"Save Me" is a song by the American singer-songwriter

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, written for the 1999 film ''

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''. It was nominated for an

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and a

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. It was released on the ''Magnolia'' soundtrack.

Writing

The actor and comedian

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said Mann wrote "Save Me" about him while they were in a relationship. Foley said he was "the only man Aimee's written a positive song about", and that "to have this song written was such a balm to my soul at that point".

Reception

"Save Me" was nominated for an

. Mann performed it at the

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. It lost to "

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", by

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, from the

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film ''

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''. By way of introduction to a live performance, Mann referred to "Save Me" as "the song that lost an Oscar to Phil Collins and his cartoon monkey love song". "Save Me" was also nominated for a

. Mann later said the song "really gave a blood transfusion to my career. But it wasn't like I went from playing to five people to 5,000 people. It was just a real influx of energy." In 2022, ''

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'' named "Save Me" the 193rd-best song of the 1990s. The critic Eric Torres wrote: "Subtly informed by a long period of disappointment, 'Save Me' is wry but surefooted ... The featherlight production and songwriting belie its inevitable punch: Here, Mann underscores the raw tenderness that comes with searching for help."

Music video

The music video, shot during the filming of ''

'', was directed by the film's director,

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, and uses many of the film's actors, including

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, and John C. Reilly. The video inserts Mann into various scenes from the film as she performs the song. Unlike many such music videos, the "Save Me" video used no digital manipulation; the scenes were shot at the end of filming days with Mann and actors who were asked to stay in place.

References

1999 songs Aimee Mann songs Songs written for films Songs written by Aimee Mann Rock ballads Music videos directed by Paul Thomas Anderson Reprise Records singles {{1990s-pop-song-stub