
Mathilde de Morny (26 May 1863 – 29 June 1944) was a French aristocrat and artist. Morny was also known by the nickname "Missy" or by the artistic pseudonym "Yssim" (an anagram of Missy), or as "Max", "Uncle Max" (french: Oncle Max), or "Monsieur le Marquis". Active as a sculptor and painter, Morny studied under Comte Saint-Cène and the sculptor Édouard-Gustave-Louis Millet de Marcilly.
Early life
Morny was the fourth and final child of
Charles de Morny, Duke of Morny
Charles Auguste Louis Joseph de Morny, 1er Duc de Morny () (15–16 September 1811, Switzerland10 March 1865, Paris) was a French statesman.
Biography
Morny was born in Switzerland, and was the extra-marital son of Hortense de Beauharnais (the ...
and
Sofia Sergeyevna Trubetskaya. Charles was the half-brother of
Napoleon III
Napoleon III (Charles Louis Napoléon Bonaparte; 20 April 18089 January 1873) was the first President of France (as Louis-Napoléon Bonaparte) from 1848 to 1852 and the last monarch of France as Emperor of the French from 1852 to 1870. A neph ...
, whilst Sofia may have been the illegitimate daughter of
Nicholas I of Russia
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, mother = Maria Feodorovna (Sophie Dorothea of Württemberg)
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. As a teenager, Morny had adhered to sartorial convention. An 1882 magazine article describes the newlywed marquise as wearing "a dress of the very palest mauve, mixed tulle and silk," adding that Morny "is not exactly pretty, but has a most original face, being very pale, with a very set expression, the darkest eyes possible, and quantities of very fair hair."
Career
Although female, the adult Morny dressed in men's clothing, and used the name "Max". Morny was a socialite and painter.
Extravagant conduct made Morny a celebrity of the
Belle Époque
The Belle Époque or La Belle Époque (; French for "Beautiful Epoch") is a period of French and European history, usually considered to begin around 1871–1880 and to end with the outbreak of World War I in 1914. Occurring during the era o ...
and despite the 1881 marriage to the well-known gay man
Jacques Godart, 6th Marquis de Belbeuf Jacques Godart, 6th Marquis de Belbeuf (27 May 1850 – 22 January 1906) was the 6th and last Marquis de Belbeuf and married French aristocrat Mathilde de Morny.
Biography
Raoul Pierre Joseph Jacques Godart de Belbeuf was born on 27 May 1850, the ...
(1850–1906)—whom Morny divorced in 1903—Morny was open about preferring women. Though love between those perceived as women was then fashionable, Morny was attacked for this, especially for having a very masculine dress and attitude. At this time a woman wearing trousers could still scandalize even if the person was legally authorized, as in the case of lesbian artist
Rosa Bonheur
Rosa Bonheur (born Marie-Rosalie Bonheur; 16 March 1822 – 25 May 1899) was a French artist known best as a painter of animals (animalière). She also made sculpture in a realist style. Her paintings include ''Ploughing in the Nivernais'', firs ...
(who sought police permission to wear trousers to make it easier for her to paint in the countryside). Missy wore a full three-piece suit (which, as with trousers, was forbidden in France for anyone but men), had short hair, and smoked a cigar.

Morny became a lover of several women in Paris, including
Liane de Pougy and
Colette. From summer 1906 onwards, Colette and Morny lived together in the "Belle Plage" villa in
Le Crotoy, where Colette wrote ''Les Vrilles de la vigne'' and ''
La Vagabonde'' which would be adapted for the screen by
Musidora. On 3 January 1907 the two put on a
pantomime entitled ''Rêve d'Égypte'' ("Dream of Egypt") at the
Moulin Rouge, in which Morny caused a scandal by playing an Egyptologist during a love scene with a woman – a kiss between them almost caused a riot and the production was stopped by the prefect of police
Louis Lépine. From then on they could no longer live together openly, though the relationship lasted until 1912. Morny also inspired the character "La Chevalière" in Colette's novel ''
Le Pur et l'impur'', described as dressed "in dark masculine attire, belying any notion of gaiety or bravado... High born, she slummed it like a prince."
On 21 June 1910 the couple bought the manor of "Rozven" at
Saint-Coulomb in
Brittany
Brittany (; french: link=no, Bretagne ; br, Breizh, or ; Gallo: ''Bertaèyn'' ) is a peninsula, historical country and cultural area in the west of modern France, covering the western part of what was known as Armorica during the period o ...
(its owner, Baron du Crest, refused the sale because Mathilde was not dressed as a woman and so Colette signed the deed instead) – on the same day the first chamber of the ''tribunal de grande instance'' for the Seine departement pronounced Colette's divorce from
Henry Gauthier-Villars. When they separated a year later, Colette kept the house.
Death
At the end of May 1944 Morny attempted to commit suicide by what Colette described as "something like
harakiri". Morny died by self-asphyxiation with a gas stove on 29 June 1944, aged 81.
In popular culture
De Morny is a major character in the 2018 film ''
Colette'', played by
Denise Gough.
References
Bibliography
* Fernande Gontier et Claude Francis, ''Mathilde de Morny. La Scandaleuse Marquise et son temps'', Perrin, 2005.
* Fernande Gontier, ''Homme ou femme ? La confusion des sexes'', chapter 8, Paris, Perrin, 2006.
* Colette, ''Lettres à Missy''. Edited and annotated by Samia Bordji and Frédéric Maget, Paris, Flammarion, 2009.
* Olga Khoroshilova, '' Russian travesties: in history, culture and everyday life'' (in Russian), chapter 11 "Russian Uncle Max (Mathilde de Morny)", Moscow, MIF, 2021. - P. 235–255.
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