Sexual addiction is a state characterized by
compulsive participation or engagement in
sexual activity, particularly
sexual intercourse
Sexual intercourse (also coitus or copulation) is a sexual activity typically involving the insertion of the Erection, erect male Human penis, penis inside the female vagina and followed by Pelvic thrust, thrusting motions for sexual pleasure ...
, despite negative consequences.
The concept is contentious;
sexual addiction is not a clinical diagnosis in either the
DSM or
ICD
The International Classification of Diseases (ICD) is a globally used medical classification that is used in epidemiology, health management and clinical diagnostics, diagnosis. The ICD is maintained by the World Health Organization (WHO), which ...
medical classifications of diseases and medical disorders, the latter of which instead classifying such behaviors as a part of
compulsive sexual behaviour disorder (CSBD).
There is considerable debate among
psychiatrists,
psychologist
A psychologist is a professional who practices psychology and studies mental states, perceptual, cognitive, emotional, and social processes and behavior. Their work often involves the experimentation, observation, and explanation, interpretatio ...
s,
sexologists, and other specialists whether compulsive sexual behavior constitutes an
addiction
Addiction is a neuropsychological disorder characterized by a persistent and intense urge to use a drug or engage in a behavior that produces natural reward, despite substantial harm and other negative consequences. Repetitive drug use can ...
– in this instance a
behavioral addiction – and therefore its classification and possible diagnosis.
Animal research
Animal testing, also known as animal experimentation, animal research, and ''in vivo'' testing, is the use of animals, as model organisms, in experiments that seek answers to scientific and medical questions. This approach can be contrasted ...
has established that compulsive sexual behavior arises from the same
transcriptional and
epigenetic mechanisms that mediate
drug addiction
Addiction is a neuropsychological disorder characterized by a persistent and intense urge to use a drug or engage in a behavior that produces natural reward, despite substantial harm and other negative consequences. Repetitive drug use can ...
in laboratory animals. Some argue that applying such concepts to normal behaviors such as sex can be problematic, and suggest that applying medical models such as addiction to human sexuality can serve to pathologise normal behavior and cause harm.
Classification
None of the official diagnostic classification frameworks list "sexual addiction" as a distinct disorder.
Proponents of a diagnostic model for sexual addiction consider it to be one of several sex-related disorders within
hypersexual disorder.
The term ''sexual dependence'' is also used to refer to people who report being unable to control their
sexual urges, behaviors, or thoughts. Related or synonymous models of pathological sexual behavior include
hypersexuality (nymphomania and satyriasis),
erotomania
Erotomania, also known as de Clérambault's syndrome, is a relatively uncommon paranoia, paranoid condition that is characterized by an individual's delusions of another person being infatuation, infatuated with them. It is listed in the DSM-5 as ...
,
Don Juanism, and
paraphilia
A paraphilia is an experience of recurring or intense sexual arousal to atypical objects, places, situations, fantasies, behaviors, or individuals. It has also been defined as a sexual interest in anything other than a legally consenting human ...
-related disorders.
The
ICD-11
The ICD-11 is the eleventh revision of the International Classification of Diseases (ICD). It replaces the ICD-10 as the global standard for recording health information and causes of death. The ICD is developed and annually updated by the World H ...
created a new condition classification,
compulsive sexual behavior disorder, to cover "a persistent pattern of failure to control intense, repetitive sexual impulses or urges resulting in repetitive sexual behaviour". However, CSBD is not considered to be an addiction, and the
WHO does not support a diagnosis of sex addiction.
DSM
The
American Psychiatric Association (APA) publishes and periodically updates the
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), a widely recognized compendium of mental health diagnostics.
The version published in 1987 (DSM-III-R), referred to "distress about a pattern of repeated sexual conquests or other forms of
nonparaphilic sexual addiction, involving a succession of people who exist only as things to be used." The reference to sexual addiction was subsequently removed. The DSM-IV-TR, published in 2000 (DSM-IV-TR), did not include sexual addiction as a mental disorder.
[American Psychiatric Association. (2000). ''Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders'' (fourth edition, text revision). Washington, DC: Author.]
Some authors suggested that sexual addiction should be re-introduced into the DSM system;
however, sexual addiction was rejected for inclusion in the
DSM-5
The ''Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition'' (DSM-5), is the 2013 update to the '' Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders'', the taxonomic and diagnostic tool published by the American Psychiat ...
, which was published in 2013. Darrel Regier, vice-chair of the DSM-5 task force, said that "
though '
hypersexuality' is a proposed new addition...
he phenomenonwas not at the point where we were ready to call it an addiction." According to the APA, the proposed diagnosis was not included due to a lack of research into diagnostic criteria for compulsive sexual behavior.
DSM-5-TR, published in March 2022, does not recognize a diagnosis of sexual addiction.
ICD
The World Health Organization produces the International Classification of Diseases (ICD), which is not limited to mental disorders. The most recent approved version of that document, ICD-10, includes "excessive sexual drive" as a diagnosis (code F52.7), subdividing it into ''satyriasis'' (for males) and ''nymphomania'' (for females). However, the ICD categorizes these diagnoses as compulsive behaviors or impulse control disorders and not addiction.
The most recent version of that document, ICD-11, includes "
compulsive sexual behavior disorder" as a diagnosis (code 6C72) – however, it does not use the addiction model.
CCMD
The
Chinese Society of Psychiatry produces the
Chinese Classification of Mental Disorders (CCMD), which is currently in its third edition the CCMD-3 does not include sexual addiction as a diagnosis.
Other
Some mental health providers have proposed various, but similar, criteria for diagnosing sexual addiction, including
Patrick Carnes,
Aviel Goodman, and Jonathan Marsh. Carnes authored the first clinical book about sex addiction in 1983, based on his own empirical research. His diagnostic model is still largely used by the thousands of certified sex addiction therapists (CSATs) trained by the organization he founded. No diagnostic proposal for sex addiction has been adopted into any official medical diagnostic manual, however.
In 2011, the
American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM), the largest medical consensus of physicians dedicated to treating and preventing addiction,
redefined addiction as a chronic brain disorder,
which for the first time broadened the definition of addiction from substances to include addictive behaviors and reward-seeking, such as gambling and sex.
Bipolar disorder
Patients with bipolar disorder can display hypersexual behaviour during mania periods. However, the literature is rather outdated and it cannot be concluded that it can be deemed as a sexual addiction.
Borderline personality disorder
The ICD, DSM and CCMD list promiscuity as a prevalent and problematic symptom for
Borderline Personality Disorder
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive, long-term pattern of significant interpersonal relationship instability, an acute fear of Abandonment (emotional), abandonment, and intense emotiona ...
. Individuals with this diagnosis sometimes engage in sexual behaviors that can appear out of control, distressing the individual or attracting negative reactions from others.
There is therefore a risk that a person presenting with sex addiction, may in fact have Borderline Personality Disorder. This may lead to inappropriate or incomplete treatment.
Medical reviews and position statements
In November 2016, the
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT), the official body for sex and relationship therapy in the United States, issued a position statement on sex addiction declaring that their organization "does not find sufficient empirical evidence to support the classification of sex addiction or porn addiction as a mental health disorder, and does not find the sexual addiction training and treatment methods and educational pedagogies to be adequately informed by accurate human sexuality knowledge. Therefore, it is the position of AASECT that linking problems related to sexual urges, thoughts or behaviors to a porn/sexual addiction process cannot be advanced by AASECT as a standard of practice for sexuality education delivery, counseling or therapy."
In 2017, three new USA sexual health organizations found no support for the idea that sex or adult films were addictive in their position statement.
On 16 November 2017 the
Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers (ATSA) published a position against sending sex offenders to sex addiction treatment facilities.
Neuroscientists who are sex researchers state sex is not addictive. Addiction criteria were not met for sexual behaviours: "experimental studies do not support key elements of addiction such as escalation of use, difficulty regulating urges, negative effects, reward deficiency syndrome, withdrawal syndrome with cessation, tolerance, or enhanced late positive potentials." Аs well as evidence of a key neurobiological feature of addiction is scarce in case of sex.
Yet, despite these advances, research related to sexual addiction remains in its infancy. A lack of theoretical integration, deficits in methodological rigor, a paucity of clinical samples, over reliance on convenience samples (i.e., university students or Mechanical Turk samples), the complete absence of epidemiological studies, widespread inconsistencies in the definitions and measurements of CSB, and a lack of treatment studies all still plague the literature related to sexual addiction. If scientists, researchers, and clinicians in this domain want to bring the field forward and provide evidence-based care to people who report out-of control sexual behaviors, all of the above are needed. (Grubbs et al. 2020)
Diagnosis
ICD-11
The Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder is determined by following criteria:
* Persistent pattern of failure to control intense, repetitive sexual impulses or urges resulting in repetitive sexual behaviour
* The pattern of failure to control intense, sexual impulses or urges and resulting repetitive sexual behaviour is manifested over an extended period of time (6 months or more)
* Causes marked distress or significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational, or other important areas of functioning
* Distress that is entirely related to moral judgments and disapproval about sexual impulses, urges, or behaviours is not sufficient to meet this requirement
ICD-11 added pornography to CSBD.
CSBD is not an addiction and should not be conflated with sex addiction.
Possible mechanisms
Animal research involving rats that exhibit compulsive sexual behavior has identified that this behavior is mediated through the same molecular mechanisms in the brain that mediate drug addiction.
Sexual activity is an
intrinsic reward that has been shown to act as a
positive reinforcer, strongly activate the
reward system, and induce the accumulation of
ΔFosB in part of the
striatum (specifically, the
nucleus accumbens).
Chronic and excessive activation of certain pathways within the reward system and the accumulation of ΔFosB in a specific group of neurons within the nucleus accumbens has been directly implicated in the development of the compulsive behavior that characterizes addiction.
In humans, a
dopamine dysregulation syndrome, characterized by drug-induced compulsive engagement in sexual activity or gambling, has also been observed in some individuals taking
dopaminergic
Dopaminergic means "related to dopamine" (literally, "working on dopamine"), a common neurotransmitter. Dopaminergic substances or actions increase dopamine-related activity in the brain.
Dopaminergic pathways, Dopaminergic brain pathways facil ...
medications.
Current experimental models of addiction to natural rewards and drug reward demonstrate common alterations in
gene expression in the
mesocorticolimbic projection.
ΔFosB is the most significant
gene transcription factor involved in addiction, since its
viral or genetic overexpression in the
nucleus accumbens is
necessary and sufficient for most of the neural adaptations and plasticity that occur;
it has been implicated in addictions to
alcohol
Alcohol may refer to:
Common uses
* Alcohol (chemistry), a class of compounds
* Ethanol, one of several alcohols, commonly known as alcohol in everyday life
** Alcohol (drug), intoxicant found in alcoholic beverages
** Alcoholic beverage, an alco ...
,
cannabinoids,
cocaine
Cocaine is a tropane alkaloid and central nervous system stimulant, derived primarily from the leaves of two South American coca plants, ''Erythroxylum coca'' and ''Erythroxylum novogranatense, E. novogranatense'', which are cultivated a ...
,
nicotine,
opioids,
phenylcyclidine, and
substituted amphetamines.
ΔJunD is the transcription factor which directly opposes ΔFosB.
Increases in nucleus accumbens ΔJunD expression can reduce or, with a large increase, even block most of the neural alterations seen in chronic drug abuse (i.e., the alterations mediated by ΔFosB).
ΔFosB also plays an important role in regulating behavioral responses to natural rewards, such as palatable food, sex, and exercise.
Natural rewards, like drugs of abuse, induce ΔFosB in the nucleus accumbens, and chronic acquisition of these rewards can result in a similar pathological addictive state.
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Thus, ΔFosB is also the key transcription factor involved in addictions to natural rewards as well,
and sexual addictions in particular, since ΔFosB in the nucleus accumbens is critical for the reinforcing effects of sexual reward.
Research on the interaction between natural and drug rewards suggests that psychostimulants and sexual reward possess cross-sensitization effects and act on common biomolecular mechanisms of addiction-related neuroplasticity which are mediated through ΔFosB.
Evolutionary perspectives
From an
evolutionary standpoint, human
sexual behavior evolved under conditions in which reproductive opportunities were limited by social, environmental, and biological constraints. A strong sex drive would historically have conferred
fitness advantages for individuals, i.e. would have increased reproductive success. Modern technologies—such as readily available online pornography, cybersex, and other novel sexual outlets—may produce an “
evolutionary mismatch
Evolutionary mismatch (also "mismatch theory" or "evolutionary trap") is the evolutionary biology concept that a previously advantageous phenotypic trait, trait may become maladaptation, maladaptive due to change in the biophysical environment, e ...
” in which evolved predispositions collide with unprecedented access to sexual stimuli. This mismatch can intensify or hyperactivate normal mating motivations, leading, in some cases, to behaviors labeled as “sex addiction." Prevalence data consistently show that men report higher rates of compulsive sexual behavior than women, which some researchers link to men’s evolutionarily shaped orientation toward short-term mating strategies. In earlier environments, sexual pursuit quickly led to reproduction, typically followed by social and hormonal changes that curbed further mating pursuits. Today, however, near-limitless sexual content allows evolved drives to manifest in ways that may be harmful or distressing, exemplifying how novel features of modern society can transform an adaptive predisposition into a potentially maladaptive compulsion.
Treatment
Counseling
As of 2023, none of the official regulatory bodies for
Psycho-sexual Counseling or
Sex and Relationship therapy, have accepted sex addiction as a distinct entity with associated treatment protocols. Indeed, some practitioners regard sex addiction as a potentially harmful diagnosis and draw parallels with gay conversion therapy.
As a result, treatment for sex addiction is more often provided by addiction professionals in the counseling field than psychosexual specialists. These counseling professionals typically hold advanced degrees of education including master's degrees or Doctorates in counseling or a related field like psychology. These counselors can also hold certifications like Licensed Professional Counselors (LPC-S) who are required to hold a master's degree or higher level of education. Therapists and Psychologists usually also hold a Master's in a related field of study.
Cognitive behavioral therapy is a common form of behavioral treatment for addictions and maladaptive behaviors in general.
Dialectical behavior therapy has been shown to improve treatment outcomes as well.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSAT) a group of sexual addiction therapists certified by the
International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals
The International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP) is one of the most well-known, for-profit organizations that provides training and certification for licensed and interned mental health professionals who want to treat s ...
offer specialized behavioral therapy designed specifically for sexual addiction.
[Stefanie Carnes. Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts. Gentle Path Press; Second Edition. (4 October 2011) page 139 ]
In-person support groups
In-person support groups are available in most of the developed world. Few studies have been done on the effectiveness of twelve-step treatment and the scientific support for the effectiveness of this treatment is weak.
Support groups may be useful for uninsured or under-insured individuals. (See also: .) They may also be useful as an adjunct to professional treatment. In addition, they may be useful in places where professional practices are full (i.e. not accepting new patients), scarce, or nonexistent, or where these practices have waiting lists. Finally, they may be useful for patients who are reluctant to spend money on professional treatment.
Epidemiology
According to a systematic review from 2014, observed prevalence rates of sexual addiction/hypersexual disorder range from 3% to 6%.
Some studies suggest that sex addicts are disproportionately male, at 80%.
A review paper about pornography consumption notes that sex addiction is correlated with
narcissism.
History
Sex addiction as a term first emerged in the mid-1970s when various members of
Alcoholics Anonymous
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a global, peer-led Mutual aid, mutual-aid fellowship focused on an abstinence-based recovery model from alcoholism through its spiritually inclined twelve-step program. AA's Twelve Traditions, besides emphasizing anon ...
sought to apply the principles of
12-steps toward sexual recovery from serial infidelity and other unmanageable compulsive sex behaviors that were similar to the powerlessness and un-manageability they experienced with alcoholism.
Multiple 12-step style self-help groups now exist for people who identify as sex addicts, including
Sex Addicts Anonymous,
Sexaholics Anonymous,
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous,
Sexual Recovery Anonymous, and
Sexual Compulsives Anonymous.
Society and culture
Controversy
The controversy surrounding sexual addiction is centered around its identification, through a diagnostic model, in a clinical setting. As noted in current medical literature reviews, compulsive sexual behavior has been observed in humans; drug-induced compulsive sexual behavior has also been noted clinically in some individuals taking
dopaminergic
Dopaminergic means "related to dopamine" (literally, "working on dopamine"), a common neurotransmitter. Dopaminergic substances or actions increase dopamine-related activity in the brain.
Dopaminergic pathways, Dopaminergic brain pathways facil ...
drugs.
Moreover, some research suggests compulsive engagement in sexual behavior despite negative consequences in animal models. Since current diagnostic models use drug-related concepts as diagnostic criteria for addictions,
these are ill-suited for modelling compulsive behaviors in a clinical setting.
Consequently, diagnostic classification systems, such as the DSM, do not include sexual addiction as a diagnosis because there is currently "insufficient peer-reviewed evidence to establish the diagnostic criteria and course descriptions needed to identify these behaviors as mental disorders".
[ A systematic review on sexual addiction conducted in 2014 argued that the "lack of empirical evidence on sexual addiction is the result of the disease's complete absence from versions of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders."]
There have been debates regarding the definition and existence of sexual addictions for decades, as the issue was covered in a 1994 journal article.[Francoeur, R. T. (1994). ''Taking sides: Clashing views on controversial issues in human sexuality,'' p. 25. Dushkin Pub. Group.] The Mayo Clinic considers sexual addiction a form of obsessive compulsive disorder and refer to it as "sexual compulsivity" (note that addiction has been defined as a compulsion toward rewarding stimuli, although the ASAM now describe it as "a primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory and related circuitry.")). A paper dating back to 1988 and a journal comment letter published in 2006 asserted that sex addiction is itself a myth, a by-product of cultural and other influences. The 1988 paper argued that the condition is instead a way of projecting social stigma onto patients.[ "Love addiction" falls into the same controversial area as well since it refers to a frequent pattern of intimate relationships which can be a byproduct of cultural norms and commonly accepted morals.
In a report from 2003, Marty Klein, stated that "the concept of sex addiction provides an excellent example of a model that is both sex-negative and politically disastrous."] Klein singled out a number of features that he considered crucial limitations of the sex addiction model[ and stated that the diagnostic criteria for sexual addiction are easy to find on the internet.][ Drawing on the '' Sexual Addiction Screening Test'', he stated that "the sexual addiction diagnostic criteria make problems of nonproblematic experiences, and as a result pathologize a majority of people."][
It has been argued that the CSBD diagnosis is not based upon sex research.]
According to Apryl Alexander, historically, in the US, the claim of sex addiction has been the preferred defense of white men who committed felonies.
Although it is a "nice theory", empirical support for the concept of sex addiction is largely missing, and the "industry of porn/sex addiction is based on conservative moral values around sexuality that intrude into clinical practice". ASAM recognized in 2024 that neither the American Psychiatric Association, nor the World Health Organization endorse the view that there is such a thing as sex ''addiction'' (since CSBD is not an addiction).
Since this is a disputed diagnosis, Gola and Kraus (2021) found that the WHO reached a "good compromise" by listing CSBD as an impulse-control disorder.
Julie Sale stated "No-one refutes that clients access therapy for help with sexual behaviours that they feel they have no control over. The issue is how these client experiences are conceptualised and how the clinical formulation informs treatment."[Sale, Julie "Preface" in ]
Silva Neves states that in many cases sex addiction therapy applied to gay men is akin to conversion therapy. This was also stated in McGhee and Hollowell (2022). Charles Francis made the same point in 2023. Monica Meyer warned about it in 2018.
Popular culture
Sexual addiction has been the main theme in a variety of films including '' Diary of a Sex Addict'', '' I Am a Sex Addict'', '' Black Snake Moan'', '' Confessions of a Porn Addict'', ''Shame
Shame is an unpleasant self-conscious emotion often associated with negative self-evaluation; motivation to quit; and feelings of pain, exposure, distrust, powerlessness, and worthlessness.
Definition
Shame is a discrete, basic emotion, d ...
'', '' Thanks for Sharing'', '' Don Jon'', and '' Choke''. Charles II of England
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Charles II was the eldest su ...
was portrayed as a sex addict in 17th century satires.
See also
* Compulsive sexual behaviour disorder
* Compulsive masturbation
* Hypersexuality
* Internet sex addiction
* Pornography addiction
* Sexual obsessions
References
Further reading
Books that provide overview history and treatment techniques for sexual addiction include:
* ''Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sex Addiction'' by Patrick Carnes. (Hazelden, 1983)
* ''Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous: The Basic Text for the Augustine Fellowship'' (Augustine Fellowship, 1986)
* ''Sex Lies and Forgiveness: Couples Speaking Out on Healing from Sex Addiction'' by Jennifer P. Schneider and Burt Schneider. (Recovery Resources Press, 1991)
* ''Don't Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual Addiction'' by Bantam, Patrick Carnes. (1992)
* ''Sex Addiction: Case Studies And Management'' by Ralph H. Earle and Marcus R. Earle. (Brunner/Mazel, 1995)
* ''Sexual Addiction: An Integrated Approach'' by Aviel Goodman. (International Universities Press, 1998)
* ''Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and Shame'' by George N. Collins, Andrew Adleman. (New Harbinger Publications, 2011)
Books focusing on partners of sex addicts:
* ''My Secret Life with a Sex Addict from discovery to recovery'' by Emma Dawson. (Thornton Publishing, 2004)
* ''Hope After Betrayal: Healing When Sexual Addiction Invades Your Marriage'' by Meg Wilson. (Kregel Publications, 2007)
* ''Deceived: Facing Sexual Betrayal Lies and Secrets'' by Claudia Black. (Hazelden, 2009)
* ''Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal'' by Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means. (New Horizon Press, 2009)
* ''Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts'' by Stefanie Carnes. (Gentle Path Press, 2011)
* ''Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity'' by Mark Chamberlain. (Shadow Mountain; 2 July 2011 edition, 2011)
* ''A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction: A Step-by-Step Plan to Rebuild Trust and Restore Intimacy'' by Paldrom Collins and George Collins. (Adams Media, 2011)
* ''Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts'' by Stefanie Carnes. (Gentle Path Press, 2012)
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