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Troll and trolling are slang terms used almost exclusively among
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and questioning or
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men who cruise or "wander about looking" for
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or potential sex partners or experiences "in a notably wanton manner and with lessened standards of what one will accept in a partner." The term can be used positively or negatively depending on the speaker, usage and intent and can describe the person or the activity. Although often referring to "an unattractive older gay man"Green, Jonatho
"The Big Book of Filth: 6500 Sex Slang Words and Phrases By Jonathon (INT) Green, 2002, pg. 244"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
and although troll as a slur "is primarily a visual, not a behavioral" judgment,Atkins, Daw
"Looking Queer: Body Image and Identity in Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay, and Transgender Communities By Dawn Atkins, 1998, pg. 446"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
the phrases can be used for anyone who is ''trolling'', regardless of the putative troll's age or perceived attractiveness.


Pejorative use

As a verb, "to troll" is not necessarily pejorative, with "trolling for sex" merely a synonym of '' cruising''. The same is not true of "troll" as a noun describing a person, usually an elderly or unattractive gay male (a "troll") aggressively seeking younger partners ("twinks" or "chickens"). This usage carries all of the negative connotations associated with "dirty old man" outside the gay community; editorialists in the gay press also occasionally cite this usage as evidence that a gay community which values youth and physical attraction is marginalising its elderly.


Origin and historical usage

Troll as
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is amongst the
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of the cant
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used in the gay subculture in Britain which has become more mainstream with transcontinental travel and
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communication. There is still debate about how Polari originated but its origins can be traced back to at least the 19th century. The term ''troll'' may have become equated with cruising because a troll is a "creature of
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depicted as a
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who lives in dark places and 'patrols' in an endless search." "The word ''trolla'' in Swedish means ‘to charm or bewitch’."Baker, Pau
"Polari - The Lost Language of Gay Men By Paul Baker, 2002, pg. 47"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
The linguist Paul Baker says, "As a Polari word, ''troll'' can mean ‘to walk effeminately’, or ‘to walk, seeking sex’." ''Trolling'' can be used almost interchangeably with ''cruising''.Coleman, Julie
"Love, Sex and Marriage: A Historical Thesaurus By Julie Coleman, 1999, pg. 292"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
The word "troll" has remained unfamiliar even to many gay men in Britain, who have never heard, used, or needed to use the term. Regular customers in the same
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might have different takes on the usage – one simply referring to cruising, another referring to a negative version of a troll as a someone who "will have your skin crawling in seconds with his lascivious looks and raunchy repartee,"Anderson, Dan
"Sex Tips for Gay Guys: Troll Dodging By Dan Anderson, 2002, pg. 44"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
another meaning older gays who prefer to troll for younger men.Herbst, Philip H
"Wimmin, Wimps & Wallflowers: an encyclopaedic dictionary of gender and sexual orientation bias ... By Philip H. Herbst, 2001, pg. 50"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
Downs, Ala
"The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World By Alan Downs, 2006, pg. 94"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
Variations on ''troll'' exist. Paul Baker asserts that ''trolley-dolly'' may be "derived perhaps from a combination of lalies and troll. A trolley-dolly (contemporary gay slang) is a gay flight attendant".Baker, Pau
"Polari - The Lost Language of Gay Men By Paul Baker, 2002, pg. 194"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
"Trolling" is also a term used for generations among fishermen in boats, to describe the way they let a line with a hook and bait on the "fishing line" follow along behind the boat moving slowly, hoping that this slow baiting of the fish will result in a catch. In Gay sub-cultural slang usage would often be coded to seem as though the speaker was talking about "fishing behavior'" but the "gay slang" usage decodes the message to mean "cruising for sex" and luring the potential contacts atch The homosexual "cruising" could be called "trolling" to mean moving along slowly and letting potential contacts catches"have opportunity to "take the bait" i.e. connect for sex. It does also carry the implicit meaning of being a behavior done by older less desirable men seeking sex in public places, but younger people may use the term either to describe serious sexual hunting, or to make light of it, and by using the term "trolling" to put a humorous light on what is considered to be a somewhat socially questionable behavior. Report on the Life of the Male Homosexual in Great Britain by Gordon Westwood.


Etiquette

Depending on the culture the men are in, the setting, time of day (or evening), how comfortable they are about their sexuality and their intentions will all affect the trolling experience. Some men are still
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or even a
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to same-sex experiences; some societies punish gays with prison, public humiliation and even death. So having the appearance of just walking through the area or using a restroom comes in handy until those there for sexual fulfillment can let their guard down as it becomes obvious everyone is there with like-minded goals. For regular areas or “troll haunts” that are frequented by a recurring group of trolls there is a general rule that "as in most gay male settings, the young, the muscular, and the unfamiliar are more sought."Leap, William
"Public Sex/Gay Space By William L. Leap, 1999, pg. 62"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
A troll's intention will also influence actions and outcomes ranging from
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in a more private area to
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like masturbating to
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, fulfilling a
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or even the
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thrill of watching someone else have public sex. Some are looking to: perform
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either directly or through a
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, receive it, or switch roles; perform or receive
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; participate in
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or a
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experience even including
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s; or simply to watch others perform sex acts.De Vries, Brian and Herdt, Gilbert H
"Gay and Lesbian Aging: Research and Future Directions By B. (Brian) De Vries, Gilbert H. Herdt, 2004, pg. 94"
Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
A regular public bathroom at a college, public library, shopping mall, train station or even a public park could be a higher risk trolling venue while more private venues like nightclubs, bars,Mann, William J

Retrieved on 2007-06-06.
offices and even churches add to the sexual excitement for some escalating the experience with more taboo environments. For some potentially getting caught is almost better than the sex itself.


Legal concerns

Public sex is often illegal, but enforcement varies from lax and rarely enforced to the aggressive pursuit of
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, even at disproportionate financial expense to the police force.Otton, Garry
" Cruising: A Private Inconvenience by Garry Otton, ScotsGay Magazine, January 1995"
Retrieved on 2007-05-18.
Victims of other crimes, such as
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or
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/ gay bashing, during cruising also see varying support from police in different regions, from supportive to dismissive and insulting. Cases of police brutality against gay men found cruising cause further distrust of law enforcement in the gay community, although it is used on the Internet often.


See also

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Cottaging Cottaging is a LGBT slang, gay slang term, originating from the United Kingdom, referring to anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory (a "cottage" or "tea-room"Andre "tearoom; t-room ''noun'' a Washroom, public toilet. From an era when a grea ...
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* Gay beat * Gay cruising in England and Wales *
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References


External links


A Sex Stop on the Way Home by Corey Kilgannon, New York Times, September 21, 2005Polari British gay slangCruising for Sex .com
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. Note that if one actually carries this article on one while cruising it could possibly be used as evidence of
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