Nancy Ludlow Tuckerman (October 24, 1928 – August 1, 2018) was the
White House Social Secretary
The White House social secretary is responsible for the planning, coordination and execution of official social events at the White House, the official residence and principal workplace of the president of the United States.
Function
The social ...
during the
Kennedy administration
John F. Kennedy's tenure as the 35th president of the United States, began with his inauguration on January 20, 1961, and ended with his assassination on November 22, 1963. A Democrat from Massachusetts, he took office following the 1960 pr ...
. After the
Kennedy assassination
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, she remained the personal secretary to Jackie Kennedy until the latter's death in 1994.
Early life
Tuckerman (nicknamed "Tucky") was the daughter of Betty (
née
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Thompson; 1901-1977) and Roger Tuckerman (1898-1967). She grew up in
Southampton, New York
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and
Farmington, Connecticut
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. Her father was a successful Manhattan stockbroker. Her aunt (her father's sister) was the decorator
Dorothy Draper.
She had a sister, Cynthia Tuckerman Gay (died 2014) and a brother, Roger Tuckerman. Her nephew John Gay Jr., married Deborah Hearst, of the
Hearst family. Her brother Roger was married to Caryn Ryan, daughter of businessman
Clendenin J. Ryan
Clendenin James Ryan Jr. (July 16, 1905 – September 12, 1957) was an American businessman best known as the publisher and owner of ''The American Mercury'' magazine, published in Baltimore, Maryland in the early 1950s.
Early life
He was the eld ...
. She was also related to
Walter Tuckerman
Walter Rupert Tuckerman (November 23, 1881 – January 15, 1961) was an American lawyer, banker, golfer, and philanthropist. Tuckerman founded the Bank of Bethesda in Bethesda, Maryland, and served as its first president. He also led development ...
. Her great-great-great grandfather was
Oliver Wolcott
Oliver Wolcott Sr. (November 20, 1726 December 1, 1797) was an American Founding Father and politician. He was a signer of the United States Declaration of Independence and the Articles of Confederation as a representative of Connecticut, and ...
, the 19th
Governor of Connecticut
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.
Jackie Bouvier and Tuckerman met as 8 or 9 year olds at the
Chapin School
Chapin School is an all-girls independent day school in New York City's Upper East Side neighborhood in Manhattan.
History
Maria Bowen Chapin opened "Miss Chapin's School for Girls and Kindergarten for Boys and Girls" in 1901. The school origi ...
in New York City. Their families spent summers together on
Long Island. They later were roommates at
Miss Porter's Boarding School in Connecticut before becoming
debutantes
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. Tuckerman was a bridesmaid at the wedding of Bouvier and John F. Kennedy in 1953.
Career
Tuckerman started her own travel business before being asked by Jackie Kennedy to work for her in the White House after her husband was elected president. In 1963, Jackie Kennedy threw a surprise 35th birthday party for Tuckerman at the White House.
When John F. Kennedy was assassinated, Tuckerman was responsible for responding to the thousands of letters that poured into the White House as condolences for Jackie Kennedy. These letters are now collectors items and are signed by Tuckerman. After leaving the White House, she remained the personal secretary to Jackie Kennedy until the latter's death in 1994. Tuckerman's personal papers reflecting her time in the White House were released in 2015 and are known as the ''Nancy Tuckerman Files'' within the ''Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis Personal Papers'' . In 1994, Tuckerman was left 250,000 U.S. dollars in Jackie Kennedy's last will and testament.
In the 1970s, Tuckerman worked in public relations for Olympic Airways, which was owned by Aristotle Onassis; in that role, she helped develop the first New York City Marathon. She also co-authored a revised edition of ''Amy Vanderbilt’s Complete Book of Etiquette'' in 1995. A private person, she apparently never gave an interview or wrote a book about her relationship with Jackie Kennedy Onassis. She spoke with author William Kuhn in preparation for his book, ''Reading Jackie''. She lived her retirement in
Salisbury, Connecticut
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.
In the 2016 biographical film ''
Jackie
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* Jackie (given name), a list of people and fictional characters named Jackie or Jacky
** Jackie, current ring name of female professional wrestler Jacqueline Moore
** Jackie Lee (I ...
'', Tuckerman is portrayed by actress
Greta Gerwig
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.
Death
Tuckerman died on August 1, 2018, of
chronic obstructive pulmonary disease
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, at an assisted-living center in
Salisbury, Connecticut
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. She was 89.
References
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1928 births
2018 deaths
People from Manhattan
Miss Porter's School alumni
Kennedy administration personnel
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis
American book publishers (people)
Respiratory disease deaths in Connecticut
Deaths from chronic obstructive pulmonary disease