Esther Pauline "Eppie" Lederer (née Friedman; July 4, 1918 – June 22, 2002), better known by the
pen name
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A pen name may be used to make the author's na ...
Ann Landers, was an American
advice column
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The responses are w ...
ist and eventually a nationwide media celebrity. She began writing the "
Ask Ann Landers" column in 1955 and continued for 47 years, by which time its readership was 90 million people. A 1978 ''
World Almanac'' survey named her the most influential woman in the United States. She was the
identical twin
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sister of
Pauline Phillips
Pauline Esther Phillips (born Friedman; July 4, 1918 – January 16, 2013), also known as Abigail Van Buren, was an American advice columnist and radio show host who began the well-known Dear Abby, ''Dear Abby'' newspaper column in 1956. It beca ...
, who wrote the similarly popular "
Dear Abby
''Dear Abby'' is an American advice column founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips under the pen name "Abigail Van Buren" and carried on today by her daughter, Jeanne Phillips, who now owns the legal rights to the pen name.
History
According to Pau ...
" advice column as Abigail Van Buren.
Lederer was a profile-raiser for several medical charities, and in 1977 President
Jimmy Carter
James Earl Carter Jr. (October 1, 1924December 29, 2024) was an American politician and humanitarian who served as the 39th president of the United States from 1977 to 1981. A member of the Democratic Party (United States), Democratic Party ...
appointed her to a six-year term on a cancer advisory board.
Early life and relationship with sister Pauline
Born in
Sioux City, Iowa
Sioux City () is a city in Woodbury County, Iowa, Woodbury and Plymouth County, Iowa, Plymouth counties in the U.S. state of Iowa. The population was 85,797 in the 2020 United States Census, 2020 census, making it the List of cities in Iowa, fo ...
, Esther Pauline and her identical twin sister
Pauline Esther ("Popo", who was 17 minutes younger) were daughters of
Russian Jewish immigrants Rebecca Friedman (née Rushall) and Abraham B. Friedman. They grew up in Sioux City and attended its
Morningside College for three and a half years (1936–39), where they wrote a gossip column for the college's newspaper. Eppie majored in
journalism
Journalism is the production and distribution of reports on the interaction of events, facts, ideas, and people that are the "news of the day" and that informs society to at least some degree of accuracy. The word, a noun, applies to the journ ...
and
psychology
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.
During Lederer's career writing the Ann Landers column, her sister wrote a similar personal advice column, "
Dear Abby
''Dear Abby'' is an American advice column founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips under the pen name "Abigail Van Buren" and carried on today by her daughter, Jeanne Phillips, who now owns the legal rights to the pen name.
History
According to Pau ...
", under the name
Abigail Van Buren, which she initiated in San Francisco a few months after Eppie took over as Ann Landers in Chicago. As competing columnists they had a discordant relationship. They reconciled publicly in 1964, but acrimony between them persisted. In her July 8, 2017, "Dear Abby" column, Jeanne Phillips said her mother liked being a twin while her aunt wanted to be an individual, and this also caused conflict between them.
Marriage and family life
Eppie and Popo were married to their husbands in a double-wedding ceremony on July 2, 1939, two days before their 21st birthday. There were 750 guests, and hundreds more who stood outside to watch. Eppie was married to
Jules Lederer, who became a business executive; Popo married Morton Phillips of
Minneapolis
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.
Between 1945 and 1949, Lederer was chairwoman of the Minnesota-Wisconsin council of the
Anti Defamation League.
Eppie becomes Ann
Ruth Crowley, the creator of the ''
Chicago Sun-Times
The ''Chicago Sun-Times'' is a daily nonprofit newspaper published in Chicago, Illinois, United States. Since 2022, it is the flagship paper of Chicago Public Media, and has long held the second largest circulation among Chicago newspaper ...
'' "
Ask Ann Landers" column, died in 1955. During her nine years writing the column, intermittently from 1943, Crowley's identity had been kept secret. Lederer won a contest to take over the column later that year, and took on the identity. Long before the end of her 47 years as Ann Landers, she had become a North American media celebrity, having appeared on television
[ and traveled the continent to media and charity events. In her later years, Lederer began answering questions about ]homosexuality
Homosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or Human sexual activity, sexual behavior between people of the same sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality is "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexu ...
and other topics that had once been taboo in print. In a 1993 interview, she said she was happy for the dissolution of restrictions she had to work under in the 1950s.
She appeared on the March 18, 1956, episode of ''What's My Line?
''What's My Line?'' is a Panel show, panel game show that originally ran in the United States, between 1950 and 1967, on CBS, originally in black and white and later in color, with subsequent American revivals. The game uses celebrity panelists ...
'', signing in as Mrs. Jules Lederer.
From the early 1970s until her death, Lederer lived at 209 East Lake Shore Drive
Lake Shore Drive (officially Jean Baptiste Pointe du Sable Lake Shore Drive; also known as DuSable Lake Shore Drive, the Outer Drive, the Drive, LSD or DLSD) is a semi-limited access Limited-access highway, expressway that runs alongside the sh ...
, in a 5,500-square-foot upper level apartment.
Jules and Eppie divorced in 1975. In her column of July 1, 1975, Lederer wrote, "The sad, incredible fact is, that after 36 years of marriage, Jules and I are being divorced." She received 30,000 sympathetic letters in response.
Death
Lederer was in good health almost all her life. She was diagnosed with multiple myeloma
Multiple myeloma (MM), also known as plasma cell myeloma and simply myeloma, is a cancer of plasma cells, a type of white blood cell that normally produces antibody, antibodies. Often, no symptoms are noticed initially. As it progresses, bone ...
in January 2002 and died on June 22, two weeks before what would have been her 84th birthday, having refused any medical treatment for her condition. Her former husband had died on January 21, 1999.
Legacy
After Lederer's death, her longtime editors Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar started writing the ''Annie's Mailbox
Ann Landers was a pen name created by ''Chicago Sun-Times'' advice columnist Ruth Crowley in 1943 and taken over by Esther Pauline "Eppie" Lederer in 1955. For 56 years, the ''Ask Ann Landers'' syndicated advice column was a regular featu ...
'' column. Lederer's desk was purchased by Dan Savage
Daniel Keenan Savage (born October 7, 1964) is an American author, media pundit, journalist, and LGBTQ community activist. He writes Savage Love, an internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column. In 2010, Savage and his husband, ...
, author of the relationship-and-sex advice column '' Savage Love''.
In 2003, a collection of correspondence between Lederer and her daughter was published.
In 2006, David Rambo wrote a play about the life and work of Lederer as Ann Landers. The production was revived in 2008 at the Pasadena Playhouse in California, starring Mimi Kennedy.
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