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Ruchoma Shain (; 6 December 1914 – 16 March 2013) was an American-born
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, English teacher, and author. She is best known for her first book, ''All for the Boss'' (1984), a
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of her father,
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, which she wrote in her late sixties. In detailing her father's life, she also describes
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life in America in the early 1900s. ''All for the Boss'' became one of the all-time best-sellers for
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, and Shain's stories and observations are quoted by numerous authors. Her second book, ''Reaching the Stars'' (1990), chronicles her experiences as a teacher. She also authored ''Dearest Children'', ''All for the Best'', and ''Shining Lights''.


Biography

Ruchoma Herman was born on New York's
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to Rabbi Yaakov Yosef and Aidel Herman. She was the youngest of her parents' five children. She had three sisters and one brother. At seventeen years old, she married Moshe, the eldest son of Rabbi Shimon and Geneshe Shain. Shortly after their wedding, the couple, at the behest of her father, traveled to
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, where they spent nearly six years while her husband studied at the Mir yeshiva under Rabbis Eliezer Yehuda Finkel,
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, and
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. Her sister, Basya (Bessie), wife of Rabbi
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, and her brother, Rabbi Nochum Dovid, also joined them in Mir. Later they returned to the East Side. When their children were grown, the Shains moved to
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, purchasing an apartment in the new development of
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. In the United States, Shain taught English to several grades. In Jerusalem, she became a popular lecturer to women and girls. After the publication of her books, Shain received visitors seeking her counsel regarding various topics. Shain wrote her first book, ''All for the Boss'', in her late sixties upon the request of Yaakov Feldheim, one of the founders of
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. Published in 1984, her book about growing up in
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and the influence of her father became one of the all-time best-sellers for the publishing company, which until then had concentrated on Torah and rabbinic literature. ''All for the Boss'' was revised and expanded in 2001, and Feldheim published a "Young Readers Edition" in 2006. Feldheim translated the book into Hebrew in 2002. It was also translated into Yiddish. In 2010 a ''
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'' reporter called the book "one of the most read, talked about, and widely studied in the
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street". Shain went on to write four more books, drawing on her personal and teaching experiences. About ten years before her death, she returned to the United States to be near her children in
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, where she continued to welcome visitors. She died in 2013 in
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. Her children are Rabbi Yisrael Meir Shain, Mrs. Mashi Wilner, and Rabbi Refoel Yitzchak Shain.


Influence

Shain's stories about her childhood, and her viewpoints on teaching, have been quoted by numerous authors.


Bibliography

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Revised edition
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References


External links

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Ruchoma Shain's Books
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"Tzippie" by Ruchoma Shain
in '' Chicken Soup for the Unsinkable Soul'', 2012 {{DEFAULTSORT:Shain, Ruchoma 1914 births 2013 deaths Teachers of English Haredi writers Jewish women non-fiction writers People from the Lower East Side Rebbetzins Writers from Manhattan Schoolteachers from New York (state) American women educators 21st-century American women writers 20th-century American women writers 20th-century American Jews 21st-century American Jews Jews from New York City American Haredim Jewish educators American emigrants to Israel Jewish Israeli non-fiction writers Israeli women non-fiction writers 20th-century Israeli women writers Israeli Haredim