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Clarence Cary (March 18, 1845 – August 27, 1911) was an American lawyer who was prominent in New York society during the
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.


Early life

Clarence Cary was born in Fairfax County, Virginia on March 18, 1845,"Mrs. Constance Cary Harrison," in into a
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family. His parents were Archibald Cary and Monimia (
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Fairfax) Cary. His sister, the author Constance Cary, was married to
Burton Harrison Burton Norvell Harrison (July 14, 1838 – March 29, 1904), was a lawyer, American Democratic politician, and private secretary to Confederate States of America president Jefferson Davis. Harrison's support for the pro-slavery South countered ...
, the former private secretary for Confederate President
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. Through his sister, he was the uncle of
Fairfax Harrison Reginald Fairfax Harrison (March 13, 1869 – February 2, 1938) was an American lawyer, businessman, and author. A son of the secretary to Confederate President Jefferson Davis, Harrison studied law at Yale University and Columbia University ...
, who was a President of the Southern Railway Company, and
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, who served as a
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. The family lived at
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, where his father was editor of its leading newspaper, ''The Cumberland Civilian''. His paternal grandparents were Wilson Jefferson Cary and Virginia (née Randolph) Cary. His maternal grandparents were
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(who never assumed the English title) and Margaret (née Herbert) Fairfax, herself the granddaughter of John Carlyle and Sarah Fairfax. Cary was also the great-grandnephew of
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. Among his large and prominent family members was uncle
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of ''
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'', who married Anne Cary Randolph.Louise Pecquet du Bellet, ''Some Prominent Virginia Families'', p. 81,2
/ref> When Archibald died in 1854, his mother moved the family to his grandmother's plantation, known as
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in
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. Following the outbreak of the
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, Vaucluse was seized and torn down to construct
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as a part of the defenses of
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The family moved again to
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, staying there during the War.


Career

During the War, Cary served as a midshipman in the
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and reportedly, "did some very clever acting during the war on the amateur stage and on the naval war boards. In his sailor role he served on the blockade runner, ''
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'', on the '' Palmetto State''
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, off the Carolina coast and on the James River fleet, proving himself a good officer." After the war, he studied law and practiced in New York, founding the successful firm of Cary & Whitridge, where he was a trusted advisor to
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, the widow of Jefferson Davis. Following his brother-in-law
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's return to the United States after the Civil War, they practiced law together. Cary was a fan of Oriental culture and art, traveling for extended periods to the
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, setting up a committee with other businessmen known as the "Committee on American Interests in China." He was known for ridiculing Secretary of State
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by calling Sherman's reluctance to Chinese trade as "quaint and dangerous". He worked as the legal counsel for the
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, and helped found the American Asiatic Association in 1898.


Society life

In 1892, Cary and his wife were included in
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's "
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", purported to be an index of New York's best families, published in ''
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''. Conveniently, 400 was the number of people that could fit into Mrs. Astor's ballroom. He also translated several of the classic Latin poets, particularly
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.


Personal life

In 1878, Cary was married to Elisabeth Miller Potter (1856–1945), the daughter of
Howard Potter Howard Potter (July 8, 1826 – March 24, 1897) was an American industrialist, investment banker, diplomat and philanthropist, and a partner in Brown Bros. & Co. Early life Potter was born in Schenectady, New York on July 8, 1826. He was the ...
, a diplomat and investment banker with Brown Bros. & Co., and his wife, Mary Louisa (née Brown) Potter. Together, they were the parents of: * Guy Fairfax Cary (1879–1950), a lawyer with
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who married Cynthia Burke Roche (1884–1966), the widow of Arthur Scott Burden, in 1922. Cynthia was the daughter of
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and
Frances Ellen Work Frances Ellen Work (October 27 or 28, 1857 – January 26, 1947) was an American heiress and socialite. Early life Frances was born in New York City on October 27 or 28, 1857. She was a daughter of Franklin H. Work, a well-known stockbroker an ...
. * Howard Cary (1881–1906), a
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graduate who reportedly committed suicide at the age of 24. Cary died on August 27, 1911, in
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. He was buried in Ivy Hill Cemetery, Alexandria, Virginia.


Descendants

Through his son Guy, he was the grandfather of Guy Fairfax Cary II (1923–2004), who died unmarried, and Cynthia Cary (b. 1924), who married Charles Bingham Penrose Van Pelt (1922–2003) and had three children. She later married
Edwin F. Russell Edwin Fairman Russell (July 15, 1914 – December 22, 2001) was an American newspaper publisher who had joined the Royal Navy to fight Germany before the United States entered World War II. Early life Russell was born on July 15, 1914, in Elizabe ...
(1914–2001).


References


External links

*
1893 Portrait of Mrs. Clarence Cary
by
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at the
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