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Monica F. Helms (born March 8, 1951) is an American
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activist, author, and veteran of the
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. She created the best-known
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.


Education

Helms received a General AA Degree and an AA in Industrial Television from Glendale Community College in Arizona in 1987 and graduated from
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in 2018 with an AA Degree in Television Production Technology.


US Navy career

File:FS Key.jpg, File:Key Patch.jpg, Key's Patch File:USS Flasher (SSN-613).jpg, File:Flasher Patch.jpg, Flasher's Patch Helms served in the U.S. Navy from 1970 to 1978, and was assigned to two submarines: (1972–1976) and (1976–1978). During her time in the Navy, Helms began dressing as a woman while based in Charleston, South Carolina and says in an interview it was the "deepest, darkest secret in erentire life". She was reassigned to the San Francisco area in 1976, and said she "felt like hecould be out in public as erself. Helms left the Navy in 1978, and joined her hometown's chapter of the United States Submarine Veterans, Inc. in 1996. After transitioning, Helms reapplied in 1998 to the Phoenix chapter of the veteran's group with the name "Monica" and received considerable push-back, including being referred to a more generic veteran's group for women rather than the submarine specific group. Helms eventually prevailed after a few months and is the first trans woman to ever join the organization.


Activism

Helms created a
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in 1999, and it was first flown at a
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in Phoenix, Arizona in 2000. Helms founded the Transgender American Veterans Association (TAVA) in 2003, and remained president until 2013. On May 1, 2004, TAVA sponsored the first ever Transgender Veterans March to the Wall. Fifty trans veterans arrived in DC and visited the
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to honor people they knew whose names are on The Wall. They also made history when they became the first openly transgender people to lay a wreath at the
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. They did it again in 2005. Even now, Helms continues to advocate for transgender service members and veterans. She was elected as a delegate to the
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in Boston, Massachusetts. She was the first openly trans person elected to a DNC Convention from Georgia. Helms donated her original transgender pride flag to the Smithsonian
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, at the first ceremony honoring the addition of a collection of LGBT historical items at the Smithsonian on August 19, 2014. In June 2019, to mark the 50th anniversary of the
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, an event widely considered a watershed moment in the modern
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'' named her one of the Pride50 for "trailblazing individuals who actively ensure society remains moving towards
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, acceptance and dignity for all
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people".


Book

In 2019, Helms released an autobiography titled ''More Than Just A Flag'', detailing major events in her life from childhood, her career in the Navy and activism for the transgender community, published by MB Books.


Personal life

Helms is married to Darlene Wagner. Wagner had worked for the
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(CDC) prior to being laid off by the
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(DOGE) in 2025. In June 2025, Helms announced that she and Wagner plan to move to
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, as they are both trans women and fear that anti-trans laws will come to affect them in
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References

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