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Michael Paramo is an American writer, academic, and artist known for founding the literary magazine ''Aze'' (formerly known as ''The Asexual'') and for their work examining
interpersonal attraction Interpersonal attraction, as a part of social psychology, is the study of the attraction between people which leads to the development of platonic or romantic relationships. It is distinct from perceptions such as physical attractiveness, and ...
and
love Love is a feeling of strong attraction and emotional attachment (psychology), attachment to a person, animal, or thing. It is expressed in many forms, encompassing a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most su ...
with consideration to
asexuality Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or Sexual desire, desire for Human sexual activity, sexual activity. It may be considered a sexual orientation or the lack thereof. It may also be categori ...
,
aromanticism Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing little to no romantic attraction. The term "aromantic", colloquially shortened to "aro", refers to a person whose romantic orientation is aromanticism. It is distinct from, ...
, and
agender Non-binary or genderqueer gender identities are those that are outside the male/female gender binary. Non-binary identities often fall under the transgender umbrella since non-binary people typically identify with a gender that is differ ...
identity. Paramo identifies on the asexual and aromantic spectrum and advocates for people of similar experience to express themselves toward expanding society's ideas of
human sexuality Human sexuality is the way people experience and express themselves sexually. This involves biological, psychological, physical, erotic, emotional, social, or spiritual feelings and behaviors. Because it is a broad term, which has varied ...
,
romance Romance may refer to: Common meanings * Romance (love), emotional attraction towards another person and the courtship behaviors undertaken to express the feelings ** Romantic orientation, the classification of the sex or gender with which a pers ...
, and
gender identity Gender identity is the personal sense of one's own gender. Gender identity can correlate with a person's assigned sex or can differ from it. In most individuals, the various biological determinants of sex are congruent and consistent with the in ...
. They published a book ''Ending the Pursuit: Asexuality, Aromanticism, and Agender Identity'' in 2024.


Career

Paramo created '' Aze'' on October 5, 2016 (at the time under the name ''The Asexual'') while attending
California State University, Fullerton California State University, Fullerton (CSUF or Cal State Fullerton) is a public research university in Fullerton, California, United States. With a total enrollment of more than 41,000, it has the largest student body of the California State ...
as a
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in
American Studies American studies or American civilization is an interdisciplinarity, interdisciplinary field of scholarship that examines American literature, History of the United States, history, Society of the United States, society, and Culture of the Unit ...
. The journal was created because of what Paramo saw as an absence of places for asexual people to publish their creative work: "I knew their experiences, stories, perspectives, and voices needed a space of expression." In 2017, they authored an essay discussing the whiteness of the asexual community and advocated for the community to be more inclusive of
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individuals. They also presented research on the
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of non-traditional
gender identities Gender identity is the personal sense of one's own gender. Gender identity can correlate with a person's assigned sex or can differ from it. In most individuals, the various biological determinants of sex are congruent and consistent with the i ...
, more specifically of
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, and the relationship of this phenomenon to
colonialism Colonialism is the control of another territory, natural resources and people by a foreign group. Colonizers control the political and tribal power of the colonised territory. While frequently an Imperialism, imperialist project, colonialism c ...
. They wrote an essay for the magazine in 2018 on the
split attraction model The split attraction model (SAM) is a model in psychology that distinguishes between a person's romantic and sexual attraction, allowing the two to be different from each other. History and identity The first recorded conceptualization of ori ...
that argued for the expansion of notions of attraction beyond
sexual attraction Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract other people sexually, and is a factor in sexual selection or m ...
and
romantic attraction Romance or romantic love is a feeling of love for, or a Interpersonal attraction, strong attraction towards another person, and the Courtship, courtship behaviors undertaken by an individual to express those overall feelings and resultant ...
to include other forms of attraction. They wrote another essay for the magazine that discussed the relationship between
transphobia Transphobia consists of negative attitudes, feelings, or actions towards transgender or transsexual people, or transness in general. Transphobia can include fear, aversion, hatred, violence or anger towards people who do not conform to socia ...
and colonialism, arguing that the former was inextricably linked with the latter. Paramo interviewed
Pragati Singh Pragati Singh is an Indian doctor, public health official, and activist. She is known for her work in the Indian asexual community and research on the topic. She featured on the BBC's 2019 list of 100 inspiring and influential women from around ...
in 2018 on the subject of asexual awareness in
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. The magazine also reached 10,000 followers on social media platform
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. In 2019, Paramo was interviewed by
Tristan Taormino Tristan Taormino (born May 9, 1971) is an American feminist author, sex educator, and pornographic film director. She is most recently known for her book ''Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships,'' which is often recomm ...
for their work examining asexuality, aromanticism, and agender identity for a book they were writing. That same year they changed the name of the literary magazine they founded from ''The Asexual'' to ''Aze'' to include asexual, aromantic, and agender people. They began attending the
University of British Columbia The University of British Columbia (UBC) is a Public university, public research university with campuses near University of British Columbia Vancouver, Vancouver and University of British Columbia Okanagan, Kelowna, in British Columbia, Canada ...
as a
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in the ''Gender, Race, Sexuality and Social Justice'' program. Paramo published the book ''Ending the Pursuit: Asexuality, Aromanticism, and Agender Identity'' with Unbound in 2024, which questioned
social norms A social norm is a shared standard of acceptance, acceptable behavior by a group. Social norms can both be informal understandings that govern the behavior of members of a society, as well as be codified into wikt:rule, rules and laws. Social norma ...
of sex, romance, and gender. Of the book, academic Ela PrzybyƂo wrote "Paramo refuses to take for granted the normalized ideas we are fed around how relationships should work and what they should look like." In an interview for Geeks OUT, Paramo spoke to the inclusion of poetry in the book as a hybrid method of bringing together critical and creative expressions. In 2024, they were referred to by ITV's platform ''Planet Woo'' as "one of the globe's leading aro academics."


Personal life

Paramo is a
Mexican American Mexican Americans are Americans of full or partial Mexico, Mexican descent. In 2022, Mexican Americans comprised 11.2% of the US population and 58.9% of all Hispanic and Latino Americans. In 2019, 71% of Mexican Americans were born in the Unite ...
who was born in
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in 1993. They identify as being on the
asexual Asexual or Asexuals may refer to: *Asexual reproduction **Asexual reproduction in starfish *Asexuality, the lack of sexual attraction to anyone or lack of interest in or desire for sexual activity. **Gray asexuality, the spectrum between asexualit ...
and
aromantic spectrum Aromanticism is a romantic orientation characterized by experiencing little to no romantic attraction. The term "aromantic", colloquially shortened to "aro", refers to a person whose romantic orientation is aromanticism. It is distinct from, t ...
and as
queer ''Queer'' is an umbrella term for people who are non-heterosexual or non- cisgender. Originally meaning or , ''queer'' came to be used pejoratively against LGBTQ people in the late 19th century. From the late 1980s, queer activists began to ...
and
Xicanx ''Xicanx'' ( , ) is an English-language gender-neutral neologism and identity referring to people of Mexican descent in the United States. The suffix replaces the ending of ''Chicano'' and ''Chicana'' that are typical of grammatical gender ...
. Paramo also creates visual art and releases music under the name COZMECA.


References

{{DEFAULTSORT:Paramo, Michael 1993 births Aromantic non-binary people Non-binary asexual people Living people American non-binary writers Aromantic writers Asexual writers American non-binary artists California State University, Fullerton alumni Academics from California Non-binary scholars and academics American artists of Mexican descent