Ellen Remsburg Peck (August 24, 1942 – March 15, 1995) was an American
feminist
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, writer, and
childfree
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activist.
Early life
Born Ellen Remsburg to C. M. and Genevieve Remsburg of
Normal, Illinois
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, Peck attended
University High School University High School may refer to:
Australia
* University High School, Melbourne, Victoria
Canada
* University Hill Secondary School, Vancouver, British Columbia
United States Arizona
* University High School (Tolleson)
* University High Sc ...
and graduated in 1960. A high achiever, she took leading roles in her school's political, acting and debate arenas.
Career
After finishing college, Peck became an eighth-grade English teacher at Pimlico Junior High School in
Baltimore, Maryland
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, where she was briefly known for wearing skirts so short they would not have been allowed on students. In 1969, however, she became rather more widely famous for writing a teenage girl's guide to romance, health, fashion, and beauty called, humorously, ''How to Get a Teen-Age Boy, and What to Do With Him When You Get Him'', a sort of ''
Sex and the Single Girl
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'' for teens. At the time the book was taken seriously, but later Ms. Peck claimed it was written merely as "humor" and it is usually missing from subsequent lists of her books. The book was quite popular, selling more than 50,000 copies in hard-cover, and during the 1970s she wrote an advice column for teen-agers, called "The Column," which appeared in ''
The Baltimore Sun
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'' and was nationally syndicated. She subsequently wrote another book providing contraceptive information and called ''Sex and Birth Control: a Guide for the Young'' (1973; rev. ed. 1981), with E. James Lieberman, M.D.
In 1971, she wrote ''The Baby Trap'' with
William Granzig, which became one of the first and most prominent books about the emerging
childfree
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movement. In 1972, Peck and Shirley Radl founded the
National Organization for Non-Parents (N.O.N.), an advocacy organization for men and women who choose not to have children. She later wrote several more books on parenthood and was, for a time, a rather prominent childfree advocate, even appearing on ''
The Tonight Show
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'' where she exchanged views with
Joe Namath
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.
Activism
In 1977, Peck became an associate of the
Women's Institute for Freedom of the Press
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(WIFP). WIFP is an American nonprofit publishing organization. The organization works to increase communication between women and connect the public with forms of women-based media.
Personal life
Ms. Peck was married in 1965 to William Peck, head of an advertising agency in Baltimore. She never had children and eventually divorced. She died of cancer on March 15, 1995, in New York.
''Baltimore Sun archives: March 26, 1995''. Retrieved 2010-06-3
Books
* ''How to Get a Teen-Age Boy, and What to Do With Him When You Get Him'', ()(1969).
* ''The Baby Trap'', ()(1971), with William Granzig
* ''Sex and Birth Control: a Guide for the Young'' (1973; rev. ed. 1981; Spanish tr.), with E. James Lieberman, M.D.
* ''Pronatalism: The Myth of Mom and Apple Pie'' ()(1974), an anthology of writings on pronatalism and its effects on society, co-edited by Judith Senderowitz
* ''A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to Equality'' ()(1975), with William Granzig
* ''The Joy of the Only Child'' ()(1977)
* ''The Parent Test: How to Measure and Develop Your Talent for Parenthood'' ()(1978), with William Granzig.
References
External links
*
''What's Your Guy-Q'' by Ellen Peck.
*
Cover art for "How to Get a Teen-Age Boy, and What to Do With Him When You Get Him"
''The Baby Trap''
archived e-book.
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1942 births
1995 deaths
American feminist writers
American women's rights activists