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Families Anonymous (FA) is a
twelve-step program Twelve-step programs are international mutual aid programs supporting recovery from substance addictions, behavioral addictions and compulsions. Developed in the 1930s, the first twelve-step program, Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), founded by B ...
for relatives and friends of addicts. FA was founded in 1971 by a group of parents in
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concerned with their children's
substance abuse Substance misuse, also known as drug misuse or, in older vernacular, substance abuse, is the use of a drug in amounts or by methods that are harmful to the individual or others. It is a form of substance-related disorder, differing definition ...
.


Goal

The focus of FA is on supporting members rather than changing the behavior of their friend or relative with a substance abuse problem.
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is suggested as an approach to use when dealing with addicts—members do not need to rescue addicts from the consequences of problems the addicts have created, and members should be willing to offend addicts if necessary. One study suggested the therapeutic effects of participation included a process of
internalization Internalization may refer to: * Internalization (sociology) *Internalization (psychology) ** Internalizing disorder *Internalization (biology) Endocytosis is a cellular process in which substances are brought into the cell. The material to be ...
from the stories and information shared,
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and freeing from
guilt Guilt most commonly refers to: *Guilt (emotion), an emotion that occurs when a person feels that they have violated a moral standard *Culpability, a legal term *Guilt (law), a legal term Music * ''Guilt'' (album), a 2009 album by Mims * "Guilt" ( ...
regarding the behavior of the abuser, and The Traditions protecting anonymity which allow members to reduce potential stigma acquired from membership.


Activities

As of 2007 there are FA arrange meetings in more than 20 countries and about 225 regular meetings in the
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. A survey of FA groups in
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found members were mostly female, 45–60 years old, and mothers of substance abusing children. FA's original literature includes the book ''Today a Better Way'' on the principles of the FA program, a newsletter, the ''Twelve Step Rag'', as well as several pamphlets and booklets.


See also

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Al-Anon/Alateen Al-Anon Family Groups, founded in 1951, is an international mutual aid organization for people who have been impacted by another person's alcoholism. In the organization's own words, Al-Anon is a "worldwide fellowship that offers a program of reco ...
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Co-Dependents Anonymous Co-Dependents Anonymous (CoDA) is a twelve-step program for people who share a common desire to develop functional and healthy relationships. Co-Dependents Anonymous was founded by Ken and Mary Richardson and the first CoDA meeting attended by 30 ...
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List of twelve-step groups This is a list of Wikipedia articles about specific Twelve-step program, twelve-step recovery programs and fellowships. These programs, and the groups of people who follow them, are based on the set of guiding principles for recovery from wiktio ...


References


External links


Official WebsiteFamilies Anonymous Portugal
{{Authority control Twelve-step programs Organizations established in 1971 Non-profit organizations based in California Addiction organizations in the United States 1971 establishments in California