Rosalind Maud Shand (' Cubitt; 11 August 1921 – 14 July 1994) was the daughter of
Roland Cubitt, 3rd Baron Ashcombe. She was the wife of army officer Major
Bruce Shand and the mother of
Queen Camilla
Camilla (born Camilla Rosemary Shand, later Parker Bowles, 17 July 1947) is List of British royal consorts, Queen of the United Kingdom and the 14 other Commonwealth realms as the wife of King Charles III.
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.
Childhood
Rosalind was born at 16 Grosvenor Street, London, on 11 August 1921, the eldest of the three children born to
Roland Calvert Cubitt (1899–1962) and his wife
Sonia Rosemary Cubitt (''née''
Keppel; 1900–1986). Her father was the son of
Henry Cubitt, 2nd Baron Ashcombe, and became 3rd
Baron Ashcombe after his death. Rosalind's mother Sonia was the youngest daughter of
George Keppel and his wife,
Alice Frederica Keppel (''née''
Edmonstone).
Rosalind had two younger siblings:
Henry Cubitt, who succeeded his father as the 4th Baron Ashcombe, and Jeremy Cubitt, who died in 1958 at the age of 30.
Her family was the aristocratic and wealthy Cubitt family, which founded the Cubitt construction company. She was a goddaughter of
Dame Margaret Greville and inherited some of her fortune.
Rosalind was named by the press as the 1939 'Debutante of the Year'. She had her
debutante
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ball on 6 July 1939 at the
Holland House
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in
Kensington
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The district's commercial heart is Kensington High Street, running on an east–west axis. The north-east is taken up by Kensingt ...
, London. It was attended by more than a thousand guests including famous playwright and composer
Noël Coward
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and royals
King George VI
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and
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. The ball was described as the last grand and great ball held at the house before it was destroyed during the Second World War.
Marriage and children
Rosalind met her future husband Major
Bruce Middleton Hope Shand (1917–2006), son of English journalist
Philip Morton Shand and his first wife
Edith Marguerite Harrington, at the end of the Second World War. He later retired from the British Army after winning two
Military Cross
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es and being a German
prisoner of war
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. They married on 2 January 1946 at
St Paul's Church, Knightsbridge
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The church was founded in 1843, the first in London t ...
in London. The couple bought a
country house
image:Blenheim - Blenheim Palace - 20210417125239.jpg, 300px, Blenheim Palace - Oxfordshire
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,
The Laines in
Plumpton, East Sussex
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, and also maintained another house in
South Kensington
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.
They had three children:
*
Camilla Rosemary Shand (born 17 July 1947), whose first marriage was to
Andrew Parker Bowles
Brigadier (United Kingdom), Brigadier Andrew Henry Parker Bowles (born 27 December 1939) is a retired British Army officer. He is the former husband of Queen Camilla, who is now the wife of King Charles III.
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Andrew Parker ...
and had two children, in 2005 she went on to marry Charles, Prince of Wales (later
Charles III
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Charles was born at Buckingham Palace during the reign of his maternal grandfather, King George VI, and ...
):
**
Thomas Henry Charles Parker Bowles (born 1974)
**
Laura Rose Lopes ''née'' Parker Bowles (born 1978)
:
*
Sonia Annabel Shand (born 2 February 1949) married Simon Elliot and had three children:
**
Benjamin William Elliot (born 1975)
**Alice Rosalind Irwin ''née'' Elliot (born 1977)
**Katie Camilla Elliot (born 1981)
*
Mark Roland Shand (28 June 1951 – 23 April 2014) married
Clio Goldsmith and had a child:
**Ayesha Shand (born 1995)
Career and charity work
Rosalind worked for an adoption agency before marriage. She volunteered at the
Chailey Heritage Foundation, which helps young children with disabilities, in the 1960s and 1970s located at
North Chailey, East Sussex. She worked there as a volunteer for 17 years. Her daughter Camilla opened a new facility there in 2013.
Death
She died at
Lewes
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, East Sussex on 14 July 1994 aged 72, having long suffered from
osteoporosis
Osteoporosis is a systemic skeletal disorder characterized by low bone mass, micro-architectural deterioration of bone tissue leading to more porous bone, and consequent increase in Bone fracture, fracture risk.
It is the most common reason f ...
.
Her mother Sonia also died from the same disease in 1986.
She was survived by her husband, her three children and five grandchildren. Her youngest granddaughter, Ayesha, was born a year after her death.
Following her mother's death, Camilla became a member of the National Osteoporosis Society, which later became
Royal Osteoporosis Society (a charity dedicated to improving the diagnosis, prevention and treatment of osteoporosis) in 1994 to help raise awareness of the disease, became Patron of the charity in 1997 and was appointed its president in 2001.
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