Lil Miss Hot Mess is the stage name of Harris Kornstein (born 1984), an American
drag queen
A drag queen is a person, usually male, who uses Drag (entertainment), drag clothing and makeup to imitate and often exaggerate Femininity, female gender signifiers and gender roles for entertainment purposes. Historically, drag queens have ...
, activist, and children’s book author, known for her work with the #MyNameIs campaign and
Drag Queen Story Hour.
Early life and career
Lil Miss Hot Mess was raised
Reform Jewish
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and had a
Bar Mitzvah
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. She began performing in San Francisco in 2008 at
The Stud. In 2010, at the age of 26, she threw herself a "Bat Mitzvah x2" and later that year won the inaugural title of Tiara Sensation, hosted by Club Some Thing.
In 2014, Lil Miss Hot Mess co-founded the #MyNameIs campaign alongside other drag performers (including as
Sister Roma and Alex U. Inn), as well as LGBTQ and BIPOC activists, sexual violence survivors, and privacy advocates to protest Facebook’s
real-name policy. The group met with and protested Facebook leadership, claiming that the platform prevented users from being their authentic selves and maintaining their privacy. In a piece for
Salon
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, Lil Miss Hot Mess wrote:
In 2017, Lil Miss Hot Mess appeared on
Saturday Night Live
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as a backup dancer for
Katy Perry
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, with a group of drag and ballroom performers including
Indya Moore,
Brita Filter,
Scarlet Envy
Scarlet Envy (born February 26, 1992), is the stage name of Jacob James Grady, an American drag queen, reality television personality, singer, and performer who is best known for competing on the RuPaul's Drag Race season 11, eleventh season of '' ...
, and
Vivacious.
Lil Miss Hot Mess also appeared in a 2020 Biden-Harris campaign video to the tune of "
America the Beautiful
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."
Outside of her drag career, Lil Miss Hot Mess is a university professor, and she holds a PhD from
NYU
New York University (NYU) is a private research university in New York City, New York, United States. Chartered in 1831 by the New York State Legislature, NYU was founded in 1832 by Albert Gallatin as a non-denominational all-male institutio ...
. She has published in academic journals on subjects like “drag pedagogy” and digital drag performance.
Drag Queen Story Hour
In 2016, Lil Miss Hot Mess became involved for
Drag Queen Story Hour as one of the first queens to read for the group in New York City. She has since performed Drag Queen Story Hour readings at venues like the
Brooklyn Public Library
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,
Institute for Contemporary Arts Los Angeles, and
HBO
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’s Human By Orientation digital platform.
In 2020, she published a children’s book called ''The Hips on the Drag Queen Go Swish, Swish, Swish'', illustrated by Olga de Dios and published by
Running Press
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Kids. The book received positive reviews, including Kirkus Reviews, which described it as “a fun, movement-filled, family-friendly celebration of drag.” In an interview, Lil Miss Hot Mess described her goal behind writing the book as:
The ''Hips on the Drag Queen Go Swish, Swish, Swish'' was also featured as a favorite by
Jesse Tyler Ferguson
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on ''
The Ellen DeGeneres Show
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'', as a book he likes to read to his son.
In 2021, Lil Miss Hot Mess read ''The Hips on the Drag Queen Go Swish, Swish, Swish'' in a segment of the television show ''Let’s Learn'', produced by New York City
PBS
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affiliate WNET and the New York City Department of Education. The segment stirred controversy among right-wing groups that frequently target Drag Queen Story Hour, and who took issue with her suggestion that “I think we might have some drag queens in training on our hands.” PBS eventually took down the segment from its main website, however it is available on the local affiliate’s YouTube channel.
In May 2022, as Drag Queen Story Hour came under increased attacks from conservatives, Senator
Marco Rubio
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specifically criticized Lil Miss Hot Mess’s ''Hips'' book referring to it as “sexually charged content.” In response, Lil Miss Hot Mess was outspoken in defending her work, describing these and similar remarks as “an attack not only on freedom of expression but on imagination,” and writing that, “if there is anything that drag performers and kids can learn from each other, it is to get in touch with one’s inner curiosity, conscience and creativity.”
Also in May 2022, Lil Miss Hot Mess published her second children’s book ''If You’re a Drag Queen and You Know It''.
In April 2024, Lil Miss Hot Mess led a Queer Storytime for Palestine in
Northampton, Massachusetts
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, and instructed the children to chant "Free Palestine", dress in Palestinian attire and waive the Palestinian flag and the
transgender flag
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. Organizations such as
StopAntisemitism raised concerns of indoctrination.
References
External links
Lil Miss Hot Mess books
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American LGBTQ rights activists
American drag queens
American LGBTQ writers
Year of birth uncertain
Living people
1980s births
Pseudonymous women writers
21st-century American women writers
American women children's writers
American children's writers
21st-century pseudonymous writers