits were excluded from the fourfold var ...
community, and Parbati Raut, who were in an inter-caste wedding, were reportedly kidnapped by the bride's relatives.
Prior to that, the bride's family had filed a complaint in the police claiming that it the marriage was illegal. The couple were arrested but were released a few days later. Subsequently, the Dalit community living in
Saptari District
Saptari (), is Located in the easternmost part of Madhesh Province, is one of the seventy-seven districts of Nepal. Its district headquarter is Rajbiraj. Saptari is an Outer Terai district. This district covers an area of and has a population ...
, Nepal, was attacked by over 200 upper-caste people and were compelled to leave their village.
All of the property owned by Dalit communities was looted and vandalised (worth about est. 15 million Nepalese rupees).
The upper-caste community terrorized and told Khanga that they would "kill him in front of his family". The case was sent to the
Asian Human Rights Commission
The Asian Human Rights Commission (AHRC) is an independent, Non-governmental organization, non-governmental body that promotes human rights in Asia and mobilizes Asian and international public opinion to obtain relief and redress for the victims ...
.
Soti incident
In May 2020,
two bodies of Dalit men were found in the
Bheri River
The Bheri River is a major tributary of the ''Karnali River'' draining the western Dhaulagiri range in western Nepal. It has three important upper tributaries. Sani Bheri River drains southern slopes of this range while Thuli Bheri River drai ...
, a major tributary of the
Karnali River Karnali may refer to:
Places in Nepal
* Karnali Bridge, a bridge over the Karnali River in Nepal
* Karnali Highway, a vital transport link in Nepal
* Karnali Province, a federal province in Nepal
* Karnali River also known as Ghaghara and Sarayu, ...
.
The men were identified as Nabaraj BK and Tikaram Sunar. According to the Nepal police, 21-year-old BK with 18 others went to the Soti village in
Chaurjahari
Chaurjahari is a Municipality in Western Rukum District in Karnali Province of Nepal that was established in 2015 through the merging the two former Village development committees ''Bijayaswori'' and Kotjahari. It lies on the bank of Sani Bher ...
to marry a 17-year-old girl. The villagers allegedly attacked the group and chased them to the river. According to some villagers, the group was attacked because of their caste.
BK was a "lower-caste" man trying to marry an "upper-caste" girl. The girl's family, however, claimed that BK was trying to marry the underaged girl despite their refusal. BK had been in a relationship with the girl for three years and wanted to marry her.
United Nations Mission in Nepal
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called for an unbiased examination of the incident.
Notable inter-caste marriages
*Former Prime Minister
Baburam Bhattarai
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Bhattarai ...
(
Brahmin
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) and
Hisila Yami
Hisila Yami () (born 25 June 1959), also known by her nom de guerre Parvati, is a Nepalese politician and architect. She is a deputy chairman of Nepal Socialist Party and a former president of the All Nepal Women's Association (Revolutionary).
...
(
Newar
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)
*Pop singer
Nalina Chitrakar
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(
Newar
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) and Sanjeev Mishra (
Madhesi)
*Prime Minister
KP Sharma Oli
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Chairman of the ...
(Brahmin) and Rashika Shakya (
Newar
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)
Inter-caste marriage in film
* ''
Pandra Gate'' (1986), starring
Hari Bansha Acharya
Hari Bansha Acharya () is a Nepalese actor, comedian, director, singer and writer. He is known for his method acting. He is one half of the comedy duo MaHa Jodi along with fellow artist Madan Krishna Shrestha. He is known for his performance as ...
and
Sharmila Malla
Sharmila Malla () is a Nepalese actress, model and producer. She made her acting debut in the Kanchhi
''Kanchhi'' () is a 1984 Nepali film directed by B.S. Thapa and produced by Bhagawan Das Shrestha. The film was a major hit in Nepal.
The 1 ...
* ''
Bato Muni Ko Phool'' (2010), starring
Rekha Thapa
Rekha Thapa () (born 21 August 1982) is a Nepalese renowned actress, politician, filmmaker, and social activist, celebrated for her significant contributions to the Nepali film industry and her unwavering advocacy for women's empowerment. Over h ...
and
Yash Kumar.
* ''
Ghampani'' (2017), starring
Dayahang Rai
Dayahang Rai (; born 13 April 1980) is a Nepalese actor, director, and playwright. He is one of the most popular actor of Nepal. He has starred in over 50 films and is one of the leading contemporary actors of Nepal. He has received various acc ...
and
Keki Adhikari
Inter-caste marriage in literature
*''
Sumnima'', a novel by
B. P. Koirala
Bishweshwar Prasad Koirala (; 8 September 1914 – 21 July 1982), better known as B. P. Koirala (), was a Nepali revolutionary, political leader, and writer. He was the Prime Minister of Nepal from 1959 to 1960. He led the Nepali Congress ...
See also
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Love marriage
A love marriage is one which is driven solely by the couple, with or without consent of their parents, as opposed to arranged marriage. While there is no clear definition of love marriage, the term was in common use globally during the Victorian ...
*
Women in Nepal
The status of women in Nepal has varied throughout history. In the early 1990s, like in some other Asian countries, women in Nepal were generally subordinate to men in virtually every aspect of life. Historically, Nepal has been a predominantly ...
*
Inter-caste marriages in India
The inter-caste marriages in India have been gradually gaining acceptance due to increasing education, employment, middle-class economic background, and urbanisation . As of the 2011 census, 5.8% of the marriages in India were inter-caste marria ...
References
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