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Soccer mom is a term that broadly refers to an American,
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, suburban woman who spends a significant amount of her time transporting school-age children to youth sporting events or other activities (whether or not they are
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related). It came into widespread use during the
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and over time has come to take on an unfavorable connotation.


History

The phrase "soccer mom" generally refers to a married, American, middle-class woman who lives in the suburbs and has school-age children. She is sometimes portrayed in the media as busy or overburdened and driving a
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or SUV. She is also described as putting the interests of her family, and most importantly her children, ahead of her own. The phrase derives from the literal, specific description of a mother who transports and watches her children play soccer. It was also used in names of organizations of mothers who raised money to support their children's soccer teams. The first reference to the term "soccer mom" in the United States national media has been traced to 1982. In that year, the husband of the treasurer of the "Soccer Moms booster club" of
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, stole $3,150 raised for the benefit of a local soccer league (). Indices of American magazines and newspapers show relatively little usage of the term until 1995, when, during an
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for
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, Susan B. Casey ran with the slogan: "A Soccer Mom for City Council." Casey, who held a Ph.D. and managed presidential election campaigns, used the slogan as a way of assuring voters they could trust her to be "just like them," denoting herself as " everyneighbor." The phrase addressed anxiety about women's achievements, and the stereotype that smart, accomplished women were not able to manage professional careers while showing love for their family. Casey won the election with 51 percent of the vote. The term came into widespread use around the time of the
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. Its first use in a news article about that election appeared in the July 21, 1996, edition of ''
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''. E. J. Dionne, the article's author, quoted Alex Castellanos (at the time a senior
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to
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) as suggesting that
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was targeting a voting
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whom Castellanos called the "soccer mom". The soccer mom was described in the article as "the overburdened middle income working mother who ferries her kids from soccer practice to scouts to school." The article suggested that the term "soccer mom" was a creation of political consultants. Castellanos was later quoted in ''
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'' as saying: "She's the key swing consumer in the marketplace, and the key
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who will decide the election." Media interest in soccer moms picked up as the election approached. The number of articles on soccer moms in major newspapers increased from a combined total of 12 for the months of August and September to a total of 198 for October and November. The intense media focus stemmed in large part from the media's belief that soccer moms had become the most sought-after group of swing voters in the 1996 elections. In the end, suburban women favored Clinton by 53 to 39 percent, while suburban men voted for Dole. During the election, the soccer mom's most frequently mentioned attribute cited in major newspaper articles was that she was a mother or a woman who had children. The soccer mom's next most frequently mentioned characteristics were that "she lives in the suburbs (41.2% of the articles); is a swing voter (30.8%); is busy, harried,
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, or overburdened (28.4%); works outside the home (24.6%); drives a minivan (usually a
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or sport utility vehicle (20.9%); is middle-class (17.1%); is married (13.7%); and is
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(13.3%)." Soccer moms received so much attention during the election that the
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voted ''soccer mom'' Word of the Year for 1996. Columnist Ellen Goodman of ''
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'' called 1996 "the Year of the Soccer Mom." The Associated Press named soccer moms, along with the
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, and " Rules Girls" as four phenomena that would be forever associated with the year 1996.


Criticism

Soccer moms have been accused of forcing their children to participate in too many after-school activities,
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them in concerted cultivation rather than letting them enjoy their childhood. In 2003, the car manufacturer
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, who had for several years courted the "soccer-mom" image, started marketing their
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minivan as "stylish, sexy and desirable".


Related terms


Security moms

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, pundits started talking about the security mom, which was deemed to be a powerful
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. Security moms were supposed to be concerned primarily with issues such as the
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, and the security of their children. There is evidence, however, that security moms did not exist in great enough numbers to influence the 2004 election outcome. Democratic women tended to be most interested in
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, which Democratic front runner
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abandoned as a talking point, and may explain Kerry's difficulty in garnering their support.


Hockey mom

Hockey mom is a term widely used in
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(including
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), in which mothers often take their children to
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rinks. The first article in ''The New York Times'' that used "hockey mom" as a demographic term was a 1999 review of the
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, a
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. In the article, the truck is described as a "smooth and gutsy" vehicle that "ought to please everyone from hockey mom to cattle hauler". Former Alaska governor
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, the US Republican vice-presidential candidate in 2008, described herself as a "hockey mom" as far back as her 2006 gubernatorial race. In her speech at the
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and in stump speeches following the convention, she joked that the only difference between a hockey mom and a
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was lipstick, suggesting that hockey moms are tough. "Hockey partisans" on the Internet claim that hockey moms are "a bit more intense than their soccer counterparts, both in terms of the commitments they make to the sport and the intensity with which they cheer their kids."


See also

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After-school activity After-school activities, also known as after-school programs or after-school care, started in the early 1900s mainly just as supervision of students after the final school bell. Today, after-school programs do much more. There is a focus on helping ...
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Angry white man "Angry white males" or "angry white men" is a term used in the English-speaking world to describe White people, white men who hold Right-wing politics, right-wing views and oppose Progressivism, progressive or Liberalism, liberal beliefs and p ...
* Concerted cultivation * Helicopter parent *
Karen (slang) Karen is a pejorative slang term typically used to refer to a middle class woman who is perceived as entitled or excessively demanding. The term is often portrayed in memes depicting middle-class white women who "use their white and class p ...
* Kyoiku mama *
Mama grizzly ''Mama grizzly'' is a term that former U.S. vice presidential candidate and Alaska governor Sarah Palin coined to refer to herself that has since been applied to female candidates she supported or endorsed in the 2010 midterm elections, 2010 U. ...
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NASCAR dad ''NASCAR dad'' is a phrase that broadly refers to a demographic group of often white, usually middle-aged, working-class or lower-middle-class men in North America. The group received the nickname because they are men who are believed to typically ...
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Stage mother In the performing arts, a stage mother is the mother of a child actor. The term ''stage mother'' sometimes has a negative connotation, suggesting that the individual is prone to obnoxiously demanding special treatment for her child, or suggesting ...
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Tiger mom Tiger parenting is a form of strict parenting, whereby parents are highly invested in ensuring their children's success. Specifically, tiger parents push their children to attain high levels of academic achievement or success in high-status extr ...
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Will it play in Peoria? ''Will it play in Peoria?'' is an American English figure of speech that is traditionally used to ask whether a given product, person, promotional theme, or event will appeal to mainstream audiences or across a broad range of demographic and psy ...
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Worcester woman ''Worcester woman'' is a political term used by polling companies in the United Kingdom. It profiles or describes a type of median voter, a working class woman in her 30s with two children who worries about quality of life issues and has little ...


References


Further reading

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External links

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"Soccer Mom," Photographs by Dona Schwartz

Soccer Mom Chair
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