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"Tender" is a song by English rock band Blur from their sixth studio album, '' 13'' (1999). Written by the four band members about Blur frontman
Damon Albarn Damon Albarn (, ; born 23 March 1968) is an English musician, singer, songwriter, and record producer. He is best known as the frontman, main vocalist, and lyricist of the rock band Blur (band), Blur and the co-creator and primary musical con ...
's breakup with musician turned painter
Justine Frischmann Justine Elinor Frischmann (born 16 September 1969) is an English artist and retired musician. After forming Suede, she co-founded the Britpop band Elastica before retiring from the music industry and pursuing a career as an artist. Early years ...
, the song was released in Japan on 17 February 1999 and in the United Kingdom on 22 February as the album's lead single. "Tender" became Blur's 11th top-10 hit on the UK Singles Chart, debuting and peaking at number two the week after its release. It also reached the top 20 in Greece, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, New Zealand, Norway, and Spain.


Background, lyric and live performances

The song's lyric, by
Damon Albarn Damon Albarn (, ; born 23 March 1968) is an English musician, singer, songwriter, and record producer. He is best known as the frontman, main vocalist, and lyricist of the rock band Blur (band), Blur and the co-creator and primary musical con ...
and
Graham Coxon Graham Leslie Coxon (born 12 March 1969) is an English guitarist, singer and songwriter who came to prominence as a founding member of the rock band Blur. As the group's lead guitarist and secondary vocalist, Coxon is featured on all of Blur' ...
, describes the break-up between Albarn and
Justine Frischmann Justine Elinor Frischmann (born 16 September 1969) is an English artist and retired musician. After forming Suede, she co-founded the Britpop band Elastica before retiring from the music industry and pursuing a career as an artist. Early years ...
, then the lead singer of
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band
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. Frischmann told British newspaper ''
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'' that she cried the first time she heard the song, then felt embarrassed and angered before she calmed down. The writers share the singing, with backing vocals by the
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. : During Coxon's hiatus from the group, Blur continued to perform the song, with Albarn asking audiences to sing Coxon's lines, "Oh my baby/Oh my baby/Oh why?/Oh my". At Blur's headline appearance at the
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in 2003, he introduced the song by saying: "I don't want, for one moment, to be a sentimental but… Graham wrote this song as well… You know the bits he sings and I want you to sing them as loudly as you possibly can. Everyone needs to sing this song." Drummer
Dave Rowntree David Alexander De Horne Rowntree (born 8 May 1964) is an English musician, politician, solicitor, composer and animator. He is best known as the drummer for the rock band Blur (band), Blur. In his political career, Rowntree served on the Norf ...
would also sing Coxon's lines on occasion. In July 2009, when Blur re-formed, Coxon's lines in were repeated powerfully by the audience to call Blur back to the stage at Glastonbury, Hyde Park and T in the Park. At their Wembley Stadium gig of 8 July 2023, the audience kept singing Coxon's lines after the band had finishing performing the song, causing the band to resume playing, along with the audience's singing, for several rounds of the words. In March 2013, Albarn, Coxon,
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and
Noel Gallagher Noel Thomas David Gallagher (born 29 May 1967) is an English musician, singer and songwriter. Gallagher is the primary songwriter, lead guitarist and a co-lead vocalist of the rock band Oasis (band), Oasis. After leaving Oasis, he formed Noel ...
performed the song at the
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charity event.


Release and reception

It is the first track on Blur's sixth album '' 13'' and was also released as the lead
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before the album's release. The single reached number two on the UK Singles Chart. The single had first-week sales of 176,000 and had an initial lead over Spears in the early part of the week, though "...Baby One More Time" would sell an additional 55,000 units over "Tender" to maintain the number one position. The song's release date had been brought forward to challenge a concern over Japanese imports. The song was awarded "Single of the Fortnight" in ''
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'', writing: "At seven-and-three-quarter minutes, ''Tender'' is at least two too long, but it's still the best skiffle-folk hymn of the year so far!" Chuck Taylor of ''
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'' called it a "huge departure" for the band and a "stellar piece of work," whose sound is reminiscent of the late-'60s and early-'70s. He wrote: "it's simply a polished, well-produced tip of the hat to a time when British pop stars could sing... and play tinny guitar solos without irony. Sarah Davis of ''
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'' called it a "breath of fresh air" and a "beautiful hymn of consolation," while noting its similarity to "
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" by
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. "Tender" was nominated in the category of Best British Single at the
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. However, the award was won by
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for " She's the One".


Music video

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for the song is a live studio performance, filmed in
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, featuring the band and a group of backing singers. Like Blur's earlier video for "
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", it does not use the studio version's audio track. An official video for this track was recorded by
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(director of the promo videos for "
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" and "
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"), but it was never released as the band simply did not like it.


B-sides and remixes

Initially, the track "Swamp Song" was slated to appear as one of the single's
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s, but it was only included on the Japanese CD. The appearance of "Song 2" on the second UK CD was a last-minute substitution. A remix of "Tender" by Cornelius was included on the "
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" single.


Track listings

UK CD1 # "Tender" # "All We Want" # "Mellow Jam" UK CD2 # "Tender" # "French Song" # "Song 2" # "Song 2" (video) UK cassette and limited-edition 7-inch single :A. "Tender" – 7:41 :B. "All We Want" – 4:33 Australian CD single # "Tender" # "All We Want" # "Mellow Jam" # "Song 2" (video) Japanese CD single # "Tender" # "Swamp Song" # "Mellow Jam" # "French Song"


Production credits

* "Tender", "Mellow Jam", "French Song" and "Swamp Song" produced by William Orbit * "All We Want" and "Song 2" produced by
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*
Damon Albarn Damon Albarn (, ; born 23 March 1968) is an English musician, singer, songwriter, and record producer. He is best known as the frontman, main vocalist, and lyricist of the rock band Blur (band), Blur and the co-creator and primary musical con ...
– lead vocals, acoustic guitar *
Graham Coxon Graham Leslie Coxon (born 12 March 1969) is an English guitarist, singer and songwriter who came to prominence as a founding member of the rock band Blur. As the group's lead guitarist and secondary vocalist, Coxon is featured on all of Blur' ...
– electric guitar, co-lead vocals * Alex James – double bass, backing vocals *
Dave Rowntree David Alexander De Horne Rowntree (born 8 May 1964) is an English musician, politician, solicitor, composer and animator. He is best known as the drummer for the rock band Blur (band), Blur. In his political career, Rowntree served on the Norf ...
– drums, backing vocals * Additional backing vocals by the
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Charts


Weekly charts


Year-end charts


Certifications


Release history


In popular culture

In December 2017, a cover version of the song featured in a Christmas advert for
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. The song also appeared in season 3, episode 3 of the Netflix series ''Sex Education''. An edited version of the song appeared in ''
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'', the soundtrack earning a nomination for Best Music Supervision at the
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References

* {{Authority control 1990s ballads 1998 songs 1999 singles Blur (band) songs EMI Records singles Food Records singles Music videos directed by Sophie Muller Black-and-white music videos Rock ballads Songs written by Alex James (musician) Songs written by Damon Albarn Songs written by Dave Rowntree Songs written by Graham Coxon