
Purity rings (also known as promise rings, abstinence rings, or chastity rings) are rings worn as a sign of
chastity
Chastity, also known as purity, is a virtue related to temperance. Someone who is ''chaste'' refrains from sexual activity that is considered immoral or from any sexual activity, according to their state of life. In some contexts, for exampl ...
.
Since the 1990s, Christian organizations in the
United States
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used the purity ring as a symbol of commitment. In particular,
Catholic
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and
evangelical Christian
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groups which promoted
virginity pledge
Abstinence pledges are commitments made by people, often though not always teenagers and young adults, to practice abstinence, usually in the case of practicing teetotalism with respect to abstaining from alcohol and other drugs, or chastity, w ...
s and virginity before marriage, such as
True Love Waits and
Silver Ring Thing.
[ Wearing a purity ring is typically accompanied by a religious vow to practice abstinence until marriage. Chastity rings are part of the ]abstinence-only sex education
Abstinence-only sex education (also known as sexual risk avoidance education) is a form of sex education that teaches not having sex outside of marriage. It often excludes other types of sexual and reproductive health education, such as birth co ...
movement and are intended to act as a physical reminder of the wearer's chastity vow.
Organizations
Silver Ring Thing
Unaltered, known until 2019 as Silver Ring Thing (SRT), is an American virginity pledge
Abstinence pledges are commitments made by people, often though not always teenagers and young adults, to practice abstinence, usually in the case of practicing teetotalism with respect to abstaining from alcohol and other drugs, or chastity, w ...
program founded in 1995 by Denny Pattyn. The program encourages teens and young adults to remain sexually abstinent
Sexual abstinence or sexual restraint is the practice of refraining from sexual activity for reasons medical, psychological, legal, social, philosophical, moral, religious or other. It is a part of chastity. Celibacy is sexual abstinence generall ...
until marriage
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. For a few years, it was partially funded by the U.S. federal government. Drawing on Christian
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theology
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, SRT uses rock
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* Rock music, a genre of popular music
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/hip hop
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concert
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-style events in an attempt to appeal to 21st-century teenager
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s. During the gathering, participants commit to a vow of sexual abstinence until marriage by purchasing rings. The organization's theme verse is .
In 2004, SRT began expanding operations into the United Kingdom
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, with mixed results. While some teenagers in the UK embraced the message of abstinence, some critics rejected and ridiculed SRT, saying it was anti-sex or unrealistic, and that it seemed unlikely that abstinence programs would attract widespread support in the UK because of the UK's differing attitude toward sexuality and sex education. The group's Assistant National Director for the UK, Denise Pfeiffer, said there was a real need for such a movement in the UK to curb what she sees as the ever-increasing rates of sexually transmitted infections and teenage pregnancies, both of which she claims are the highest in Western Europe.
In 2005, the ACLU of Massachusetts sued the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
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because it believed SRT used tax dollars to promote Christianity. SRT presented a two-part programme: the first part about abstinence, the second about Christianity's role in abstinence. The ACLU claimed federal funding given to this program violated the separation of church and state
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. On August 22, 2005, the Department suspended SRT's US$
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75,000 federal grant
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until it submitted a "corrective action plan". In 2006, a corrective action plan was accepted by the department. The lawsuit was dismissed, and SRT received federal funding.
In a 2007 case in England, ''R (Playfoot) v Millais School Governing Body
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Facts
A school pupil insisted that ...
'', a 16-year-old student Lydia Playfoot alleged that her school had violated her rights by forbidding the wearing of a purity ring. The case was funded by the group Christian Concern. On July 16, 2007, the High Court ruled that Playfoot's human rights were not violated. Her father, Phil Playfoot, was the British pastor for Silver Ring Thing at the time, and was ordered to pay £12,000 towards the school's costs.
In 2019, Silver Ring Thing changed its name to Unaltered.
True Love Waits
True Love Waits (TLW) is an international Christian
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group that promotes sexual abstinence
Sexual abstinence or sexual restraint is the practice of refraining from sexual activity for reasons medical, psychological, legal, social, philosophical, moral, religious or other. It is a part of chastity. Celibacy is sexual abstinence general ...
outside of marriage
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for teenagers and college students. TLW was created in April 1993 by the Southern Baptists
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, and is sponsored by LifeWay Christian Resources
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. It is based on conservative Christian views of human sexuality.
Pledge
The True Love Waits pledge states: "Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate and my future children to be sexually abstinent from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship." In addition, they promote sexual purity, which encompasses not only abstaining from intercourse before marriage, but also abstaining from "sexual thoughts, sexual touching, pornography, and actions that are known to lead to sexual arousal."
By the late 1990s, Christian music groups were promoting the program, and events similar to youth rallies were held at Christian music concerts, providing an opportunity for adolescents to sign pledge cards.
Effect
In the first year of the campaign, over 102,000 young people signed the pledge, which was also taken up by other church groups including the Roman Catholic Church
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and Assemblies of God
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. The campaign spread across the US, making the use of occasions such as Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day, also called Saint Valentine's Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine, is celebrated annually on February 14. It originated as a Christian feast day honoring a Christian martyrs, martyr named Saint Valentine, Valentine, and ...
to gain attention.
By 2004, groups supporting abstinence numbered in the hundreds. During the preceding decade, approximately 2.5 million American youth took the pledge of abstinence.
Supporters
Various individuals advocate for purity rings, or have previously advocated for them.
* BarlowGirl
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* Miley Cyrus
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* Selena Gomez
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* Group 1 Crew
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** Blanca
* Jonas Brothers
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* Demi Lovato
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* Stacie Orrico
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* Rebecca St. James
* Jessica Simpson
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* Jordin Sparks
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Criticism
Some studies of the efficacy of virginity pledges have found they may be effective in delaying vaginal intercourse
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but ineffective in reducing the rate of sexually transmitted infection
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. They also reduce the likelihood of contraceptive
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use. Additionally, it has been reported that pledgers replace vaginal intercourse with other sexual activities, such as oral
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Relating to the mouth
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**Oral administration of medicines
** Oral examination (also known as an oral exam or ora ...
or anal sex, thinking they " don't count". At least one study has found no difference in the sexual behavior of pledgers and non-pledgers after controlling for pre-existing differences between the groups.
David Bario of the Columbia News Service wrote:
Under the Bush administration, organizations that promote abstinence and encourage teens to sign virginity pledge
Abstinence pledges are commitments made by people, often though not always teenagers and young adults, to practice abstinence, usually in the case of practicing teetotalism with respect to abstaining from alcohol and other drugs, or chastity, w ...
s or wear purity rings have received federal grants. The Silver Ring Thing, a subsidiary of a Pennsylvania evangelical church, has received more than $1 million from the government to promote abstinence and to sell its rings in the United States and abroad.
According to a study conducted by Peter Bearman
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and Hannah Brückner published in 2005 in the ''Journal of Adolescent Health'', 21% of young adults who had taken the pledge had vaginal intercourse
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, 13% reported having practiced oral sex
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and 4% anal sex
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. In the 2011 book '' Making Chastity Sexy: The Rhetoric of Evangelical Abstinence Campaigns'', Christine Gardner criticizes True Love Waits for "using sex to sell abstinence" by promising more satisfying sexual activity
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within marriage
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for those who abstain from premarital sex
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S ...
; she argues that this rhetoric
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reinforces selfish
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Selfishness is the opposite of ''altruism'' or selflessness, and has also been contrasted (as by C. S. Lewis ...
desires for gratification
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, sets people up for divorce
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and dissatisfaction with marriage, and simply adapts "secular forms for religious ends". In 2014, Jimmy Hester, one of the main founders of the program, said that although some studies have shown that many young Christians have broken their commitments, it has served as a benchmark for some who have returned to the faith.
The Jonas Brothers
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made an abstinence pledge through True Love Waits as teens. The band and pledge are satirized in the 2009 ''South Park
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'' episode " The Ring". In 2013, Morgan Lee, a journalist of ''The Christian Post
''The Christian Post'' is an American non-denominational, conservative, evangelical Christian online newspaper. Based in Washington, D.C., it was founded in March 2004.
News topics include the Church, ministries, missions, education, Christi ...
'', conducted an interview with Joe Jonas
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and wrote:
In 2019, the Lutheran minister Nadia Bolz-Weber called for people to send her their unwanted purity rings so that she could cast them into a sculpture of a vagina. Apologetic minister Alisa Childers criticized Bolz-Weber for her project, but acknowledged that purity ring campaigns needed to improve.
See also
* Celibacy
Celibacy (from Latin ''caelibatus'') is the state of voluntarily being unmarried, sexually abstinent, or both. It is often in association with the role of a religious official or devotee. In its narrow sense, the term ''celibacy'' is applied ...
* CTR ring
* Fornication
Fornication generally refers to consensual sexual intercourse between two people who are not married to each other. When a married person has consensual sexual relations with one or more partners whom they are not married to, it is called adu ...
* Purity ball
A purity ball is a formal dance event typically practiced by some conservative Christian groups in the United States. The events are attended by fathers and their teenage daughters in order to promote virginity until marriage. Typically, daughte ...
* Virginity pledge
Abstinence pledges are commitments made by people, often though not always teenagers and young adults, to practice abstinence, usually in the case of practicing teetotalism with respect to abstaining from alcohol and other drugs, or chastity, w ...
Further reading
* Virgin Nation: Sexual Purity and American Adolescence by Sara Moslener, Oxford University Press
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, 2015.
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References
External links
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