Janet Norton Lee Auchincloss, previously Bouvier, (December 3, 1907 – July 22, 1989) was an American
socialite
A socialite is a person from a wealthy and (possibly) aristocratic background, who is prominent in high society. A socialite generally spends a significant amount of time attending various fashionable social gatherings, instead of having tradit ...
. She was the mother of the former
First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy
Jacqueline Lee Kennedy Onassis ( ; July 28, 1929 – May 19, 1994) was an American socialite, writer, photographer, and book editor who served as first lady of the United States from 1961 to 1963, as the wife of President John F. Kennedy. A po ...
and
Lee Radziwill.
Early life
Janet Norton Lee was born on December 3, 1907, in Manhattan, New York City. She was the middle daughter of
James Thomas Aloysius Lee (1877–1968), a lawyer and real estate developer, and Margaret A. Merritt (1880–1943). Although she made differing claims about her genealogy including she was “from the
Maryland Lees”, both her parents were of
Irish Catholic
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descent. She had two sisters; Marion Merritt Lee (1904–1947), who married John J. Ryan Jr.,
and Margaret Winifred Lee (1910–1991), who married Franklin D'Olier.
Life
Janet graduated from
Miss Spence's School
, motto_translation = Not for school, but for life we learn
, founder = Clara B. Spence
, tuition = $60,880 (2022-2023)
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and attended
Sweet Briar and
Barnard College
Barnard College of Columbia University is a private women's liberal arts college in the borough of Manhattan in New York City. It was founded in 1889 by a group of women led by young student activist Annie Nathan Meyer, who petitioned Col ...
s. She was a member of the
Barnard College
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class of 1929 but records show that she did not graduate. She was a three-time winner of the hunter championship at the
National Horse Show
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The National Horse Show offers competition for hu ...
.
[
She served as a board member of the Newport Historical Society and the Redwood Library. She was also the honorary director of the Robert E. Lee Memorial Association in Stratford, Virginia.][
]
Personal life
Janet was married three times. In 1928, she married her first husband, John Vernou Bouvier III (1891–1957). He was the son of Major John Vernou Bouvier Jr.
Major John Vernou Bouvier Jr. (August 12, 1866 – January 15, 1948) was an American Wall Street lawyer and stockbroker. He was the father of John Vernou Bouvier III as well as a grandfather of First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, socialite Le ...
(1866–1948), a successful attorney, and Maude Frances Sergeant (1870–1940). He was also the brother of Edith Bouvier Beale
Edith Bouvier Beale (November 7, 1917 – January 14, 2002), nicknamed Little Edie, was an American socialite, fashion model, and cabaret performer. She was a first cousin of Jacqueline Onassis and Lee Bouvier Radziwill. She is best known for ...
(1895–1977), later known as the subject of the documentary film, '' Grey Gardens''. Together, they were the parents of two daughters:
*Jacqueline Lee Bouvier
Jacqueline Lee Kennedy Onassis ( ; July 28, 1929 – May 19, 1994) was an American socialite, writer, photographer, and book editor who served as first lady of the United States from 1961 to 1963, as the wife of President John F. Kennedy. A pop ...
(1929–1994), who married John F. Kennedy in 1953. After his assassination in 1963, she later married Aristotle Onassis
Aristotle Socrates Onassis (, ; el, Αριστοτέλης Ωνάσης, Aristotélis Onásis, ; 20 January 1906 – 15 March 1975), was a Greek-Argentinian shipping magnate who amassed the world's largest privately-owned shipping fleet and was ...
in 1968 and remained married to Onassis until his death in 1975.
* Caroline Lee Bouvier (1933–2019), who married Michael Temple Canfield in 1953. Their marriage was annulled in 1959, and later that same year she married Prince Stanisław Albrecht Radziwiłł. They divorced in 1974. In 1988 she married the director Herbert Ross
Herbert David Ross (May 13, 1927 – October 9, 2001) was an American actor, choreographer, director and producer who worked predominantly in theater and film. He was nominated for two Academy Awards and a Tony Award.
He is known for directing ...
. They also divorced in 2001.
Mr. Bouvier's womanizing and drinking
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led to a separation in 1936, a brief reconciliation for a few months in 1937, and then a divorce in 1940.
In 1942, she married her second husband, Hugh Dudley Auchincloss Jr., an attorney and Standard Oil
Standard Oil Company, Inc., was an American oil production, transportation, refining, and marketing company that operated from 1870 to 1911. At its height, Standard Oil was the largest petroleum company in the world, and its success made its co- ...
heir; becoming his third wife. Together, they had two children:
* Janet Jennings Auchincloss (1945–1985), who was married to Lewis Polk Rutherfurd in 1966.
*James Lee Auchincloss (born 1947)
Hugh Auchincloss died in 1976. In 1979, she married for a third time, to her childhood friend Bingham Willing "Booch" Morris (1906–1996). Jacqueline served as her witness. Morris, a widower, was a retired investment banker who lived in Southampton, New York
Southampton, officially the Town of Southampton, is a town in southeastern Suffolk County, New York, partly on the South Fork of Long Island. As of the 2020 U.S. census, the town had a population of 69,036. Southampton is included in the str ...
, a graduate of St. George's School and Harvard, where he was a member of the Iroquois
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and Hasty Pudding Club
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s, and was the son of Violet Lee (née Willing) Morris and John Boucher Morris of Baltimore. His late wife, Mary (née
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Rawlins) Morris, was a bridesmaid at Janet's first wedding. They separated in 1981, but remained married until her death from complications arising from Alzheimer's disease in 1989.
References
Further reading
*'' 740 Park: The Story of the World's Richest Apartment Building'', by Michael Gross
*''Janet and Jackie: The Story of a Mother and Her Daughter, Jacqueline Onassis'', by Jan Pottke.
*"Obituary of James Thomas Lee", ''The New York Times
''The New York Times'' (''the Times'', ''NYT'', or the Gray Lady) is a daily newspaper based in New York City with a worldwide readership reported in 2020 to comprise a declining 840,000 paid print subscribers, and a growing 6 million paid ...
'', January 4, 1968.
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1907 births
1989 deaths
American people of Irish descent
American socialites
Auchincloss family
Bouvier family
Deaths from Alzheimer's disease
Deaths from dementia in Rhode Island
People from Newport, Rhode Island
People from Manhattan
Sweet Briar College alumni
Barnard College alumni
Burials at Common Burying Ground and Island Cemetery
Spence School alumni