Ruchoma Shain (6 December 1914 – 16 March 2013) was an American-born
rebbetzin
Rebbetzin ( yi, רביצין) or Rabbanit ( he, רַבָּנִית) is the title used for the wife of a rabbi—typically among Orthodox, Haredi, and Hasidic Jews—or for a female Torah scholar or teacher.
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, English teacher, and author. She is best known for her first book, ''All for the Boss'' (1984), a
biography
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of her father,
Yaakov Yosef Herman
Yaakov Yosef Herman (1880–1967) was an Orthodox Jewish pioneer in the United States in the early 20th century. A native of Slutsk, Belarus, he immigrated with his parents and younger sister to New York City at the age of 8 and was left on his ow ...
, which she wrote in her late sixties. In detailing her father's life, she also describes
Orthodox Jewish
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life in America in the early 1900s.
[ ''All for the Boss'' became one of the all-time best-sellers for ]Feldheim Publishers
Feldheim Publishers (or Feldheim) is an American Orthodox Jewish publisher of Torah books and literature. Its extensive catalog of titles includes books on Jewish law, Torah, Talmud, Jewish lifestyle, Shabbat and Jewish holidays, Jewish histor ...
,[ and Shain's stories and observations are quoted by numerous authors.
Her second book, ''Reaching the Stars'' (1990), chronicles her experiences as a teacher.][ She also authored ''Dearest Children'', ''All for the Best'', and ''Shining Lights''.][
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Biography
Ruchoma Herman was born on New York's Lower East Side
The Lower East Side, sometimes abbreviated as LES, is a historic neighborhood in the southeastern part of Manhattan in New York City. It is located roughly between the Bowery and the East River from Canal to Houston streets.
Traditionally ...
to Rabbi Yaakov Yosef and Aidel Herman.[ She was the youngest of her parents' five children.][ She had three sisters and one brother.][
At seventeen years old, she married Moshe, the eldest son of Rabbi Shimon and Geneshe Shain.][ Shortly after their wedding, the couple, at the behest of her father, traveled to ]Mir, Belarus
Mir ( be, Мір; russian: Мир; ) is a town in the Karelichy District (Карэліцкі раён) of Grodno Region, Belarus on the banks of Miranka River, about 85 kilometers southwest of the national capital, Minsk.
History
Mir village wa ...
, where they spent nearly six years while her husband studied at the Mir yeshiva under Rabbis Eliezer Yehuda Finkel Eliezer Yehuda Finkel may refer to one of the two rosh yeshivas of the Mir yeshivas:
* Eliezer Yehuda Finkel (born 1879) (1879–1965), also known as Reb Leizer Yudel, rosh yeshiva of the Mir yeshiva in Poland and Jerusalem
* Eliezer Yehuda Finkel ...
, Yeruchom Levovitz
Rav Yeruchom Levovitz ( he, ירוחם ליוואוויץ; ca. 1875-1936), also known by his hundreds of students simply as The Mashgiach, was a famous mashgiach ruchani and baal mussar (Jewish Ethics) at the Mir yeshiva in Belarus.
Early life
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, and Yechezkel Levenstein
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.[ Her sister, Basya (Bessie), wife of Rabbi Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg, and her brother, Rabbi Nochum Dovid, also joined them in Mir.][ Later they returned to the East Side. When their children were grown, the Shains moved to ]Jerusalem
Jerusalem (; he, יְרוּשָׁלַיִם ; ar, القُدس ) (combining the Biblical and common usage Arabic names); grc, Ἱερουσαλήμ/Ἰεροσόλυμα, Hierousalḗm/Hierosóluma; hy, Երուսաղեմ, Erusałēm. i ...
, purchasing an apartment in the new development of Kiryat Mattersdorf
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In the United States, Shain taught English to several grades.] In Jerusalem, she became a popular lecturer to women and girls. After the publication of her books, Shain received visitors seeking her counsel regarding various topics.[
Shain wrote her first book, ''All for the Boss'', in her late sixties upon the request of Yaakov Feldheim, one of the founders of ]Feldheim Publishers
Feldheim Publishers (or Feldheim) is an American Orthodox Jewish publisher of Torah books and literature. Its extensive catalog of titles includes books on Jewish law, Torah, Talmud, Jewish lifestyle, Shabbat and Jewish holidays, Jewish histor ...
. Published in 1984, her book about growing up in New York City
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and the influence of her father became one of the all-time best-sellers for the publishing company, which until then had concentrated on Torah and rabbinic literature. ''All for the Boss'' was revised and expanded in 2001,[ and Feldheim published a "Young Readers Edition" in 2006. Feldheim translated the book into Hebrew in 2002. It was also translated into Yiddish. In 2010 a '']Ynet
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'' reporter called the book "one of the most read, talked about, and widely studied in the Haredi
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street". Shain went on to write four more books, drawing on her personal and teaching experiences.
About ten years before her death, she returned to the United States to be near her children in Adelphia, New Jersey
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, where she continued to welcome visitors. She died in 2013 in Lakewood Township, New Jersey
Lakewood Township is the most populous township in Ocean County, in the U.S. state of New Jersey. A rapidly growing community as of the 2020 U.S. census, the township had a total population of 135,158 representing an increase of 41,415 (+45 ...
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Her children are Rabbi Yisrael Meir Shain, Mrs. Mashi Wilner, and Rabbi Refoel Yitzchak Shain.][
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Influence
Shain's stories about her childhood, and her viewpoints on teaching, have been quoted by numerous authors.
Bibliography
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Revised edition
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References
External links
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Ruchoma Shain's Books
at Goodreads
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"Tzippie" by Ruchoma Shain
in '' Chicken Soup for the Unsinkable Soul'', 2012
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1914 births
2013 deaths
Teachers of English
Haredi writers
Jewish women writers
People from the Lower East Side
Rebbetzins
Writers from Manhattan
Schoolteachers from New York (state)
American women educators
21st-century American women