"Not Strong Enough" is a song by the American group
Boygenius
Boygenius (stylized in lowercase as boygenius) is an American indie rock supergroup consisting of American singer-songwriters Julien Baker, Phoebe Bridgers, and Lucy Dacus. They debuted with their self-titled EP in 2018, and then returned af ...
. It was released through
Interscope Records
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on March 1, 2023, as the fourth single from the band's debut studio album ''
The Record
The Record may refer to:
Music
* The Record (Fear album), ''The Record'' (Fear album), a 1982 studio album by the hardcore-punk band Fear
* The Record (Boygenius album), ''The Record'' (Boygenius album), a 2023 studio album by the indie rock supe ...
''. Written by all three members of Boygenius—
Julien Baker
Julien Rose Baker (born 1995) is an American indie rock singer-songwriter and guitarist. Her music is noted for its moody quality and confessional lyrical style, as well as frank explorations of topics including Christianity, addiction, mental ...
,
Phoebe Bridgers
Phoebe Lucille Bridgers (born August 17, 1994) is an American singer-songwriter. Her indie folk music typically centers on acoustic guitar and Electronic music, electronic production, with melancholic lyrical themes. She has won four Grammy Aw ...
, and
Lucy Dacus
Lucy Elizabeth Dacus ( ; born May 2, 1995) is an American singer-songwriter, guitarist, and record producer. Originally from Richmond, Virginia, Dacus first gained fame following the release of her debut album, ''No Burden'' (2016), which led to ...
—"Not Strong Enough" is an
indie rock
Indie rock is a Music subgenre, subgenre of rock music that originated in the United Kingdom, United States and New Zealand in the early to mid-1980s. Although the term was originally used to describe rock music released through independent reco ...
and
folk rock
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song that incorporates elements of numerous genres. Its lyrics primarily concern
mental illness
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and the effects it can have on relationships, with a focus on a narrator experiencing contradictory mental states of self-loathing and self-importance. Music critics also analyzed aspects of
gender roles
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Gender roles are usually centered on conceptions of masculinity and femininity. The specifics regarding these gende ...
and
feminism
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in the lyrics.
Commercially, the song appeared on several rock charts in the United States. These include
Adult Alternative Airplay
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, where it spent seven weeks at number one and was ranked by ''
Billboard
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'' as the most successful song of 2023. The song also charted in Ireland and on a secondary chart in Japan, and is
certified silver
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in the United Kingdom. The song was acclaimed by music critics, many of whom lauded the lyrics. Multiple publications deemed it one of the best songs on ''The Record'' and of 2023. At the
66th Annual Grammy Awards
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, the song received nominations for
Record of the Year
The Grammy Award for Record of the Year is presented by the National Academy of Recording Arts and Sciences of the United States to "honor artistic achievement, technical proficiency and overall excellence in the recording industry, without re ...
,
Best Rock Song
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, and
Best Rock Performance
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, winning the latter two. The song's music video chronicles the band spending a day together in various locations around
Los Angeles County
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; it received praise for its candid depiction of the three musicians' friendship, and for having an uplifting aura that contrasted with the relatively dark subject matter of the lyrics. The band regularly performed the song while touring behind ''The Record''; audiences and reviewers generally considered it to be a highlight of each concert.
Background and release
Boygenius
Boygenius (stylized in lowercase as boygenius) is an American indie rock supergroup consisting of American singer-songwriters Julien Baker, Phoebe Bridgers, and Lucy Dacus. They debuted with their self-titled EP in 2018, and then returned af ...
is a band consisting of three American
singer-songwriter
A singer-songwriter is a musician who writes, composes, and performs their own musical material, including lyrics and melodies. In the United States, the category is built on the folk- acoustic tradition with a guitar, although this role has ...
s:
Julien Baker
Julien Rose Baker (born 1995) is an American indie rock singer-songwriter and guitarist. Her music is noted for its moody quality and confessional lyrical style, as well as frank explorations of topics including Christianity, addiction, mental ...
,
Phoebe Bridgers
Phoebe Lucille Bridgers (born August 17, 1994) is an American singer-songwriter. Her indie folk music typically centers on acoustic guitar and Electronic music, electronic production, with melancholic lyrical themes. She has won four Grammy Aw ...
, and
Lucy Dacus
Lucy Elizabeth Dacus ( ; born May 2, 1995) is an American singer-songwriter, guitarist, and record producer. Originally from Richmond, Virginia, Dacus first gained fame following the release of her debut album, ''No Burden'' (2016), which led to ...
. The trio formed in 2018 and released an
extended play
An extended play (EP) is a Sound recording and reproduction, musical recording that contains more tracks than a Single (music), single but fewer than an album. Contemporary EPs generally contain up to eight tracks and have a playing time of 1 ...
(EP), ''
Boygenius
Boygenius (stylized in lowercase as boygenius) is an American indie rock supergroup consisting of American singer-songwriters Julien Baker, Phoebe Bridgers, and Lucy Dacus. They debuted with their self-titled EP in 2018, and then returned af ...
'', in October of that year. Each musician then worked on their solo projects, releasing their respective albums—''
Punisher
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'' by Bridgers, ''
Little Oblivions
''Little Oblivions'' is the third studio album by American singer-songwriter Julien Baker, released on February 26, 2021. Alongside the album's announcement, Baker released "Faith Healer" as the first single from the album. ''Little Oblivions'' i ...
'' by Baker, and ''
Home Video
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'' by Dacus—over the course of 2020 and 2021. Roughly a week after ''Punisher'' June 2020 release, Bridgers began writing new material to keep herself busy during the
COVID-19 pandemic
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. The song "Emily I'm Sorry", which was later released as a single and as the third track on ''The Record'', originated during this period; Bridgers sent a demo of the song to Dacus and Baker, believing that it felt more fitting for a full band than a solo recording. The three decided to start sharing demos and ideas for songs in a
Google Drive
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folder and a group chat, convening in California twice in 2021 to write together in person. On November 19, the band performed together for the first time in three years as part of a charity concert for Bread and Roses Presents. The band recorded the album at
Shangri-La
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in Malibu for much of January 2022 with contributions from several
session musician
A session musician (also known as studio musician or backing musician) is a musician hired to perform in a recording session or a live performance. The term sideman is also used in the case of live performances, such as accompanying a reco ...
s, including
bass guitar
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work from
Jay Som
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and
percussion
A percussion instrument is a musical instrument that is sounded by being struck or scraped by a percussion mallet, beater including attached or enclosed beaters or Rattle (percussion beater), rattles struck, scraped or rubbed by hand or ...
from
Carla Azar
Carla Azar (June 15, 1972) is an American drummer from Huntsville, Alabama and member of the band Autolux. She also plays guitar, bass guitar, keyboards, and sings.
Azar played drums on Jack White's albums ''Blunderbuss'', ''Lazaretto'', and ' ...
of the American
alternative rock
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band
Autolux
Autolux is an American alternative rock band formed in Los Angeles, California in 2001. The group formed as a trio and have released three full-length albums, ''Future Perfect'' (2004), '' Transit Transit'' (2010) and '' Pussy's Dead'' (2016). T ...
. Additional recording was completed at
Sound City Studios
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in
Van Nuys
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History
In 1 ...
.
The band was secretive about the writing and recording processes while they were ongoing; when individual members were asked in interviews whether they would reunite, they generally gave oblique and evasive responses. Rumors about a debut album from Boygenius began spreading in late 2022 to 2023, following a photoshoot in November 2022 and the announcement of their inclusion on the 2023
Coachella
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lineup. On January 18, 2023, the band's debut album ''The Record'' and its tracklist were announced, with a release date of March 31. Three singles were released at this time: "$20", "True Blue", and the aforementioned "Emily I'm Sorry". According to Bridgers, the album's first half consists of songs which were near completion by the time she, Baker, and Dacus shared them with each other; the second half is informed by the album's creative process itself, as well as the bond shared by the three band members. The collaboratively written "Not Strong Enough" appears as the sixth track out of 12. On March 1, the song was released as the album's fourth single, along with an accompanying
music video
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. It was serviced to
adult album alternative
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radio stations in the United States on March 13, followed by addition to
alternative radio
Modern rock is an umbrella term used to describe rock music that is found on college and commercial rock radio stations. Some radio stations use this term to distinguish themselves from classic rock, which is based in 1960s–1980s rock music.
...
stations in the country 15 days later.
Writing and composition
Music
"Not Strong Enough" primarily falls within the genres of
indie rock
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and
folk rock
Folk rock is a fusion genre of rock music with heavy influences from pop, English and American folk music. It arose in the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom in the mid-1960s. In the U.S., folk rock emerged from the folk music re ...
. Writing for ''
Stereogum
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''Stereogum'' was one of the first MP3 blogs and has received several awar ...
'', Tom Breihan called it a "twinkling headrush rocker". For ''
Exclaim!
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1970s
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. Eric Mason of ''
Slant Magazine
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'' and Lindsay Zoladz of ''
The New York Times
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'' detected influences from
pop music
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in the recording—Mason believed that the song exhibited "sly pop acumen" and Zoladz felt that it subverted tropes of the genre—while Tyler Golsen of '' Far Out'' found elements of
country music
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; Cat Zhang of ''
Pitchfork
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'' and Jeremy Winograd of ''Slant Magazine'' explicitly described it as
country pop
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, and Ben Beaumont-Thomas of ''
The Guardian
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'' categorized it as
pop rock
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. Chris Willman of ''
Variety
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'' classified it as
jangle pop
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, with Andrew Sacher of ''
BrooklynVegan
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'' also finding similarities to the genre.
Jon Pareles
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NME
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'' described the final minute of the song as " punky". During interviews with ''Variety'' and ''The New York Times'', the band stated that the song was partially written for radio play and that they wanted the song to be catchy and enjoyable; Dacus believed that the results were unconventional for what was ultimately a successful radio single, and Bridgers felt that the band's artistic integrity had remained intact. Willman, Carl Wilson of ''
Slate
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'', and Rachel Syme of ''
The New Yorker
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'' perceived the song to have commercial appeal, while Syme and Sacher compared it to early singles by
Sheryl Crow
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.
"Not Strong Enough" is built on basic
rock
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* Rock music, a genre of popular music
Rock or Rocks may also refer to:
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instrumentation of
guitar
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s,
bass
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Fish
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, and
percussion
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, while also incorporating
synthesizer
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electric
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guitars, which multiple music critics observed to be
strum
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med. Allaire Nuss of ''
Entertainment Weekly
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'' and Mikael Wood of the ''
Los Angeles Times
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'' assessed the guitar
riff
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s as possessing luminescent qualities. They sounded like chimes to Mark Savage of
BBC Music
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. Angie Martoccio of ''
Rolling Stone
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'' compared the song's guitarwork to the American musician
Frank Black
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, having previously stated in a January 2023 cover story that Bridgers had partially drawn influence from Black during the songwriting process. Pareles noted that the song's bass lines provide counter-melodies against the guitars. Several critics commented that the percussion was high in energy and integral to the song; ''Rolling Stone'' and ''
British GQ
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'' characterized the drumming as "chaotic" and "pounding", respectively, and ''
PopMatters
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'' John Amen felt that the percussion had a "bouncy" aspect. The
bass drum
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utilizes a
four on the floor
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pattern according to Dacus. Golsen remarked that the drumming was propulsive and steady; he felt that the drumming and synthesizers were components that helped to set the song apart from ''The Record'' other three tracks that had been made available to the public before the album's release. In an interview with
Zan Rowe
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of the Australian radio station Double J, Catherine Marks recalled that, with mixing assistance from Sarah Tudzin, she used takes from two drummers—Carla Azar and
Barbara Gruska
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—to splice together the song's percussion. The synthesizers were compared to music of the 1980s by Kyle Petersen of '' No Depression'' and the American rock band the War on Drugs by John Vettese of
WXPN
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. Nuss contrasted the cleanliness and warmth of the synthesizers and guitars with what she observed to be great turmoil at the heart of the song, comparing the effect to
porcelain
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being "hurtled at a wall".
The song was the final to be completed for ''The Record''. According to sheet music published at Musicnotes.com by Hal Leonard Music Publishing, "Not Strong Enough" is set in
common time
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at a tempo of 126
beats per minute
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and composed in the key of
D♭ major
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. It opens with a repeatedly strummed suspended G♭ chord before following a
chord progression
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of D♭–A♭sus4–E♭m7–B♭m in the verses, switching to a frequently modulating basic progression of G♭sus2–D♭–A♭–B♭m7 for the
chorus
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. The vocals of Bridgers, Baker, and Dacus collectively span a
range
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from the low note of F3 to the high note of D♭5. All three members take lead vocal duties at varying points in the song: Bridgers leads the first verse and chorus; Baker leads the second verse and chorus; and Dacus leads the
bridge
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and final chorus. Bridgers and Baker sing their respective verses alone, with the rest of the group adding
vocal harmonies
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during each chorus. A short instrumental interlude follows the second chorus, after which Dacus quietly sings solo with minimal musical accompaniment. Bridgers and Baker gradually join Dacus as the music builds intensity. The song reaches its climax near the end of the bridge, carried by "thundering instrumentation" according to
NPR Music
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, as Baker's and Bridgers's voices raise drastically. The instruments abruptly but briefly quiet underneath the vocals, leading into the final chorus.
Lyrics
The lyrics of "Not Strong Enough" touch on issues like
mental illness
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and resultant relationship dysfunction. The band explained the meanings of the song in a video interview with
Genius
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—Bridgers elucidated that the song was about using self-pity to escape the responsibility that comes with accountability, while Baker described the lyrics as expressing self-consciousness of one's abilities to do their part in a relationship but lacking the commitment to do so. Dacus responded to Bridgers and Baker by humorously labeling the song as " fuckboy-genius". Alex Hopper of ''
American Songwriter
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'' surmised that the song was about an unhealthy relationship in which self-loathing and insincere apologies are used as leverage. Other critics determined aspects of
gender roles
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while ''
Gay Times
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'' Zoya Raza-Sheikh interpreted the lyrics to contain facets of
feminism
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.
Bridgers's verse describes lacking the
executive function
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capabilities to change clocks so that they display the correct time. Rick Quinn of ''PopMatters'' theorized this incapacitation to be the result of a
panic attack
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. According to Rob Hakimian of ''
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'', the verse's opening lines establish the overall mood of the song's lyrics, which Hakimian characterized as "
dissociative
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". ''
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'' and ''Flood Magazine'' summarized the verse as portraying the effects of depression on the perception of one's surroundings. ''Far Out'' viewed it as an application of
kitchen sink realism
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. Baker's verse is about the prospect of a
drag race
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ending in a lethal automobile accident. It namechecks the song " Boys Don't Cry" by the English rock band
the Cure
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, which Alex Harris of ''Neon Music'' perceived to reference how people are expected by society to keep their emotions hidden. Quinn noted that "Boys Don't Cry" shares its name with a 1999 film about
Brandon Teena
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, a
trans man
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who was slain in a
hate crime
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; he suggested that Baker's verse contains a
double entendre
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alluding to
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and anti-
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bigotry.
The song's chorus is an homage to Crow's 1994 single " Strong Enough". Bridgers had thought of the referential lyric, "Not strong enough to be your man", long before the song was written and had been waiting for the right opportunity to include it. Though the song details feelings of depression, Bridgers told ''
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'' that she did not experience these emotions during the writing process, likening the discrepancy to "talking to your friends about the things you struggle with mentally, like you're not actually emotionally activated in the moment when sharing or talking about it." Each chorus uses different lyrics.
The bridge consists of the line, "Always an angel, never a god", repeated twelve times. According to Dacus, the lyric is intended to describe "receiving praise for being subservient". Hopper felt that it represented a "power imbalance" where a person with mental illness has greater influence in a relationship, while Lola J. DeAscentiis of ''
The Harvard Crimson
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'' opined that it represented feeling helpless and adrift. Nuss stated that it conveyed feelings of disappointment with being belittled by other people. Writing for ''Flood Magazine'', Kyle Lemmon interpreted the lyric to express "feelings of guilt and shame". To ''Atwood Magazine'' Nic Nichols and ''
Dazed
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'' Günseli Yalcinkaya, the lyric encapsulated the struggles of women against
misogyny
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in the music industry. ''
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'' Daniel Kohn wrote that it "express d... how to manage your own expectations and emotions while dealing with your own shit".
Response
Commercial performance
"Not Strong Enough" appeared on several rock-related single charts in the United States. It debuted at number 17 on ''
Billboard
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''s
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chart on the week ending March 25; it reached number one on the week ending June 3, becoming the first song by any member of Boygenius to summit a ''Billboard'' airplay chart. It remained at number one for seven weeks and spent a total of 24 weeks on the chart; ''Billboard'' ultimately ranked it as the most successful song of 2023 on adult alternative radio. On ''Billboard''s
Alternative Airplay
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chart, the song debuted at number 40 on the week ending April 8, peaking at number 11 on the week ending September 2 and charting for a total of 23 weeks. On ''Billboard''s overall
Rock Airplay
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chart, which measures audience impressions across mainstream rock, alternative, and adult album alternative radio stations, the song debuted at number 39 on the week ending March 25 and peaked at number 12 on the week ending June 17, charting for a total of 24 weeks. ''Billboard'' later ranked the song at numbers 27 and 26 on the 2023 year-end tallies for Alternative Airplay and Rock Airplay, respectively. On the multi-metric
Hot Rock & Alternative Songs
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chart, which ranks songs based on streaming figures and digital sales in addition to radio airplay, it debuted at number 43 on the week ending March 18 and peaked at number 26 on the week ending June 10, spending 22 weeks on the chart; it was ranked at number 74 on that chart's year-end listing.
Outside of the United States, "Not Strong Enough" had a limited presence on record charts. In Ireland, the song debuted and peaked at number 78 on the week of April 6 and fell off the chart the following week; it re-entered at number 84 on the week of August 31 for a second and final week on the chart. On ''
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''s Hot Overseas chart, the song debuted at number 15 on the week of March 20 and has since charted for nine non-consecutive weeks. It peaked at number nine on the week of May 1; as of May 2024, its most recent appearance was on the week of February 19, when it was ranked at number 15.
Critical reception
"Not Strong Enough" was met with critical acclaim. Multiple publications named it a highlight of ''The Record'' in their reviews of the album, including ''
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'', ''
NME
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'', ''
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'', ''
Exclaim!
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'', ''Flood Magazine'', ''
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'', and '' Uncut''. Tyler Golsen of '' Far Out'' gave the song four out of five stars, writing "It's just fun and that's all it needs to be. If you make songs as good as this, you don't need anything more." Writing for '' Consequence'', which selected "Not Strong Enough" as its Song of the Week, Spencer Dukoff described it as a "worship song for non-believers" and praised the vocals and lyrics. Lola J. DeAscentiis of ''
The Harvard Crimson
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'' was extremely positive, hailing the song as "a stunning masterpiece that manages to turn the most gruesome mental breakdown into a work of art, yet still avoids the romanticization of these struggles." ''Atwood Magazine''s collaborative review of ''The Record'' saw five of the review's seven contributors cite "Not Strong Enough" as one of the album's best songs, complimenting its "colorful instrumentation" and "spunky admission of inadequacy". Writing for ''American Songwriter'', Alex Hopper praised the song's unconventional approach to relationship-based lyrical themes. Ben Tipple of ''DIY'' referred to the song as "a shining moment in a sound of friendship that doesn't take itself too seriously, but comes built on an unshakable admiration for every facet of their beings." Adam Feibel of ''Exclaim!'' stated that it "showcases each of them equally and sounds like ''them'', all at once." ''
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'' and ''
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'' both considered the song to be "greater than the sum" of the three musicians' individual songwriting and performance capabilities. A lukewarm view of "Not Strong Enough" was given by ''No Ripcord'' David Coleman, who rated ''The Record'' six out of 10 in his review of the album. Coleman considered the song to be emblematic of his reservations toward the album; he was unimpressed with the songwriting and arrangements, and criticized the album for falling short of its promise, although he did praise the harmonies.
''
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'', ''
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'', and the ''
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'' crowned "Not Strong Enough" as the best song of 2023. Many other publications and media organizations included it in their year-end lists, such as
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(number two), ''Billboard'' (number six), ''
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'' (unranked top 42), ''
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'' (number two), ''
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'' (unranked top 20), ''Far Out'' (number 22), ''
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'' (number 19), ''NME'' (number 15),
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(unranked top 123), ''
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'' (unranked top 17), ''
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'' (number 32), ''Rolling Stone'' (number 13), ''
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'' (number 10), ''Spectrum Culture'' (number four), '' Time Out'' (number 20), and ''
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'' (unranked top 65). ''Far Out'' considered it to be the fourth-best Boygenius song, while ''Exclaim!'' placed it eighth on a list of the best songs written and performed by Bridgers. ''
Triple J
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'' ranked it at number 30 on their Hottest 100 of 2023. In September 2024, ''Pitchfork'' placed it at number 72 on a mid-decade ranking of the best songs of the
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.
Music video
The music video for "Not Strong Enough" documents Baker, Bridgers, and Dacus spending a day together in various locations around
Los Angeles
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. It starts with images of roadside scenery, interspersed with a clip of members
headbanging
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while driving, before the band arrives at the
Santa Monica Pier
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. At the pier, the band prances along the boardwalk, plays arcade games—where Baker tests her strength at a
high striker
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and Bridgers plays a
virtual reality
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game—and rides a carousel, a Ferris wheel, and a roller coaster. After this, the band goes to the
Getty Villa
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, where they explore the area and observe multiple statues and art displays. In one sequence, the screen continually moves to the right as Baker, Bridgers, and Dacus stand erect in between several busts, attempting to mimic their stoic facial expressions. Next, the band practices softball in a batting cage before visiting a
miniature golf
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course, where Baker and Bridgers climb a small castle used as a prop. The band then goes for a hike, where they descend a long staircase and traverse a dark tunnel. During the second half of the song's bridge, the video progresses through clips at a dramatically increased rate; these clips include a monster truck rally, Bridgers viewing
tarot card
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s, Dacus in a bookstore, rehearsal in the studio, and the band preparing and eating meals. The video finishes with the band having a beachside bonfire, where in one scene, they are running around while waving brightly colored smoke bombs through the air.
Baker, Bridgers, and Dacus expressed to ''
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'' magazine that their intention had been to create a video that represented their friendship; they recorded the video themselves so that the result would be more authentic. It was edited by Bridgers's brother Jackson. Lola J. DeAscentiis of ''The Harvard Crimson'', Robin Murray of '' Clash'', and Will Schube of ''
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'' opined that the presentation of the video resembled that of a
home movie
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. DeAscentiis felt that the carefree aura of the video contradicted the dark themes of the lyrics, adding more depth to the song. Cron wrote: "It's as fun as it is endearing, and it underlines why Boygenius' members work so well together. From the joy on their faces, it's clear that the music – vital as it is – is not the most important part of Boygenius." Derrick Rossignol of ''
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'' commented that the video made apparent the strength of the band's bond, further stating that it "echo dthe album's mission statement, which was described in previous press materials as being 'about recapturing joy.'" ''Newsweek'' David Chiu remarked that the unassuming nature of the video contrasted Boygenius against past supergroups, whom he noted to have been afflicted with "commercial pressures and ego".
Live performances
Boygenius first performed "Not Strong Enough" at
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as part of a benefit concert for
Tibet House US
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on March 1, 2023, coinciding with the release of the single. The band's inclusion was arranged shortly before the concert; the only other song in their setlist was fellow ''The Record'' track "Cool About It", which was also performed live for the first time. It became a regular part of their setlist during
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in support of ''The Record'', usually near or at the end of the main set. In a four-star review of an August 20 performance at
Gunnersbury Park
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, Kitty Empire of ''
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'' described the song as a "theme tune" for the band. ''Billboard'' Stephen Daw praised an October 2 rendition at
Madison Square Garden
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—the trio's first concert at that venue—as "top-notch". Reviewing a June 13 concert at
Harrah's Cherokee Center
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, Brian Postelle of ''Asheville Stages'' described a visceral crowd reaction to the song, writing that "If he audiencehad all been suddenly lifted into the air and spirited away, it would not have seemed so out of place."
Concurrently with the first several weeks of the Tour, Bridgers opened for
Taylor Swift
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at 10 dates on
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; at the first of these, a May 5 show in
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, Baker and Dacus joined Bridgers onstage to perform "Not Strong Enough". When the Tour concluded with a concert on
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at the
Hollywood Bowl
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, the band dressed as the
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—Dacus as the Father, Bridgers as the Spirit, and Baker as the Holy Son—to perform the song in a move which ''
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'' compared to the "always an angel, never a God" lyric. The band also played the song on ''
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'' (April 21) and ''
Saturday Night Live
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'' (November 11). For the latter performance, the band donned black suits in an homage to
the Beatles
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' February 9, 1964,
appearance
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on ''
The Ed Sullivan Show
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''; Boygenius's kick drum design mimicked the one the Beatles used that night, using the same font as the latter band's logo. In the same episode, the band appeared in a skit alongside
Timothée Chalamet
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as four likenesses of
Troye Sivan
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—all of them approximating Sivan's own fashion style and choreography—which were
sleep paralysis
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demons hallucinated by a character played by
Sarah Sherman
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.
Accolades
"Not Strong Enough" was nominated in three categories at the
66th Annual Grammy Awards
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(2024):
Record of the Year
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,
Best Rock Song
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, and
Best Rock Performance
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. It lost the first award to "
Flowers
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" by
Miley Cyrus
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, but won the latter two awards; they were, together with ''The Record'' win for
Best Alternative Music Album
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, the first Grammys for all band members. Several media outlets remarked that Boygenius was amongst a large number of
LGBT
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artists who had received nominations and awards, including Cyrus, Sivan,
Brandy Clark
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,
Billie Eilish
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,
Victoria Monét
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, and
Romy
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. In an interview with ''Billboard'', Baker, Bridgers, and Dacus stated that they were pleased by the amount of LGBT representation at the 2024 Grammys, which they described as indicative that the LGBT community was being taken more seriously as an artistic force than it had been previously. In the same interview, and later upon accepting the awards, the band detailed feelings of excitement and disbelief. Dacus expressed that she "need da whole new bucket list" and that " he, Baker, and Bridgerswere all delusional enough as kids to think that this might happen to
hem
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someday"; Bridgers pontificated about "what weird shit
he could
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do next" and Baker emphasized the importance of music in her life.
Credits and personnel
Credits are adapted from the liner notes of ''The Record''.
*
Boygenius
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– performance, songwriting, production
*
Carla Azar
Carla Azar (June 15, 1972) is an American drummer from Huntsville, Alabama and member of the band Autolux. She also plays guitar, bass guitar, keyboards, and sings.
Azar played drums on Jack White's albums ''Blunderbuss'', ''Lazaretto'', and ' ...
– assistant performance
*
Tony Berg
Anthony Rains "Tony" Berg (born October 21, 1954) is an American musician, record producer, and A&R representative, in which role he has been described as an "industry guru".
Berg's music career began in the late 1970s as a session guitarist who ...
Melina Duterte
Melina Mae Cortez Duterte (born March 25, 1994), better known by her stage name Jay Som, is an American, Los Angeles-based singer-songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, producer and mixing engineer. Her debut record '' Everybody Works'' was released ...
– assistant performance, production
*
Barbara Gruska
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Catherine Marks
Catherine J Marks is an Australian record producer, mixing engineer and audio engineer. She has worked with such artists as boygenius, Foals, Manchester Orchestra, The Killers, Local Natives, Wolf Alice, Beware of Darkness, The Big Moon, Fra ...
– assistant performance, production, recording
*
Mike Mogis
Mike Mogis is an American producer/mixer/engineer and multi-instrumentalist who owns ARC Studios (Another Recording Company) in downtown Omaha, Nebraska, Omaha. Mike, along with his brother A. J. Mogis, A.J. Mogis, founded Presto! Recording Stud ...
– mixing
*
Rob Moose
Rob Moose (born 1982) is an American multi-instrumentalist, arranger, producer, conductor, and orchestrator. He primarily plays the violin, viola, and guitar.
Early life and education
Moose was born in 1982. He was raised in Windsor, Connec ...
Sebastian Steinberg
Sebastian Steinberg (born February 20, 1959) is an American double bass, bass player, best known for his work in the band Soul Coughing.
Biography
Steinberg played with Soul Coughing throughout the band's entire history, from 1992 to 2000. In 200 ...
– assistant performance
*Pat Sullivan – mastering
* Sarah Tudzin – assistant performance, production, engineering
*Marshall Vore – assistant performance