is a
sexologist, educator, author, artist, speaker, and coach.
Midori wrote the first English language book with instruction on
Japanese rope bondage
means "tight binding," while literally means "the beauty of tight binding." is a Japanese style of bondage or BDSM which involves tying a person up using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope (often ...
and continues to write on alternative sexual practices, including
BDSM
BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in ...
and
sexual fetishism
Sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism is a sexual fixation on a nonliving object or nongenital body part. The object of interest is called the fetish; the person who has ''a fetish'' for that object is a fetishist. A sexual fetish may be regard ...
,
bondage
Bondage may refer to:
Restraints
*Physical restraints
**Bondage (BDSM), use of restraint for erotic stimulation
***Self-bondage, use of restraints on oneself for erotic pleasure
Social and economic practices
*Serfdom, feudal enslavement of peasan ...
, erotic fiction, and more.
She teaches classes, presents at conferences, coaches individuals and professionals, and facilitates in-depth weekend intensives. She is based in
San Francisco
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,
California
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.
Biography
Midori was born in
Kyoto
Kyoto (; Japanese: , ''Kyōto'' ), officially , is the capital city of Kyoto Prefecture in Japan. Located in the Kansai region on the island of Honshu, Kyoto forms a part of the Keihanshin metropolitan area along with Osaka and Kobe. , the ...
,
Japan, of
Japanese and
German
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parents. She grew up in
Tokyo
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and moved to the United States at age 14.
Midori studied psychology at
University of California, Berkeley
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.
She served as a
United States Army Reserve
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Since July 2020, ...
Intelligence
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officer while earning a degree.
Career
Early in her career she also worked as a condom manufacturer's sales representative.
She spent a few years as a
sex educator with ''
San Francisco Sex Information''.
After serving in the military, she began her art career performing in queer nightclubs, collaborating with other "weirdo" transgressive and experimental artists.
Midori teaches internationally on BDSM, alternative sexuality, feminine dominance,
Shibari /
Japanese bondage
means "tight binding," while literally means "the beauty of tight binding." is a Japanese style of bondage or BDSM which involves tying a person up using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope (often ...
, and
kink. She has spoken at conferences, universities, and organizations promoting sexual health, wellness, and education.
In 2021, she worked with th
Sexual Health Allianceto create the year-lon
Kink Informed Certification (KIC) Programwhich offers training to therapists, educators, coaches, or consultants who works with individuals engaging in kink, BDSM, and alternative sexuality.
She is known for her in-depth weekend intensives
ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Intensivean
Rope Dojo: Rope Bondage Weekend Intensivewhere she uses her "head-heart-hands" method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Her work focuses on helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self-actualization, shame reduction, acceptance, and justice.
Art
Midori is a multidisciplinary, social practice artist. She creates installations, performances, group exhibitions & social practice projects that examine human narratives, cultural experiences of
queerness and
Asian American Pacific Islander (AAPI) heritage, and ephemeral nature of memory and place. She has presented lectures at several universities and is a resident artist at the San Francisco Battery.
Midori's work has been shown at
San Francisco Asian Art Museum,
Yerba Buena Center for the Arts,
Leslie Lohman Museum,
SOMArts,
Ithaca College
Ithaca College is a private college in Ithaca, New York. It was founded by William Egbert in 1892 as a conservatory of music and is set against the backdrop of the city of Ithaca (which is separate from the town), Cayuga Lake, waterfalls, and ...
, Das Arts Amsterdam, Gorilla Gallery Oaxaca,
Root Division, among others.
She offers creative coaching and consulting through th
Intersection for the Arts a Bay Area arts nonprofit that’s dedicated to helping artists grow.
Awards
*
Pantheon of Leather Awards Woman of the Year, 2003
* Sainted b
Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence 2007
* Best Sex Educator by
SF Weekly Magazine, 2013
*
Society of Janus Hall of Fame, 2019
*
AASECT Humanitarian Award, 2022
Bibliography
* ''The Seductive Art of Japanese Rope Bondage'',
Greenery Press, 2002
* ''Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink: Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays,'
Daedalus Publishing 2005
* ''The Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship,''
Greenery Press, 2005
* ''Master Han's Daughter: Tales from Depraved NeoTokyo''
Circlet Press, 2006
* ''Silk Threads'' (co-author)
Riverdale Avenue Books LLC 2019
* ''An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color'' (contributing author), Routledge Press, 2022
References
External links
General info and biographyClasses and eventsFetishDiva Midori papers, 1990-2014MC 985. Schlesinger Library, Radcliffe Institute, Harvard University, Cambridge, Mass.
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American women writers
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Women in the United States Army
Japanese erotic artists
American erotic artists
University of California, Berkeley alumni
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People from Kyoto
Japanese emigrants to the United States
Writers from the San Francisco Bay Area
American writers of Japanese descent
Women erotica writers
21st-century American women writers
Year of birth missing (living people)