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Ross, born October 12, 1979) is an American author and LGBT activist, best known for writing books about parenting. As of 2022, he has released five books. He is the author of two
children's books
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, starting with '' My Uncle's Wedding'' in 2011 and ''Strong'' in 2022. His parenting books include ''
Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood
''Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood'' is a nonfiction book by author and activist Eric Rosswood. The work focuses on adoption, foster care, assisted reproduction, surrogacy, and co-parenting advice for LGBT couples. The foreword is written by Melis ...
'' in 2016 and ''The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads'' in 2017. ''We Make It Better'', released in 2018, is compilation of biographies on LGBTQ people.
Books
''My Uncle’s Wedding''
''My Uncle’s Wedding'' is a children's picture book about marriage equality. The main character is a boy named Andy who finds out that his uncle, Mike, is going to marry his long-term boyfriend, Steve. In the book, Andy talks about his uncle's wedding, how it affects him, and the things he gets to do in preparation for the ceremony. Tracy K. Greene created illustrations and the author is credited as Eric Ross instead of Eric Rosswood because he wrote and published the book prior to getting married and changing his last name.
Rosswood stated he intentionally left the word "gay" out of the book because the story was about a wedding, not a "gay wedding." ''My Uncle’s Wedding'' was praised by Marriage Equality USA and the
National Center for Lesbian Rights
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. During the official book release, California Senator
Mark Leno
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presented Rosswood with a Senate Certificate of Recognition for ''My Uncle's Wedding'', stating the book's "vital role in creating a brighter future."
In various interviews, Rosswood explained that the reason he wrote ''My Uncle’s Wedding'' was because he didn't like how opponents of marriage equality would always use kids for political gain, so he decided to write about the topic from a child's perspective.
While the book was typically well received, the anti-LGBT group
National Organization for Marriage
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(NOM) was quick to condemn it.
''Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood''
While trying to expand his own family, Rosswood realized there was a lack of resources available to help same-sex couples compare paths to parenthood. He wrote ''Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood'' to help same-sex couples start their own families. The book compares adoption, foster care, assisted reproduction, surrogacy, and co-parenting to help LGBTQ people decide which path is right for them. It includes 19 real life stories from parents around the world, including the United States, the UK, Ireland, and South Africa. One of the stories was written by a
serodiscordant
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couple, and it is believed that ''Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood'' is the first book that gives an example for how a gay couple can have children when one of the prospective parents is
HIV-positive
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.
The book also includes legal tips and advice contributed by the National Center for Lesbian Rights. Actress
Melissa Gilbert
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Gilbert began her career as a child actress in the late 1960s, appearing in numerous co ...
wrote the foreword and
Charlie Condou
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wrote the introduction.
''The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads''
Rosswood's third book, ''The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads'', covers general parenting information, but instead of topics focusing on mothers, it highlights information relevant to gay dads. The book includes parenting tips and advice from pediatricians, school educators, lawyers, and other gay parents. The foreword was written by
Golden Globe
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nominated writer, director, and producer
Greg Berlanti
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, best known for his work as executive producer and co-creator of
The CW
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’s ''
Arrow
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''. The audiobook is narrated by Paul Michael Garcia. The book became the #1 New Release in the Adoption category on
Amazon
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. The book received positive responses from Shawn Moore, Board Member for the Modern Family Alliance, and Stan J. Sloan, CEO for The Family Equality Council. ''
The Washington Blade
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'' called it a "generous resource."
''We Make It Better''
In 2018, Rosswood partnered with Kathleen Archambeau to write ''We Make It Better: The LGBTQ Community and their Positive Contributions to Society''. The book is split into ten sections: activism, business, dance, film & television, government and military, music, religion, science, sports, and literature. It features biographies on many subjects, including
Oscar Wilde
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Bayard Rustin
Bayard Rustin (; March 17, 1912 – August 24, 1987) was an African American leader in social movements for civil rights, socialism, nonviolence, and gay rights.
Rustin worked with A. Philip Randolph on the March on Washington Movement, in 1 ...
Leonard Matlovich
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Tim Cook
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.
Kate Kendell
Kate Kendell (born Kathryn Dean Kendell, April 15, 1960) is the former Executive Director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), a national legal organization that fights for the civil and human rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and ...
, executive director of the
National Center for Lesbian Rights
The National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) is a non-profit, public interest law firm in the United States that advocates for equitable public policies affecting the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community, provides free legal ...
, stated, "This book is sure to empower the next generation of LGBTQ youth to find their passions and transform the world."
''Strong''
Rosswood collaborated with American strongman
Rob Kearney
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to write ''Strong'', a children's book that tells Kearney's life as a gay strength athlete who learned to embrace his authentic self. The book is illustrated by Nidhi Chanani. Rosswood said that a book like ''Strong'' was needed when there were few LGBTQ+ role models in
children's literature
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Children's ...
, especially in light of the recent "
don't say gay
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" bill in Florida. The book was released on May 10, 2022. At a book signing in
Pleasantville, New York
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, President
Bill Clinton
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happened to come into the bookshop during the event. He called Rosswood's work "inspiring", further stating stories like ''Strong'' could "change the world." ''Publishers Weekly'' ran a photo of the two photographed together with Rosswood holding his book. Rosswood stated:
Activism
In 1997, Rosswood started the first
Gay Straight Alliance
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While scant usage referring to male homosexuality dates to the late ...
(GSA) at
Orange Glen High School
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In the 2005- ...
in Escondido, California where he went to school.
Rosswood has been an activist for LGBTQ equality and equal rights. In addition to starting a GSA at his high school, he was also a chapter leader for Marriage Equality USA and helped with grassroots activism in the fight against
Prop 8
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, which took away marriage rights from same-sex couples.
He joined the board of San Francisco Pride in 2011 and stayed on for two years prior to stepping down before the birth of his son.
In 2017, when Heterosexual Pride Day was trending on Twitter, Rosswood tweeted the previously used phrase, "It's that time of year again when all the homophobic people complain about not having a #HeterosexualPrideDay and here's the annual response: "Gay Pride was not born of a need to celebrate being gay, but our right to exist without persecution. So instead of wondering why there isn't a
Straight Pride
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movement, be thankful you don't need one."" That same year, author Kathleen Archambeau included Rosswood in her book ''Pride & Joy: LGBTQ Artists, Icons and Everyday Heroes'' for the work he has done for the LGBT community.
In January 2019, after
Tulsi Gabbard
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announced she was running for the 2020 United States presidential election, Rosswood tweeted "Homophobic remarks from @TulsiGabbard resurface after announcing she’s running for president?
Thank U, Next
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!"
Rosswood is now a commentator on LGBTQ issues, including civil rights, parenting, marriage, and politics. He has led panels on LGBTQ parenting issues for organizations such as the Family Equality Council and the Modern Family Alliance.
Personal life
Rosswood and his husband, Mat, met at a salsa class in 2007. They were married at
Disneyland
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in 2011. They combined their last names (Ross and Wood) to the
portmanteau
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Chicago Tribune
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'', Rosswood stated he and his husband "encountered challenges not typically covered in basic parenting manuals" because they were same-sex parents. On January 8, 2019, the couple introduced their second child, a girl named Olivia Katherine.
Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood
''Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood'' is a nonfiction book by author and activist Eric Rosswood. The work focuses on adoption, foster care, assisted reproduction, surrogacy, and co-parenting advice for LGBT couples. The foreword is written by Melis ...
'' (2016)
* --- ''The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads'' (2017)
* --- (with Kathleen Archambeau) ''We Make It Better'' (2018)
* --- ''Strong'' (2022)