A bridegroom (often shortened to groom) is a man who is about to be

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or who is

newlywed Newlyweds are people who have recently entered into a marriage. The time frame during which a married couple is considered newlywed varies, but for social science research purposes it may be considered as up to six months into the marriage.Rebecc ...

. When marrying, the bridegroom's future spouse is usually referred to as the bride. A bridegroom is typically attended by a

best man A groomsman or usher is one of the male attendants to the groom in a wedding ceremony. Usually, the groom selects close friends and relatives to serve as groomsmen, and it is considered an honor to be selected. From his groomsmen, the groom usuall ...

and

groomsmen A groomsman or usher is one of the male attendants to the groom in a wedding ceremony. Usually, the groom selects close friends and relatives to serve as groomsmen, and it is considered an honor to be selected. From his groomsmen, the groom usuall ...

Etymology

The first mention of the term ''bridegroom'' dates to 1572, from the

Old English Old English ( or , or ), or Anglo-Saxon, is the earliest recorded form of the English language, spoken in England and southern and eastern Scotland in the Early Middle Ages. It developed from the languages brought to Great Britain by Anglo-S ...

''brȳdguma'', a compound of ''brȳd'' (

bride A bride is a woman who is about to be married or who is a newlywed. When marrying, if the bride's future spouse is a man, he is usually referred to as the ''bridegroom'' or just ''groom''. In Western culture, a bride may be attended by a maid, ...

) and ''guma'' (man, human being, hero). It is related to the

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''brūdigomo'', the

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''brūtigomo'', the

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''Bräutigam'', and the

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''brúðgumi''.

Attire

The style of the bridegroom's clothing can be influenced by many factors, including the time of day, the location of the ceremony, the ethnic backgrounds of the bride and bridegroom, the type of ceremony, and whether the bridegroom is a member of the

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National or ethnic traditions

* In the

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, the bridegroom usually wears a dark-colored suit for a daytime wedding or a

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for an evening ceremony. *

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tradition for a formal wedding requires the bridegroom, male ushers, and close male family to wear

morning suit Morning dress, also known as formal day dress, is the formal Western dress code for day attire, consisting chiefly of a morning coat, waistcoat, and formal trousers for men, and an appropriate gown for women. Men may also wear a popular ...

s; unless a uniform is appropriate. * Bridegrooms of

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often wear full Highland dress, as do their groomsmen. * In

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the bridegroom may wear a folk costume like a

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, the

gákti is the Northern Sámi word used by non-Sámi speakers to refer to many different types of traditional clothing worn by the Sámi in northern areas of Norway, Sweden, Finland and the Kola Peninsula in Russia. The gákti is worn both in ceremon ...

among Northern Sami or a dark-colored suit or a

Responsibilities during the ceremony

In Anglo-American weddings, the bridegroom will often give a short speech after the reception, thanking the guests for attending, complimenting the bride, thanking members of the wedding party, and possibly sharing a "roast toast", in which he makes jokes at the expense of himself or a member of his party. His speech will normally be followed by one from the

Religion

Christianity

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is called a bridegroom in relation to the Church as his bride. In the

Gospel of John The Gospel of John () is the fourth of the New Testament's four canonical Gospels. It contains a highly schematic account of the ministry of Jesus, with seven "Book of Signs, signs" culminating in the raising of Lazarus (foreshadowing the ...

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speaks of Jesus Christ as the bridegroom and mentions the bride. Also see Matthew 9:15; 25:1-13; Mark 2:19-20; Luke 5:34-35; John 2:9; 3:29.

References

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