Footsteps is a not-for-profit organization based in
New York City
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that provides educational, vocational, and social support to people who have left or want to
leave an Haredi or
Hasidic Jewish
Hasidism, sometimes spelled Chassidism, and also known as Hasidic Judaism ( Ashkenazi Hebrew: חסידות ''Ḥăsīdus'', ; originally, "piety"), is a Jewish religious group that arose as a spiritual revival movement in the territory of cont ...
community in the United States.
Mission
According to its website, Footsteps provides educational, vocational, professional, social, and legal support to those seeking to enter or explore the world beyond the insular ultra-Orthodox communities in which they were raised. Some people from the Haredi and Hasidic communities who choose to enter mainstream America may feel like "cultural immigrants". They may face cultural disorientation and isolation, coupled with a lack of practical and marketable skills. Founded in December 2003, Footsteps aims to assist individuals who choose to make this transition. Individuals frequently refer to themselves as "
off the derech
Off the ''derech'' ( he, דֶּרֶךְ, pronounced: , meaning: path) (OTD) is a Yeshiva-English expression used to describe a Jew who has left an Orthodox Jewish community. Despite its negative connotation in insinuating that the exiter has left ...
", or OTD, reclaiming the dismissive term given to leavers by members of the ultra-Orthodox communities they have left.
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History
Footsteps was founded in December 2003, by Malkie Schwartz, a former Chabad
Chabad, also known as Lubavitch, Habad and Chabad-Lubavitch (), is an Orthodox Jewish Hasidic dynasty. Chabad is one of the world's best-known Hasidic movements, particularly for its outreach activities. It is one of the largest Hasidic groups ...
Hasid from Crown Heights, while enrolled as a student at Hunter College
Hunter College is a public university in New York City. It is one of the constituent colleges of the City University of New York and offers studies in more than one hundred undergraduate and postgraduate fields across five schools. It also adm ...
in New York City. According to Schwartz, 20 people showed up to the first meeting, announced on flyers around the Hunter campus and through word of mouth.[Orli Santo]
The Departed
, ''Unpious.com'', August 17, 2010. Footsteps began as an informal social group, and soon developed an educational study group and a sex education
Sex education, also known as sexual education, sexuality education or sex ed, is the instruction of issues relating to human sexuality, including emotional relations and responsibilities, human sexual anatomy, sexual activity, sexual reproduct ...
and relationships group, members finding they had been denied access to basic sex education instruction within the Haredi community.
As the organization grew, it became a 501(c) non-profit, with a broad remit of support and education for ex-Haredi Jews. Footsteps can also provide counseling, and has partnered with New York Legal Assistance Group
The New York Legal Assistance Group (NYLAG) is a non-profit organization that provides free civil legal services to low-income New Yorkers. Its services include direct representation, case consultation, advocacy, community education, training, fina ...
to provide legal assistance and advice in divorce and custody cases.[
As of summer 2015, Footsteps has a permanent staff of 10, a membership of over 1000, and an annual budget in excess of $1 million.] Its current director is Lani Santo.[ The organization's program director is ]Chani Getter
Chani Getter, LCSW (they/them) is a U.S. speaker, writer, therapist, and interfaith minister. Rev. Chani is also an award-winning activist and educator who supports a growing community of LGBTQ+ and non-binary people. Their life and work has been ...
.
Activities
Footsteps provides an array of services for its members. The Footsteps offices are known as "The Space", and are situated at an unpublicized location, due to privacy concerns. They contain a computer lab, library, meeting space, kitchenette, and lounge, where members can work and hang out. Members gather for various groups, events, and workshops on topics including dating and sexuality, navigating the college admissions process, career advancement, and painting.
Footsteps also holds several annual events, which are open to members and guests. Events include: Thanksgiving dinner, Passover Potluck, and an annual camping trip. Since 2009, "Footsteps Celebrates" has been held each year in June, to celebrate graduations, accomplishments, and leadership roles.[Josh Nathan-Kazis]
The 'Footsteps' of Those Leaving Ultra-Orthodoxy
''Forward.com'', June 8, 2012. During the summer months of 2012, Footsteps organized a weekly soccer game in Prospect Park. During winter, an indoor game of basketball took place bi-weekly.[Josh Nathan-Kazis]
For Ex-Orthodox, More Than a Game
''Forward.com'', June 29, 2012.
Footsteps has also held annual art shows in which it exhibits works by Footsteps members.Shulem Deen Shulem Deen (born 1974) is an American author, essayist, former Skver ''Hasid'', and critic of Hasidic Judaism. He is the author of the memoir ''All Who Go Do Not Return'' (2015), and is a regular columnist at ''The Forward''. He is also the foundin ...
Ex-Haredi Artists Grapple With Their Pasts
''Forward.com'', April 27, 2011.
Impact
Abby Stein
Abby Chava Stein (born October 1, 1991) is an American transgender author, activist, blogger, model, speaker, and rabbi. She is the first openly transgender woman raised in a Hasidic community, and is a direct descendant of Hasidic Judaism's fo ...
, a formerly Ultra-Orthodox rabbi and author in her book Becoming Eve,[Becoming Eve: My Journey from Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman] as well as in numerous interviews, credits Footsteps with helping her succeed after she left the Hasidic community, even calling their work "life saving." In a March 2021 interview with the ''New York'' magazine, she credits Footsteps therapists with helping her both, when she left the Hasidic community, and later when she came out as transgender women, saying that speaking with a Footsteps social worker "was the first time I ever spoke to a professional where I felt listened to, as opposed to feeling like a problem that needed solving."
Leadership
Board members include author Shulem Deen Shulem Deen (born 1974) is an American author, essayist, former Skver ''Hasid'', and critic of Hasidic Judaism. He is the author of the memoir ''All Who Go Do Not Return'' (2015), and is a regular columnist at ''The Forward''. He is also the foundin ...
and businessman Steve Eisman
Steven Eisman (; born July 8, 1962) is an American businessman and investor known for having shorted collateralized debt obligations (CDOs), thereby profiting from the collapse of the US housing bubble in 2007–2008.
Early life, education, and ...
.
Notable members
* Jericho Vincent
Jericho Vincent is an American author and speaker. They are best known for their books, ''Cut Me Loose'' and ''Legends of the Talmud''.
Early life and education
Jericho Vincent was raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, by a Jewish family. They w ...
, author
* Shulem Deen Shulem Deen (born 1974) is an American author, essayist, former Skver ''Hasid'', and critic of Hasidic Judaism. He is the author of the memoir ''All Who Go Do Not Return'' (2015), and is a regular columnist at ''The Forward''. He is also the foundin ...
, author
* Luzer Twersky
Luzer Twersky (born July 26, 1985) is an American film and television actor. , actor
* Abby Stein
Abby Chava Stein (born October 1, 1991) is an American transgender author, activist, blogger, model, speaker, and rabbi. She is the first openly transgender woman raised in a Hasidic community, and is a direct descendant of Hasidic Judaism's fo ...
, author and trans activist
* Naftuli Moster
Naftuli Moster (born 1986) is an American activist. He is the founder and former executive director of Young Advocates for Fair Education (Yaffed), an advocacy organization dedicated to ensuring that students at Hasidic yeshivas in New York City ...
, founder and CEO of YAFFED
Young Advocates for Fair Education (styled ''Yaffed'') is an advocacy group dedicated to improving secular education in Haredi Jewish (especially Hasidic) schools. The group advocates for curricular changes within schools, in compliance with New Y ...
* Chani Getter
Chani Getter, LCSW (they/them) is a U.S. speaker, writer, therapist, and interfaith minister. Rev. Chani is also an award-winning activist and educator who supports a growing community of LGBTQ+ and non-binary people. Their life and work has been ...
, councillor
Media exposure
Footsteps has been featured in numerous media outlets, including The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Guardian, PBS, NBC, and many others. The book ''Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels'' by Hella Winston relates the story of the founder of Footsteps and some of those who have gone through the organization as part of their journey to leave the Haredi and Hasidic communities. The National Geographic program, "Inside Hasidism", included a segment about Footsteps and some of its members. The 2017 documentary, ''One of Us
1 (one, unit, unity) is a number representing a single or the only entity. 1 is also a numerical digit and represents a single unit (measurement), unit of counting or measurement. For example, a line segment of ''unit length'' is a line segment ...
'', referenced Footsteps repeatedly.
See also
*Faith to Faithless
Faith to Faithless is a non-profit organisation in the United Kingdom dedicated to confronting discrimination against atheists and non-religious people, in particular discrimination towards individuals who have left minority religions. It provid ...
*Mavar
Mavar is a UK-registered charitable organisation providing professional support to people who have left or want to leave the Haredi Jewish community. It provides financial, educational, legal, and emotional support enabling people to find new co ...
, a UK-based organization which supports the transition of leaving the Haredi lifestyle in Britain
*Off the derech
Off the ''derech'' ( he, דֶּרֶךְ, pronounced: , meaning: path) (OTD) is a Yeshiva-English expression used to describe a Jew who has left an Orthodox Jewish community. Despite its negative connotation in insinuating that the exiter has left ...
*''One of Us
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''
*Religious disaffiliation
Religious disaffiliation is the act of leaving a faith, or a religious group or community. It is in many respects the reverse of religious conversion. Several other terms are used for this process, though each of these terms may have slightly diffe ...
References
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External links
Footsteps Official Website
Disengagement from religion
Non-profit organizations based in the United States
Secular Jewish culture in the United States
Anti-Orthodox Judaism sentiment