Frances Jones Dandridge (August 6, 1710 – April 9, 1785) was the mother of
Martha Washington
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, the first
First Lady of the United States
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. She was born in
New Kent County, Virginia
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. Her father Orlando Jones and maternal grandfather Colonel
Gideon Macon served on the
House of Burgesses
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in
Colonial Virginia
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The first effort to create an English settlement in the area was chartered in 1584 and established in 1585; the resulting Roanoke Colo ...
. Her parents were prosperous Virginian landowners.
Her mother Martha Macon died when she was six and her father remarried before his death. She was then raised by her stepmother Mary Elizabeth Williams Jones and later her new husband John James Flourney. A few years after having herself emancipated at the age of sixteen, Frances married
John Dandridge—a prominent planter, Colonel in the local militia, and
Clerk of Courts—on July 22, 1730, in New Kent County, Virginia. They lived at the
Chestnut Grove plantation and a house in
Williamsburg
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and had eight children.
Early life
Frances Jones, nicknamed Fanny, was born in 1710 on a plantation near
Williamsburg
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near the capital on
Queen's Creek
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. Fanny had an older brother, Lane Jones, born in 1707. Fanny's father,
Orlando Jones
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(Bruton Parish, Williamsburg, December 31, 1681-Queens Creek, York County, June 12, 1719), was a
Burgess for
New Kent County in 1718 in the
House of Burgesses
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, the leading legislative body in
Colonial Virginia
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. He was also a planter with 21 enslaved people. Her mother (m. January 31, 1702), Martha Macon Jones (Saint Peter, New Kent County, 1687-Macon's Island, Williamsburg, May 4, 1716), was daughter of Colonel
Gideon Macon, died when Fanny was only six years old. Her father soon remarried. His second wife, Mary Elizabeth William Jones, became the sole parent of the two children just three years later when Orlando Jones died. Orlando and Mary had no children together.
A year later, Orlando's widow Mary Elizabeth married John James Flourney and her stepchildren lived with them in Williamsburg. The union of Flourneys brought more children into the household. While the Jones children lived with their guardians, the Flourneys had a right to use the income from the Queen's Creek property for their household. Anna Maria Jones Timson, the sister of the late Orlando Jones sued twice for custody of her niece and nephew but was denied. When Lane Jones reached the age of eighteen, he legally
emancipated himself and moved in with his aunt in Timson's Neck.
In 1726, when Fanny was sixteen, she also sued for emancipation. She did not move in with her aunt but instead lived with a planter in
New Kent. Her mother's parents had been from that region and a number of Macon aunts and uncles lived there. She may have lived with Unity West Dandridge, her mother's half-sister, who had married William Dandridge in 1719.
Marriage
Fanny Jones married
John Dandridge on July 22, 1730. Fanny inherited ten enslaved people and land in
King William County
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from her father, which she brought to the marriage. The Dandridges lived at the
Chestnut Grove plantation on the bank of the
Pamunkey River
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in
New Kent County, Virginia
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. Located about 35 miles from
Williamsburg
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,
it was a two-story frame house that was surrounded by fruit and chestnut trees.
Dandridge immigrated to the Virginia Colony in 1714
or 1715. Born to John and Ann Dandridge of England,
he immigrated with his older brother William Dandridge (1689–1743).
He and his wife Unity West Dandridge, an heiress, lived on the opposite bank of the river from Chestnut Grove at his
Elsing Green
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estate in
King William County, Virginia
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.
Before his marriage, Dandridge was the Deputy Clerk while Colonel John Thornton was the
Clerk of Courts; the courthouse was located four miles from his home. Dandridge became Clerk of Courts in New Kent in 1730, upon Thornton's death and held the position for 26 years. He also managed his 500-acre tobacco plantation,
which was prosperous due to the use of 15 to 20 enslaved workers. Owning enslaved people was a sign of wealth and status. Others with larger plantations or positions of influence in the House of Burgesses or the Governor's Council were among the elite gentry.
He was
vestryman
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for
St. Peter's Church, Church of England.
Dandridge was a Colonel in his military district.
Children
The Dandridges had eight children:
*
Martha Dandridge Custis Washington (1731-1802)
* John Dandridge (1733–1749)
* William Dandridge (1734–1776)
*
Bartholomew Dandridge
Bartholomew Dandridge (25 December 1737 – 18 April 1785) was an early American planter, lawyer and Patriot (American Revolution), patriot. He represented New Kent County, Virginia, New Kent County in the House of Burgesses, all five Virginia Re ...
(1737–1785)
* Anna Maria "Fanny" Dandridge Bassett (1739–1777)
* Frances Dandridge (1744–1757)
* Elizabeth Dandridge Aylett Henley (1749–1800)
* Mary Dandridge (1756–1763)
Fanny was pregnant or nursing for nearly 25 years. She lost a number of children through miscarriages and stillbirths:
* A stillborn son (1732)
* A stillborn daughter (1735)
* A miscarried daughter (1736)
* A miscarried daughter (1738)
* A miscarried son (1741)
* A miscarried son (1743)
* A stillborn daughter (1746)
* A stillborn daughter (1748)
* A stillborn daughter (1751)
* A stillborn son (1753)
As was typical of the time, the children were educated at home to ready them for life among the gentry, including religious education, music, and dance.
Martha first married
Daniel Parke Custis
Daniel Parke Custis (October 15, 1711 – July 8, 1757) was an American planter and politician who was the first husband of Martha Dandridge. After his death, his widow, Martha Dandridge Custis married George Washington, who later became the fir ...
, from one of the richest families in Virginia, at Chestnut Grove.
When he died, in 1757, he left an estate of about 300 enslaved people and 17,500 acres.
Following his death, she married
George Washington
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at the
White House plantation. They lived at
Mount Vernon
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and she later became
First Lady of the United States of America.
One of their sons,
Bartholomew Dandridge
Bartholomew Dandridge (25 December 1737 – 18 April 1785) was an early American planter, lawyer and Patriot (American Revolution), patriot. He represented New Kent County, Virginia, New Kent County in the House of Burgesses, all five Virginia Re ...
, followed in his father's footsteps and became Clerk of Courts in New Kent County. And he, like his father, also served as both vestryman and churchwarden, but at the Blisland Parish rather than the St. Peter's Parish.
John Dandridge had two illegitimate children:
Ann Dandridge Costin
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Early ...
and Ralph Dandridge.
Later life
Her husband, Colonel
John Dandridge, died in
Fredericksburg on August 31, 1756. He was interred at
St. George's Episcopal Church in Fredericksburg. After her husband's death, Fanny and three of her children–William, Mary, and Elizabeth—continued to live at Chestnut Grove. Fanny was 46 years old and had just given birth to her last child that year. At age 22, William took over management of the plantation.
Bartholomew listed Chestnut Grove for sale in 1768. Fanny moved to Pamocra, where she died in April 1785, within days of the death of her son Bartholomew, and they were buried in the one-acre graveyard.
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External links
Virginia Historical Society - John Dandridge c. 1715
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1710 births
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