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X González (born Emma González; November 11, 1999) is an American activist and advocate for
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. In 2018, they survived the
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, the deadliest high school shooting in U.S. history, and, in response, co-founded the gun-control advocacy group
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. González gave a viral speech against
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, proclaiming "We call B.S." on the lack of action by politicians funded by the NRA. Subsequently, González continued to be an outspoken activist on
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, making high-profile media appearances and helping organize the
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. Speaking at the demonstration, González led a
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for the victims of the massacre; they stood on stage for six minutes, which they observed was the length of the shooting spree itself. González was included in ''Time'' magazine's ''100 Most Influential People of 2018.''


Early life and education

González was raised in
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, a suburb of the
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. Their mother is a
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and their father is a
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attorney who immigrated from
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to New York City in 1968. Gonzalez reportedly has two older siblings. González graduated from
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in 2018. They served as the president of its
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. In high school, González was also the tracking team leader on Project Aquila, a mission to send a school-made weather balloon "to the edge of space"; the project was documented by fellow student
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. They enjoy creative writing and astronomy but not mathematics. On the day of the shooting, González was in the auditorium with dozens of other students when the
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went off. They attempted to exit through the hallway but were told to take cover and took refuge back in the auditorium, where they were held for two hours until police let students out. In the spring of 2022, González graduated with a
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degree from
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.


Advocacy


"We Call B.S." speech

On February 17, 2018, González gave an 11-minute speech in front of the
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Courthouse at a
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rally in
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. The speech was in reaction to the
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, three days previously, during which a gunman had killed 17 and severely injured many more. In the speech they pledged to work with their peers to pressure lawmakers to change the law. "We are going to be the last mass shooting," González proclaimed. "That's going to be Marjory Stoneman Douglas in that textbook, and it's all going to be due to the tireless efforts of the school board, the faculty members, the family members and most importantly the students." The speech notably featured a call and response: "We call B.S.", in response to gun laws, calling for advocacy and empowering young people to speak out against school shootings. The speech then went
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. According to ''
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,'' González's speech became emblematic of the "new strain of furious advocacy" that sprang up immediately after the shooting. In an interview with
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, González said they felt their message would resonate through repetition. "I knew I would get my job done properly at that rally if I got people chanting something. And I thought 'We call B.S.' has four syllables, that's good, I'll use that. I didn't want to say the actual curse words... this message doesn't need to be thought of in a negative way at all." A recording of González delivering a line in the speech was sampled as the intro for
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's " I Rise", released in May 2019.


Subsequent activism and media appearances

They and other survivors spoke with Florida state legislators in Tallahassee on February 20, 2018. The students watched the legislature vote down debate on an existing gun control bill. The students also spoke at an internationally televised town hall hosted by
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on February 21, 2018. González and others criticized the
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(NRA), as well as politicians who accept money from the NRA, as being complicit in the shootings and stated that "you're either funding the killers, or you're standing with the children." At the town hall, González pressed an NRA representative to clarify their position on guns. "
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, I want you to know that we will support your two children in the way that you will not," González said at the town hall. "The shooter at our school obtained weapons that he used on us legally. Do you believe that it should be harder to obtain the semi-automatic and... the modifications for these weapons to make them fully automatic like bump stocks?" Loesch answered González by arguing that mentally ill people should not have access to weapons. González interjected and noted that they had not answered their question. "I think I'm gonna interrupt you real quick and remind you that the question is actually, do you believe it should be harder to obtain these semi-automatic weapons and modifications to make them fully automatic, such as bump stocks?" Shortly after their viral speech and high-profile media appearances, González joined Twitter and acquired more than 1 million followers within a span of less than ten days. González continued to speak out against gun violence. ''
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'' called González "the face of the #NeverAgain movement" and "a recognizable icon" while ''The Washington Post'' called them "La nueva cara of Florida Latinx" ("The new face of Florida
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") and drew comparisons to the revolutionary
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.
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called them "one of the most visible student activists to emerge from the shooting..." In a nationally televised interview on ''
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'', González described the idea of
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in classrooms with guns as "stupid". In March 2018, González was on the cover of ''
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'' along with fellow activists
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,
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,
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, and
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., Note: cover third week March 2018; "...The cover features Marjory Stoneman Douglas students Jaclyn Corin, Alex Wind, Emma Gonzalez, Cameron Kasky and David Hogg,...." That same month they were profiled by ''
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''.


Speech at March for Our Lives

González and other students, including fellow Parkland survivors Hogg, Kasky, and
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, organized and participated in the nationwide
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protest on March 24, 2018, with a focus on speakers and a march in Washington, DC. González spoke for six minutes, the length of time of the Parkland shooting, and paid tribute to the victims by mentioning each one by name and giving examples of activities they would never again be able to do. They followed this by several minutes of silence. González was interviewed on
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at the march, stating people needed to "empathize rather than feel apathy" and calling for young people to register to vote.


New laws

In March 2018, the Florida Legislature passed a bill titled the
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. It raises the minimum age for buying firearms to 21, establishes
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s and
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s, provides a program for the arming of some teachers and the hiring of school police, bans
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s, and bars potentially violent or mentally unhealthy people arrested under certain laws from possessing guns. In all, the law allocates around $400 million for implementation.
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signed the bill into law on March 9. The
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commented, "To the students of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, you made your voices heard. You didn't let up and you fought until there was change."


Continuing advocacy

In May 2018 González met with James Shaw Jr., a man who prevented further bloodshed at a mass shooting in a Waffle House restaurant by rushing the attacker and taking away his AR-15 rifle and saving more lives; both Shaw and González described each other as heroes.


Attacks and conspiracy theories

González was attacked for their Fort Lauderdale speech by many from the Republican Party and the political right wing of American politics and press. They have also faced derogatory comments made by
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s about their sexual orientation, short hair, and skin color. They were verbally attacked by Leslie Gibson, then the Republican candidate running unopposed for the
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and lifetime NRA member, who referred to them as a "skinhead lesbian", whereupon 28-year-old Eryn Gilchrist filed papers to run against him, thus providing an opponent; Republican former state Senator Thomas Martin Jr., who said that Gibson's remarks did not represent the
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, and that he planned to contact the survivors to commend their courage, also filed to run for the seat. A few days later Gibson himself dropped out of the race. González was the target of a number of far-right conspiracy theories and hoaxes since the shooting. Conspiracy theorists have falsely accused the students, including González, of being crisis actors. Benjamin Kelly, an aide to
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Shawn Harrison (R-63), was fired after making such accusations.
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faced criticism for appearing to support the crisis actor accusations. The conspiracy theories spread about González and other Parkland survivors were named
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's 2018 Lie of the Year. Following their highly publicized speech at the March for Our Lives, pro-gun activists doctored fake photos and video showing González ripping up a copy of the
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, spreading them widely on internet forums and social media.
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observed that the video was in fact a digitally manipulated ''
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'' video of them tearing up shooting range targets.
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defended spreading the fake video, saying it was "political satire".


Attacks by Steve King and response

Republican congressman
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attacked González for wearing a Cuban flag patch on their jacket during their speech, saying in a post on Facebook, "This is how you look when you claim Cuban heritage yet don't speak Spanish and ignore the fact that your ancestors fled the island when the dictatorship turned Cuba into a prison camp, after removing all weapons from its citizens; hence their right to self defense." The Cuban flag worn by González was adopted in 1902, fifty years before the communist take over, and has been used by anti-Castro Cuban exiles as a symbol of patriotism. One of the survivors of the
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, Brandon Wolf, responded to King saying "When it was my community, where were you? When it was Sandy Hook? Columbine? Were you on the sideline mocking those communities too? Did you question someone identifying as a mother? Did you question whether people like me were crisis actors?" and "Emma stood for 6 mins and 20 seconds to honor the lives of 17 gone too soon. The least you could do is shut your privileged, ineffective trap for 6 seconds to hear someone else's perspective." In an interview with the ''New Civil Rights Movement'', Wolf also pointed out that King keeps a Confederate flag on his desk. King's comments generated fierce condemnation from Wolf, González, and other members of Never Again MSD. In June 2018, as part of the
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' "Road to Change" tour, gun control advocates and members of Never Again MSD arrived at King's office in
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to protest against King. Protesters and gun control advocates berated King for his history of racially charged statements and attacks; González personally denounced King and accused him of racism. King largely ignored the protests.


Personal life

González is
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and
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and uses
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pronouns. According to ''Vogue'', their
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is not a reaction to the school shooting, but rather to Florida's climate. "People asked me, 'Are you taking a feminist stand?' No, I wasn't. It's Florida. Hair is just an extra sweater I'm forced to wear," González recalled. "I even made a PowerPoint presentation to convince my parents to let me shave my head, and it worked." In May 2021, González announced the usage of a new personal name, X (inspired by
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) citing dissociation with their previous personal name and feminine pronouns.


Works

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References


External links

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Florida student to NRA and Trump: 'We call BS'
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