Romantic orientation, also called affectional orientation, is the classification of the
sex or
gender
Gender is the range of social, psychological, cultural, and behavioral aspects of being a man (or boy), woman (or girl), or third gender. Although gender often corresponds to sex, a transgender person may identify with a gender other tha ...
which a person experiences
romantic attraction towards or is likely to have a
romantic relationship with. The term is used alongside the term "
sexual orientation
Sexual orientation is an enduring personal pattern of romantic attraction or sexual attraction (or a combination of these) to persons of the opposite sex or gender, the same sex or gender, or to both sexes or more than one gender. Patterns ar ...
", as well as being used alternatively to it, based upon the perspective that
sexual attraction is only a single component of
a larger concept.
For example, although a
pansexual person may feel sexually attracted to people regardless of gender, the person may experience romantic attraction and intimacy, for example, with women only.
For
asexual people, romantic orientation is often considered a more useful measure of attraction than sexual orientation.
The relationship between sexual attraction and romantic attraction is still under debate.
Sexual and romantic attractions are often studied in conjunction. Even though studies of sexual and romantic spectrums are shedding light onto this under-researched subject, much is still not fully understood.
Romantic identities
People may or may not engage in purely emotional
romantic relationships. The main identities relating to this are:
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Aromantic
Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing little to no romantic attraction. The term "aromantic", Colloquialism, colloquially shortened to "aro", refers to a person whose romantic orientation is aromanticism.
It is d ...
, meaning someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction (aromanticism).
** ''For identities within the aromantic spectrum, see
Aromantic spectrum''.
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Alloromantic or zedromantic:
Not aromantic (alloromanticism or zedromanticism).
** Monoromantic: Romantic attraction towards person(s) of only one gender (monoromanticism).
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Androromantic: Romantic attraction towards men or masculinity (androromanticism).
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Gyneromantic or gynoromantic: Romantic attraction towards women or femininity (gyneromanticism or gynoromanticism).
*** : Romantic attraction towards person(s) of the opposite gender (heteroromanticism).
*** : Romantic attraction towards person(s) of the same gender (homoromanticism).
** Multiromantic or pluriromantic: Romantic attraction towards person(s) of multiple genders (multiromanticism or pluriromanticism).
*** or ambiromantic: Romantic attraction towards two genders, or person(s) of the same and other genders (biromanticism or ambiromanticism).
Sometimes used the same way as panromantic or multiromantic.
*** or omniromantic:
Romantic attraction towards person(s) regardless of gender or of any, every, and all genders (panromanticism or omniromanticism).
*** : Romantic attraction towards person(s) of various, but not all, genders (polyromanticism).
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Skolioromantic or ceteroromantic: Romantic attraction towards
genderqueer or
non-binary
Non-binary or genderqueer Gender identity, gender identities are those that are outside the male/female gender binary. Non-binary identities often fall under the transgender umbrella since non-binary people typically identify with a gende ...
person(s) (skolioromanticism or ceteroromanticism).
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Abroromantic: Fluid between romantic identities or in romantic attraction (abroromanticism). Not to be confused with
aroflux.
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Pomoromantic: Rejecting preexisting romantic labels (pomoromanticism).
Relationship with sexual orientation and asexuality
The implications of the distinction between romantic and
sexual orientation
Sexual orientation is an enduring personal pattern of romantic attraction or sexual attraction (or a combination of these) to persons of the opposite sex or gender, the same sex or gender, or to both sexes or more than one gender. Patterns ar ...
s have not been fully recognized, nor have they been studied extensively.
It is common for sources to describe sexual orientation as including components of both sexual and romantic (or romantic equivalent) attractions.
Publications investigating the relationship between sexual orientation and romantic orientation are limited. Challenges in collecting information result from survey participants having difficulty identifying or distinguishing between sexual and romantic attractions.
Asexual individuals experience little to no
sexual attraction (see
gray asexuality); however, they may still experience romantic attraction.
Lisa M. Diamond states that a person's romantic orientation can differ from whom the person is sexually attracted to.
While there is limited research on the discordance between sexual attraction and romantic attraction in individuals, the possibility of
fluidity and diversity in attractions have been progressively recognized. Researchers Bulmer and Izuma found that people who identify as aromantic often have more negative attitudes in relation to romance. While roughly 1% of the population identifies as asexual, 74% of those people reported having some form of romantic attraction.
A concept commonly used by people that experience discordant romantic and sexual attraction is the
split attraction model, which tries to explain that romantic and sexual attractions are not exclusively tied together and is often used by people of the asexual and aromantic community to explain their differing romantic versus sexual orientations. The abbreviation aroace (or aro-ace) can be used for someone who is both aromantic ('aro') and asexual ('ace').
See also
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Bromance
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Cross-sex friendship
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Emotional affair
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Heterosociality
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Homosociality
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Queerplatonic relationship
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Romantic friendship
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Womance
References
Further reading
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