Stacey Park Milbern (May 19, 1987 – May 19, 2020) was a
Korean-American
Korean Americans are Americans of Korean ancestry (mostly from South Korea). In 2015, the Korean-American community constituted about 0.56% of the United States population, or about 1.82 million people, and was the fifth-largest Asian America ...
disability rights
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It is made u ...
activist. She helped create the
disability justice
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movement and advocated for fair treatment of
disabled people
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.
Early life
Milbern was born at the U.S. Army Hospital in
Seoul
Seoul (; ; ), officially known as the Seoul Special City, is the Capital city, capital and largest metropolis of South Korea.Before 1972, Seoul was the ''de jure'' capital of the North Korea, Democratic People's Republic of Korea (North Korea ...
on May 19, 1987, with
congenital muscular dystrophy
Congenital muscular dystrophies are autosomal recessively-inherited muscle diseases. They are a group of heterogeneous disorders characterized by muscle weakness which is present at birth and the different changes on muscle biopsy that ranges fr ...
(CMD).
She was mixed-race, her father being
White American
White Americans are Americans who identify as and are perceived to be white people. This group constitutes the majority of the people in the United States. As of the 2020 Census, 61.6%, or 204,277,273 people, were white alone. This represented ...
and her mother being
Korean
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People and culture
* Koreans, ethnic group originating in the Korean Peninsula
* Korean cuisine
* Korean culture
* Korean language
**Korean alphabet, known as Hangul or Chosŏn'gŭl
**Korean dialects and the Jeju language
** ...
.
She grew up in
Fort Bragg
Fort Bragg is a military installation of the United States Army in North Carolina, and is one of the largest military installations in the world by population, with around 54,000 military personnel. The military reservation is located within C ...
,
North Carolina
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, in a military family, as her father was in the
United States Army
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.
As a child she relied on her family as
caregiver
A caregiver or carer is a paid or unpaid member of a person's social network who helps them with activities of daily living. Since they have no specific professional training, they are often described as informal caregivers. Caregivers most comm ...
s, but when she began to identify as
queer, she feared her parents' judgment and planned to move out, a choice made more difficult by her need for help in daily activities such as eating, sleeping, and using the bathroom.
Milbern began serving in disability rights leadership roles at 16 years old, including as Community Outreach Director for the National Youth Leadership Network. She later was a founder of the North Carolina Youth Leadership Forum
and Disabled Young People's Collective to empower youth with disabilities to engage in advocacy and leadership. She was appointed by the Governor of North Carolina to the North Carolina Commission for the Blind from 2006 to 2008 and to the Statewide
Independent Living Council from 2004 to 2010.
She was instrumental in the writing and passing of the 2007 North Carolina law establishing October as "Disability History and Awareness Month" and requiring disability history curriculum to be taught in all schools. In 2005, Milbern helped to establish the
disability justice
Disability justice is a social justice movement which focuses on examining disability and ableism as they relate to other forms of oppression and identity such as race, class and gender. It was developed in 2005 by the Disability Justice Collectiv ...
movement through conversations with other disabled queer women of color activists.
Milbern authored a popular disability-rights blog on
WordPress
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throughout the late 2000s, titled "Crip Chick" (later CripChick.com). She graduated from
Methodist University
Methodist University is a private university that is historically related to the North Carolina Annual Conference of the United Methodist Church and located in Fayetteville, North Carolina. It is accredited by the Southern Association of Colleges ...
in 2009.
Bay Area
Milbern moved to the
San Francisco Bay Area
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when she was 24,
due to the area being "one of the most accessible places for people with physical disabilities". The Bay Area had been the historical center of the disability rights movement,
and there she continued to organize, write, and speak for the movement,
becoming the director of programs at the
Center for Independent Living
Independent living (IL), as seen by its advocates, is a philosophy, a way of looking at society and disability, and a worldwide movement of disabled people working for equal opportunities, self-determination, and self-respect. In the context of e ...
, Berkeley.
California ranks highly among the states for spending on in-home care benefits, and she was able to obtain
Medicaid
Medicaid in the United States is a federal and state program that helps with healthcare
Health care or healthcare is the improvement of health via the prevention, diagnosis, treatment, amelioration or cure of disease, illness, injury, and ...
support for an in-home attendant,
enabling her to live independently in
Oakland
Oakland is the largest city and the county seat of Alameda County, California, United States. A major West Coast of the United States, West Coast port, Oakland is the largest city in the East Bay region of the San Francisco Bay Area, the third ...
and hold a position in human resources at a financial banking company.
She credited that nursing assistance for her ability to remain active in the community and avoid institutionalization in a
nursing home
A nursing home is a facility for the residential care of elderly or disabled people. Nursing homes may also be referred to as skilled nursing facility (SNF) or long-term care facilities. Often, these terms have slightly different meanings to i ...
.
She contrasted her independence and the care she was able to receive in California against her experiences in North Carolina, and defended the necessity of Medicaid programs funding home attendant and nursing services against reductions proposed during efforts to
repeal and replace
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the
Affordable Care Act
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.
Milbern advocated for fair
medical care
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for people with disabilities, including both access and biases in the system, speaking against unnecessary surgery.
In 2014, Milbern was appointed by
President Obama
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to the
President's Committee for People with Intellectual Disabilities
The President's Committee for People with Intellectual Disabilities (PCPID) is an advisory body that provides assistance to the President of the United States and the Secretary of Health and Human Services on public policy issues related to intell ...
. She advised the
Obama administration for two years.
Milbern earned a
master of business administration degree from
Mills College
Mills College at Northeastern University is a private college in Oakland, California and part of Northeastern University's global university system. Mills College was founded as the Young Ladies Seminary in 1852 in Benicia, California; it was r ...
in 2015.
In early March 2020, as the
COVID-19 pandemic
The COVID-19 pandemic, also known as the coronavirus pandemic, is an ongoing global pandemic of coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) caused by severe acute respiratory syndrome coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2). The novel virus was first identified ...
spread to the Bay Area, Milbern and four friends constituting the Disability Justice Culture Club distributed homemade disease-prevention kits, including hand sanitizer, disinfectant, and respirators, to residents of Oakland homeless encampments. She raised concerns for the well-being of the community and its most vulnerable members. Milbern noted her
DIY
"Do it yourself" ("DIY") is the method of building, modifying, or repairing things by oneself without the direct aid of professionals or certified experts. Academic research has described DIY as behaviors where "individuals use raw and sem ...
solution as an example of "crip—or crippled—wisdom". She warned that the pandemic's demands on health services threatened her community's access to
dialysis and other life-saving treatments needed by some to survive. Her group also organized a
mutual aid campaign, providing food and care support for disabled people in need. Milbern continued pandemic relief work despite her own growing health problems.
Death
Towards the end of her life, she had health problems. Surgery to remove her fast-growing kidney cancer was postponed during the COVID-19 pandemic due to
shelter-in-place orders.
Milbern died in a
Stanford
Stanford University, officially Leland Stanford Junior University, is a private research university in Stanford, California. The campus occupies , among the largest in the United States, and enrolls over 17,000 students. Stanford is consider ...
hospital on her 33rd birthday, May 19, 2020, due to
surgical complications.
Legacy
Milbern was featured in the
Google Doodle
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on May 19, 2022, which would have been her 35th birthday.
References
External links
Stacey Milbern Parkon ''Pushing Limits'' (June 5, 2020)
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National Youth Leadership NetworkNorth Carolina Youth Leadership Forum
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1987 births
2020 deaths
Methodist University alumni
Mills College alumni
People from Seoul
People from the San Francisco Bay Area
American disability rights activists
People with muscular dystrophy
South Korean emigrants to the United States
Deaths from kidney cancer
Deaths from cancer in California
South Korean LGBT people
Queer women