Margaret Julia "Marlo" Thomas (born November 21, 1937) is an American actress, producer, author, and social activist. She is best known for starring on the sitcom ''
That Girl'' (1966–1971) and her
children's franchise ''
Free to Be... You and Me''. She received three
Primetime Emmy Awards
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, a
Daytime Emmy Award
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, a
Golden Globe Award
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, and a
Peabody Award for her work in television and was inducted into the Broadcasting and Cable Hall of Fame.
She also received a
Grammy Award
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for her
children's album ''
Marlo Thomas and Friends: Thanks & Giving All Year Long''. In 2014, she was awarded the
Presidential Medal of Freedom
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.
Thomas serves as National Outreach Director for
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, which was founded by her father
Danny Thomas
Amos Muzyad Yaqoob Kairouz, (born January 6, 1912 – February 6, 1991) known professionally as Danny Thomas, was an American comedian, actor, singer, producer, and philanthropist. He created and starred in ''The Danny Thomas Show''. In additio ...
in 1962. She created the Thanks & Giving campaign in 2004 to support the hospital.
Early life
Thomas was born in
Detroit
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and raised in
Beverly Hills, California
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, the eldest child of Rose Marie Cassaniti and comedian
Danny Thomas
Amos Muzyad Yaqoob Kairouz, (born January 6, 1912 – February 6, 1991) known professionally as Danny Thomas, was an American comedian, actor, singer, producer, and philanthropist. He created and starred in ''The Danny Thomas Show''. In additio ...
.
She has a sister, Terre, and a brother, producer
Tony Thomas. Her father was a Catholic
Lebanese American
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Lebanese Americans comprise 0.79% of the American populatio ...
and her mother was
Sicilian American.
Her
godmother was
Loretta Young
Loretta Young (born Gretchen Michaela Young; January 6, 1913 – August 12, 2000) was an American actress. Starting as a child, she had a long and varied career in film from 1917 to 1989. She received numerous honors including an Academy Awards ...
.
The name "Marlo" came from her childhood mispronunciation of the name Margo, as Thomas was called by her family.
Thomas attended
Marymount High School and graduated from the
University of Southern California
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with a teaching degree: "I wanted a piece of paper that said I was qualified to do something in the world". She was a member of the sorority
Kappa Alpha Theta.
Career
Early career
Thomas appeared in many television programs including ''
Bonanza
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'', ''
McHale's Navy
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'', ''
Ben Casey'', ''
Arrest and Trial'', ''
The Joey Bishop Show'', ''
The Many Loves of Dobie Gillis'', ''
My Favorite Martian
''My Favorite Martian'' is an American sitcom that aired on CBS from September 29, 1963, to May 1, 1966, for 107 episodes. The show stars Ray Walston as "Uncle Martin" (the Martian) and Bill Bixby as Tim O'Hara. ''My Favorite Martian'' was th ...
'', ''
77 Sunset Strip'', and ''
The Donna Reed Show''. Her big break came in 1965 when she was cast by
Mike Nichols
Mike Nichols (born Igor Mikhail Peschkowsky; November 6, 1931 – November 19, 2014) was an American film and theatre director and comedian. He worked across a range of genres and had an aptitude for getting the best out of actors regardless of ...
in the London production of Neil Simon's ''
Barefoot in the Park,'' co-starring
Daniel Massey,
Kurt Kasznar, and
Mildred Natwick. (In 1986, she was once again cast by Nichols on Broadway in
Andrew Bergman's ''
Social Security
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,'' co-starring
Ron Silver and
Olympia Dukakis
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.)
Thomas and her father, Danny, were cast as Laurie and Ed Dubro in a 1961 episode, "Honor Bright", of CBS' ''
Dick Powell's Zane Grey Theatre''.
''That Girl''

Thomas starred in an
ABC pilot called ''Two's Company'' in 1965. Although it did not sell, it caught the attention of a network programming executive. He met with Thomas, and expressed interest in casting her in her own series. With their encouragement, Thomas came up with her own idea for a show about a young woman who leaves home, moves to New York City, and struggles to become an actress. The network was initially hesitant, fearing audiences would find a series centering on a single female uninteresting or unrealistic.
The concept eventually evolved into the sitcom entitled ''
That Girl'', in which Thomas played Ann Marie, a beautiful, up-and-coming actress with a writer boyfriend, played by
Ted Bessell. The series told the daily struggles of Ann holding different temporary jobs while pursuing her dream of a career on
Broadway. ''That Girl'' was one of the first television shows to focus on a working, single woman who did not live with her parents, and it paved the way for many shows to come. Thomas was only the fourth woman to produce her own series, following
Gertrude Berg
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,
Lucille Ball
Lucille Désirée Ball (August 6, 1911 – April 26, 1989) was an American actress, comedian, producer, and studio executive. She was recognized by ''Time (magazine), Time'' in 2020 as one of the most influential women of the 20th century for h ...
, and
Betty White. ''That Girl'' aired from 1966 to 1971, producing 136 episodes, and was a solid performer in the
Nielsen ratings
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.
In 1971, Thomas chose to end the series after five years. Both ABC and the show's sponsor,
Clairol, wanted the series finale to be a wedding between the two central characters, but Thomas rebuffed them, saying that she felt it was the wrong message to send to her female audience, because it would give the impression that the only happy ending is
marriage
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. ''That Girl'' has since become popular in
syndication.
Clairol was our sponsor and they wanted to end the show with a wedding. I said, "I just can't do that to these women and girls who followed Ann Marie's adventure. I can't now say that the only happy ending is a wedding, because I don't believe it." There was a big ruckus about it, but I wouldn't do it. The last show, Ann Marie took Donald to a women's lib meeting, which made nobody happy but me. I loved it.
Later career

After ''That Girl'', eager to expand her horizons, Thomas attended the
Actors Studio
The Actors Studio is a membership organization for professional actors, theatre directors and playwrights located on West 44th Street in Hell's Kitchen in New York City.
The studio is best known for its work refining and teaching method actin ...
, where she studied with
Lee Strasberg
Lee Strasberg (born Israel Strassberg; November 17, 1901 – February 17, 1982) was an American acting coach and actor. He co-founded, with theatre directors Harold Clurman and Cheryl Crawford, the Group Theatre in 1931, which was hailed ...
until his death in 1982, and subsequently with his disciple
Sandra Seacat. When she won her Best Dramatic Actress Emmy in 1986 for the television film ''Nobody’s Child'', she thanked both individuals.
In 1972, she released a children's book, ''
Free to Be... You and Me'', which was inspired by her young niece Dionne Gordon. She went on to create multiple recordings and television specials of and related to that title: ''Free to Be... You and Me'' (1972, 1974) and ''
Free to Be... A Family'' (1987), with
Christopher Cerf. Also in 1972, she served as a California delegate to the
Democratic National Convention
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in Miami Beach, Florida. She helped the
George McGovern
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presidential campaign in October 1972 at
Star-Spangled Women for McGovern–Shriver, reciting a parody of
Erich Segal's ''
Love Story'' for 19,000 people at
Madison Square Garden
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.
In 1973, Thomas joined
Gloria Steinem
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,
Patricia Carbine, and
Letty Cottin Pogrebin as the founders of the
Ms. Foundation for Women, the first women's fund in the US. The organization was created to deliver funding and other resources to organizations that were presenting liberal women's voices in communities nationwide.
In 1976, Thomas made a guest appearance on the
NBC situation comedy
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''
The Practice
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'' as a stubborn patient of her father Danny Thomas' character Dr. Jules Bedford, and the chemistry of father and daughter acting together made for touching hospital-room scenes.
She has made guest appearances on several television series, including ''
Law & Order: Special Victims Unit'' (as Judge Mary Conway Clark, a mentor of ADA
Casey Novak), ''
Ballers'', ''
The New Normal'', ''
Wet Hot American Summer: Ten Years Later''. She also narrated the series ''Happily Never After'' on
Investigation Discovery
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.
From 1996 to 2002, Thomas had a reoccurring role on the hit TV show, ''
Friends
''Friends'' is an American television sitcom created by David Crane (producer), David Crane and Marta Kauffman, which aired on NBC from September 22, 1994, to May 6, 2004, lasting List of Friends episodes, ten seasons. With an ensemble cast ...
''. She played
Rachel Green's mother, Sandra Green, in three episodes. The role was poignant because of parallels to ''That Girl''. Both shows were comedies about being young and single in New York City. Like Ann Marie three decades earlier, Rachel Green had left the suburbs for independence as a single woman in Manhattan. However, Thomas's first appearance on ''Friends'' was in Season 2 when her character goes looking for her daughter, who had run off to Manhattan after ditching her fiancé, Barry, at the altar. Sandra confesses to Rachel that she is leaving her husband, expresses interest in being one of the girls, marijuana and what is new in sex. Sandra envies her daughter's lifestyle, which she missed out on due to taking a more traditional path. When Rachel becomes upset at her mom's frankness, Sandra explains that she thought Rachel of all people would understand because "you didn't marry your Barry, honey, but I married mine." In 2019, Thomas described her on-screen daughter, Rachel, as the "That Girl" of the late 90s and early 2000s. Thomas compared the on-air standards 30 years apart, noting that in ''That Girl'', Donald could not even spend the night at Ann's apartment, but on ''Friends'', they were much more open about sex. Thomas also spoke of the great respect the ''Friends'' cast showed her when they worked together; they were familiar with her work and yielded to her comedic expertise.
Thomas appeared in films such as ''
Jenny'' (1970), ''
Thieves'' (1977), ''
In The Spirit'' (1990), ''
The Real Blonde'' (1997), ''
Starstruck'' (1998), ''
Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo'' (1999), ''
Playing Mona Lisa'' (2000), ''
LOL'' (2012) with
Demi Moore
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and
Miley Cyrus
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, and ''Cardboard Boxer'' (2014). She also starred in television films, including ''
It Happened One Christmas'' (1977; also produced) (a remake of ''
It's a Wonderful Life''),
''
The Lost Honor of Kathryn Beck'' (1984; also produced), ''
Consenting Adult'' (1985), ''
Nobody's Child'' (1986; Best Dramatic Actress Emmy), ''Held Hostage: The Sis and Jerry Levin Story'' (1991; also produced), ''Reunion'' (1994; also produced), ''Deceit'' (2004; also produced), and ''Ultimate Betrayal'' (1994).
Thomas'
Broadway theatre
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credits include ''
Thieves'' (1974), ''
Social Security
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'' (1986), and ''
The Shadow Box'' (1994), and in 2011, she starred as Doreen in
Elaine May's comedy ''George Is Dead'' in ''Relatively Speaking'' during a set of three one-act plays (''The New York Times'' called Thomas' performance "sublime").
The other two plays were written by
Woody Allen
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and
Ethan Coen.
Off-Broadway
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, Thomas has appeared in ''
The Guys'', ''
The Exonerated'' (in which she also appeared in Chicago and Boston, co-starring with
Brian Dennehy), ''
The Vagina Monologues'' and ''
Love, Loss, and What I Wore''. Also off-Broadway, she appeared opposite
Greg Mullavey in the 2015 New York debut of
Joe DiPietro's play ''Clever Little Lies'' at the
Westside Theatre. Regional theatre productions include: ''
Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?'' at the Hartford Stage; ''
Woman In Mind'' at the Berkshire Theatre Festival; ''Paper Doll,'' with F. Murray Abraham at the Pittsburgh Public Theatre; and ''
The Effect of Gamma Rays on Man-in-the-Moon Marigolds'' at the Cleveland Playhouse. In 1993, she toured in the national company of ''Six Degrees of Separation.'' In the spring of 2008, she starred in Arthur Laurents' last play, ''New Year's Eve'' with
Keith Carradine, at the George Street Playhouse.
Thomas has published seven best-selling books (three of them #1 best-sellers): ''
Free to Be... You and Me;'' ''
Free to Be... A Family;'' ''The Right Words at the Right Time''; ''The Right Words at the Right Time, Volume 2: Your Turn''; ''
Marlo Thomas and Friends: Thanks & Giving All Year Long'' (the CD version of which won the 2006
Grammy Award
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for Best Spoken Word Album for Children); her 2009 memoir, ''Growing Up Laughing''; and ''It Ain't Over...Till It's Over: Reinventing Your Life and Realizing Your Dreams Anytime, At Any Age''.
Thomas serves as the National Outreach Director for
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital in
Memphis, Tennessee
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, which was founded by her father, Danny Thomas. She donated all royalties from her 2004 book and CD ''
Marlo Thomas and Friends: Thanks & Giving All Year Long'' (also produced with
Christopher Cerf) and her two ''Right Words at the Right Time'' books to the hospital.
In 2010, Thomas create
MarloThomas.com a website for women aged 35+, associated with
AOL and the ''
Huffington Post
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''.
Honors
Thomas is the recipient of four
Emmy Awards
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, a
Golden Globe Award
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, a
Grammy Award
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, a Jefferson Award, and the
Peabody Award
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.
In 1979, the
Supersisters trading card set was produced and distributed; one of the cards featured Thomas' name and picture.
In 1996, she was awarded the
Women in Film Lucy Award in recognition of her excellence and innovation in her creative works that have enhanced the perception of women through the medium of television.
On November 20, 2014, the Marlo Thomas Center for Global Education and Collaboration was opened as part of St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.
Hillary Clinton
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presided over the ribbon-cutting ceremony.
On November 24, 2014, President
Barack Obama
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awarded Thomas the
Presidential Medal of Freedom
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, the nation's highest civilian honor, at a White House ceremony.
[
]
Personal life
Thomas was in a long relationship with playwright Herb Gardner.
In 1977, Thomas was a guest on '' Donahue'', the television talk show
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, when she and host Phil Donahue fell in "love at first sight
Love at first sight is a personal experience and a common theme in creative works: a person or character feels an instant, extreme, and ultimately long-lasting romantic attraction for a stranger upon first seeing that stranger. It has been desc ...
". They were married on May 21, 1980, and Donahue moved from Chicago to New York City with some of his sons and his daughter to live with Thomas and to produce his talk show there. Thomas is the stepmother to Donahue's four sons and daughter from his first marriage. Concerning her relationship with her stepchildren, Thomas told '' AARP Magazine'' in May 2011:
Donahue died on August 18, 2024.
Filmography
Film
Television
References
External links
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1937 births
Living people
20th-century American actresses
21st-century American actresses
Activists from Detroit
Activists from Los Angeles
Actresses from Los Angeles
Actors Studio alumni
Actresses from Detroit
American film actresses
American people of Lebanese descent
American people of Italian descent
American stage actresses
American television actresses
Audiobook narrators
A&M Records artists
Bell Records artists
Best Musical or Comedy Actress Golden Globe (television) winners
Grammy Award winners
Lee Strasberg Theatre and Film Institute alumni
Outstanding Performance by a Lead Actress in a Miniseries or Movie Primetime Emmy Award winners
Presidential Medal of Freedom recipients
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
USC Rossier School of Education alumni