Mary Gaitskill (born November 11, 1954) is an American novelist, essayist, and short story writer. Her work has appeared in ''
The New Yorker
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'', ''
Harper's Magazine
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'', ''
Esquire
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'', ''
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'' (1993, 2006, 2012, 2020), and ''
The O. Henry Prize Stories'' (1998, 2008). Her books include the short story collection ''Bad Behavior'' (1988).
Life
Gaitskill was born in
Lexington, Kentucky
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. She has lived in
New York City
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,
Toronto
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,
San Francisco
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,
Marin County
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and
Pennsylvania
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, as well as attending the
University of Michigan
, mottoeng = "Arts, Knowledge, Truth"
, former_names = Catholepistemiad, or University of Michigania (1817–1821)
, budget = $10.3 billion (2021)
, endowment = $17 billion (2021)As o ...
, where she earned her B.A. in 1981 and won a
Hopwood Award
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Under the terms of the will of Avery Hopwood, a prominent American dramatist and member of the class of 1905 of the University of Michiga ...
. She sold flowers in San Francisco as a teenage runaway. In a conversation with novelist and short story writer
Matthew Sharpe for ''
BOMB Magazine
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'', Gaitskill said she chose to become a writer at age 18 because she was "indignant about things—it was the typical teenage sense of 'things are wrong in the world and I must say something.'" Gaitskill has also recounted (in her essay "Revelation") becoming a born-again Christian at age 21 but lapsing after six months.
She married the writer
Peter Trachtenberg
Peter Trachtenberg (born 1953) is an American writer of fiction, nonfiction, and memoir.
Life
He graduated from Sarah Lawrence College, and from City College of New York with an MA.
He is an Associate Professor of Creative Writing in the Departme ...
in 2001. They divorced in 2010.
Gaitskill has taught at
UC Berkeley
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, the
University of Houston
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,
New York University
New York University (NYU) is a private research university in New York City. Chartered in 1831 by the New York State Legislature, NYU was founded by a group of New Yorkers led by then- Secretary of the Treasury Albert Gallatin.
In 1832, ...
,
The New School
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,
Brown University, in the MFA program at
Temple University
Temple University (Temple or TU) is a public university, public Commonwealth System of Higher Education, state-related research university in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. It was founded in 1884 by the Baptists, Baptist minister Russell Conwell an ...
and
Syracuse University
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. She was the Writer-In-Residence at
Hobart and William Smith Colleges
Hobart and William Smith Colleges are Private college, private Liberal arts colleges in the United States, liberal arts colleges in Geneva, New York. They trace their origins to Geneva Academy established in 1797. Students can choose from 45 maj ...
. As of 2020, Gaitskill is a
visiting professor
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of literature at
Claremont McKenna College
Claremont McKenna College (CMC) is a private liberal arts college in Claremont, California. It has a curricular emphasis on government, economics, public affairs, finance, and international relations. CMC is a member of the Claremont Colleges c ...
.
Works
Gaitskill attempted to find a publisher for four years before her first book, the short story collection ''Bad Behavior,'' was published in 1988. The first four stories are written in the third person point of view from the perspectives of male characters. The remaining five stories are written from the perspectives of female characters. ''Secretary'' is the only story in the book written in the first-person point of view. Several of the stories have themes of sexuality, romance, love,
sex work
Sex work is "the exchange of sexual services, performances, or products for material compensation. It includes activities of direct physical contact between buyers and sellers as well as indirect sexual stimulation". Sex work only refers to volun ...
,
sadomasochism
Sadomasochism ( ) is the giving and receiving of pleasure from acts involving the receipt or infliction of pain or humiliation. Practitioners of sadomasochism may seek sexual pleasure from their acts. While the terms sadist and masochist refer ...
, drug addiction, being a writer in New York City, and living in New York City. ''A Romantic Weekend'' and ''Secretary'' both explore themes of
BDSM
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and psychological aspects of dominance and submission in sexual relationships. The story ''Connection'' is about a female friendship.
Gaitskill's fiction is typically about female characters dealing with their own inner conflicts, and her subject matter matter-of-factly includes many "taboo" subjects such as
prostitution,
addiction
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, and
sado-masochism
Sadomasochism ( ) is the giving and receiving of pleasure from acts involving the receipt or infliction of pain or humiliation. Practitioners of sadomasochism may seek sexual pleasure from their acts. While the terms sadist and masochist refer ...
. Gaitskill says that she had worked as a stripper and call girl. She showed similar candor in an essay about being raped, "On Not Being a Victim," for ''
Harper's''.
Gaitskill's 1994 essay in ''Harper's'' also addresses feminist debates about
date rape
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, victimization, and responsibility. She describes ways that individual subjectivity influences all experiences, making it impossible to come to "universally agreed-upon conclusions."
The film ''
Secretary
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'' (2002) is based on the short story of the same name in ''Bad Behavior'', although the two have little in common. She characterized the film as "the ''
Pretty Woman
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'' version, heavy on the charm (and a little too nice)," but observed that the "bottom line is that if
film adaptation ismade you get some money and exposure, and people can make up their minds from there."
The novel ''Two Girls, Fat and Thin'' follows the childhood and adult lives of Justine Shade (thin) and Dorothy Never (fat). Justine works through her sadomasochistic issues while Dorothy works through her up-and-down commitment to the philosophy of "Definitism" and its founder "Anna Granite" (thinly veiled satires of
Objectivism
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and
Ayn Rand
Alice O'Connor (born Alisa Zinovyevna Rosenbaum;, . Most sources transliterate her given name as either ''Alisa'' or ''Alissa''. , 1905 – March 6, 1982), better known by her pen name Ayn Rand (), was a Russian-born American writer and p ...
). When journalist Justine interviews Dorothy for an exposé of Definitism, an unusual relationship begins between the two women. In an interview, Gaitskill discussed what she was trying to convey about Justine via her sadomasochistic impulses:
The novel ''The Mare'', published in 2015, is written from the perspectives of several different characters. The primary characters are named Ginger and Velvet (short for Velveteen). Ginger is a middle-aged woman who meets Velvet, a young adolescent, through
The Fresh Air Fund
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. Other characters whose perspectives are featured include Paul (Ginger's husband), Silvia (Velvet's mother), Dante (Velvet's younger brother), and Beverly (a horse trainer).
Gaitskill received the
Arts and Letters Award in Literature
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from
The American Academy of Arts and Letters
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in 2018. Gaitskill's other honors include a
Guggenheim Fellowship
Guggenheim Fellowships are grants that have been awarded annually since by the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Foundation to those "who have demonstrated exceptional capacity for productive scholarship or exceptional creative ability in the ar ...
in 2002 and a
PEN/Faulkner Award
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nomination for ''Because They Wanted To'' in 1998. ''Veronica'' (2005) was a
National Book Award
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The N ...
nominee, as well as a National Book Critics Circle finalist for that year. The book is centered on the narrator, a former fashion model and her friend Veronica who contracts
AIDS. Gaitskill mentioned working on the novel in a 1994 interview, but that same year she put it aside until 2001. Writing of ''Veronica'' and Gaitskill's career in ''
Harper's Magazine
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'' in March 2006,
Wyatt Mason Wyatt Mason (born 1969) is an American journalist, essayist, critic and translator.
Background and education
Mason was raised in Manhattan. He attended The Fieldston School in New York, the University of Pennsylvania, and also studied literature ...
said:
Gaitskill's favorite writers have changed over time, as she noted in a 2005 interview, but one constant is the author
Vladimir Nabokov
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, whose ''
Lolita
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'' "will be on my ten favorites list until the end of my life." Another consistently named influence is
Flannery O'Connor
Mary Flannery O'Connor (March 25, 1925August 3, 1964) was an American novelist, short story writer and essayist. She wrote two novels and 31 short stories, as well as a number of reviews and commentaries.
She was a Southern writer who often ...
. Despite her well-known S/M themes, Gaitskill does not appear to consider the
Marquis de Sade
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himself an influence, or at least not a literary one: "I don't think much of Sade as a writer, although I enjoyed beating off to him as a child."
Bibliography
*''Bad Behavior'' (1988) (stories)
*''Two Girls, Fat and Thin'' (1991) (novel)
*''Because They Wanted To'' (1997) (stories)
*''Veronica'' (2005) (novel,
National Book Award
The National Book Awards are a set of annual U.S. literary awards. At the final National Book Awards Ceremony every November, the National Book Foundation presents the National Book Awards and two lifetime achievement awards to authors.
The N ...
Finalist)
*''Don't Cry'' (2009) (stories)
*''The Mare'' (November 2015) (novel)
*''Somebody with a Little Hammer'' (2017) (essays)
*''This Is Pleasure'' (2019) (novel)
*''The Devil's Treasure: A Book of Stories and Dreams'' (2021)
Awards
*
Arts and Letters Award in Literature
The arts are a very wide range of human practices of creative expression, storytelling and cultural participation. They encompass multiple diverse and plural modes of thinking, doing and being, in an extremely broad range of media. Both h ...
,
The American Academy of Arts and Letters
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(2018).
* Cullman Research Fellowship at the
New York Public Library
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(2010)
*
Guggenheim Fellowship
Guggenheim Fellowships are grants that have been awarded annually since by the John Simon Guggenheim Memorial Foundation to those "who have demonstrated exceptional capacity for productive scholarship or exceptional creative ability in the ar ...
for fiction (2002)
*
Hopwood Award
The Hopwood Awards are a major scholarship program at the University of Michigan, founded by Avery Hopwood.
Under the terms of the will of Avery Hopwood, a prominent American dramatist and member of the class of 1905 of the University of Michiga ...
References
External links
Author interview(2010) by Suzanne Warren a
Narrative.com
*
(2005?) a
failbetter.com
Author interview(2005) for Barnes & Noble's "Meet the Writers" website. Includes lists of her current favorites in fiction and film.
("Mary, Mary, Less Contrary" by Emily Nussbaum) in ''New York Magazine'' (November 14, 2005 issue).
*The March 2006 ''Harper's'' had a notabl
reviewof ''Veronica'' by Wyatt Mason that also covered Gaitskill's earlier work.
*A
Slate.com Mason called ''Veronica'' "the best book of fiction in recent memory."
2006 Reading report, Gaitskill with Edna O'Brien at 92nd Street Yfrom BookishLove.net
Author interview(2009) with Sheila Heti at The Believer.
2009 ''BOMB Magazine'' interview of Mary Gaitskill by Matthew Sharpe"Woman to Woman: An Interview with Mary Gaitskill"(2011) by Emily McLaughlin at Fiction Writers Review.
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1954 births
20th-century American novelists
21st-century American novelists
American women short story writers
American women novelists
Living people
Writers from Lexington, Kentucky
University of Michigan alumni
MacDowell Colony fellows
20th-century American women writers
21st-century American women writers
BDSM writers
20th-century American short story writers
21st-century American short story writers
PEN/Faulkner Award for Fiction winners
Kentucky women writers
Novelists from Kentucky
Hopwood Award winners