Mistress Matisse (born November 21, 1971) is an American

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ger, and

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for

Seattle Seattle ( ) is the most populous city in the U.S. state of Washington and in the Pacific Northwest region of North America. With a population of 780,995 in 2024, it is the 18th-most populous city in the United States. The city is the cou ...

-based alternative newspaper, '' The Stranger''. Her bi-weekly columns, entitled ''The Control Tower'', offer

sexuality Human sexuality is the way people experience and express themselves sexually. This involves biological, psychological, physical, erotic, emotional, social, or spiritual feelings and behaviors. Because it is a broad term, which has varied ...

-related advice about

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, kink, and the business side of her work, as well as the

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culture at large. In March 2017, Matisse along with Chelsea Cebara, started to market a

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-based

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called ''Velvet Swing''. Due to legal restrictions, the product is only available in

Washington State Washington, officially the State of Washington, is a state in the Pacific Northwest region of the United States. It is often referred to as Washington State to distinguish it from the national capital, both named after George Washington ...

and

California California () is a U.S. state, state in the Western United States that lies on the West Coast of the United States, Pacific Coast. It borders Oregon to the north, Nevada and Arizona to the east, and shares Mexico–United States border, an ...

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