Male dominance, or maledom, refers to
BDSM activities where the
dominant partner is male.
Practices of domination common to many
BDSM and other various sexual relationships are also prevalent, such as various forms of
body worship, cock and ball worship,
ass worship,
fellatio,
foot worship;
tease and denial; corporal punishment including
spanking, breast torture,
caning
Caning is a form of corporal punishment consisting of a number of hits (known as "strokes" or "cuts") with a single Stick-fighting, cane usually made of rattan, generally applied to the offender's bare or clothed buttocks (see spanking) or ha ...
,
whipping;
orgasm denial
Erotic sexual denial is the practice of refraining from sexual experiences in order to increase erotic arousal and/or tension. The prohibited experience can be narrowly or broadly defined and banned for a specific or indeterminate length of ti ...
; and as well as
verbal humiliation,
face slapping, hair pulling,
dripping hot wax on the genitals,
spitting,
golden showers,
"forced" chastity, and
irrumatio.
A 1995 study indicated that 71% of
heterosexual males preferred a dominant-initiator role, but a more recent study from 2015 indicates that only 29.5% of men who are active in BDSM express a preference for a dominant role, 24% consider themselves to be switches and 46.6% of men prefer the submissive role.
Popular culture

Maledom scenarios are common in
BDSM fiction, including works such as the ''
Story of O
''Story of O'' (french: Histoire d'O, link=no, ) is an erotic novel published in 1954 by French author Anne Desclos under the pen name Pauline Réage, and published in French by Jean-Jacques Pauvert.
Desclos did not reveal herself as the autho ...
'' and the works of
John Norman and Adrian Hunter. Maledom is a growing adult film genre.
Maledom fiction began with the works of the
Marquis de Sade
Donatien Alphonse François, Marquis de Sade (; 2 June 1740 – 2 December 1814), was a French nobleman, revolutionary politician, philosopher and writer famous for his literary depictions of a libertine sexuality as well as numerous accusat ...
who wrote about sexual scenarios in which men tortured others, primarily women. The term ''
sadism'' is derived from de Sade's name. Since then, the lifestyle around male dominance has grown into a large part of the
BDSM scene.
The
''Fifty Shades'' novel series by
E. L. James
Erika Mitchell (born 7 March 1963), known by her pen name E. L. James, is a British author. She wrote the best-selling erotic romance trilogy ''Fifty Shades of Grey'', ''Fifty Shades Darker'', and ''Fifty Shades Freed'', along with the companio ...
are some of the most widely read BDSM-themed novels of our time.
Other works include:
*John Warren, ''The Loving Dominant'',
Greenery Press, 2001,
*Jack Rinella, ''The Master's Manual: Handbook of Erotic Dominance'', Daedalus Publishing, 1997,
See also
*
Dominance and submission
*
Female dominance
*
Female submission
Female submission or femsub is an activity or relationship in which a woman consents to submit to the direction of a sexual partner or allows her body to be used sexually by or for the sexual pleasure of her partner. The expression is often ass ...
*
Gender role
*
Genital torture
*
Male submission
References
External links
Male Dominationon Wipipedia, a specialist BDSM
wiki
BDSM terminology
Men
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