"Use Me" is a song, composed and originally recorded by

Bill Withers William Harrison Withers Jr. (July 4, 1938 – March 30, 2020) was an American singer and songwriter. He is known for having several hits over a career spanning 18 years, including "Ain't No Sunshine" (1971), "Grandma's Hands" (1971), "Use Me ( ...

. It was included on his 1972 album ''

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'' and was released as a single. An eight-minute live version opens the 1973 album ''Live at Carnegie Hall''.

Structure and content

The song is noted for its repeated bass figure which is heard alongside a complex rhythm in the percussion. Withers has said the song relates to feedback he received from women that he was "too nice", and his intent to change that:

''That's fun stuff. That's just talkin' trash. That’s just a song about being a little playful, a little arrogant and a little cool. Unless you were one of those people that were born popular, I was a chronic stutterer until I was twenty-eight. I avoided the phone. So I wasn't this popular guy. I remember being young and I would have girls tell me, "You’re too nice." I didn't understand that.'' ''What kind of twisted world are we in? Women like bad boys, I guess. There is no more confusing form of rejection than for somebody to tell you that you’re not interesting to them because you’re too nice.'' ''So over the course of time, you say okay, you wanna play, okay, let's play? Use Me taps into that. I tried to be nice, now let's get nasty. That song came quick. I was working in
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and the noise of the factory, they had some women working there. I crossed that line there thinking, “You all want a nasty boy? Well here I come.” aughs''

Reception

It was Withers second-biggest hit in the

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, released in September 1972 and later reaching No. 2 on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 chart. It was kept from No. 1 by both "Ben" by

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" by

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. "Use Me" also peaked at No. 2 on the soul chart for two weeks. Withers performed it on ''

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'' on November 4, 1972. ''Billboard'' ranked "Use Me" as the No. 78 song for 1972. The song was certified Gold by the

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called "Use Me" "one of the few knowledgeable songs about sex our supposedly sexy music has ever produced", featuring a "cross-

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attraction" in its narrative.

Personnel

* Bill Withers – lead vocals and acoustic guitar * Ray Jackson –

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– bass guitar *

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– drums and percussion

Charts

Weekly charts

Year-end charts

Certifications

Other recordings

A variety of artists have covered the song, including: *

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* Beans and Fatback *

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from "Kisses in the Rain" (2001) *

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* Holly Golightly *

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, on their 1998 album ''Absolutely The Best'' *

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recorded a version for his sixth studio album, '' Soul on West 53rd'' (2009). *

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, on her 1972 album ''Alone Again, Naturally''. *

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sampled the song for their track “Use Me Up” from their 1992 album ''

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'' * Scott Walker, on his 1973 album '' Stretch'' *

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* Jim White (for the 2005

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compilation album, '' Sweetheart 2005: Love Songs'') *

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References

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