Edwin Throckmorton Thacher (29 April 1896 – 21 March 1966) (commonly known as Ebby Thacher or Ebby T.) was an old drinking friend and later the sponsor of
Alcoholics Anonymous co-founder
Bill Wilson. He is credited with introducing Wilson to the initial principles that AA would soon develop, such as "one
alcoholic
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talking to another," and the
Jungian
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thesis which was passed along to
Rowland Hazard and, in turn, to Thacher that alcoholics could recover by a "genuine conversion".
Alcoholism
Thacher was a school friend of Wilson, and battled his whole life with
alcoholism
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, frequently landing in
mental hospital
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s or jail. After one bender, three members of
The Oxford Group
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, Rowland Hazard, F. Shepard Cornell, and
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, convinced the court to
parole
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Thacher into their custody. Hazard taught Thacher the Oxford Group principles and the idea that a conversion was needed between patients. Hazard lodged him in the Calvary Rescue Mission, operated by the
Calvary Episcopal Church in
New York City
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.
Beginnings of AA
In November 1934, Thacher had arranged a visit to Wilson's apartment. Expecting to spend a day drinking and re-living old times, Wilson was instead shocked by Thacher's refusal to drink. "I've got religion," he reportedly said, to Wilson's surprise. Thacher told Wilson of his conversion at the Rescue Mission and acquainted Wilson with the teachings of Rowland Hazard about the Oxford Group life-changing program, as well as the prescription of Carl Jung for a conversion.
Wilson at first declined Thacher's invitation to
sobriety
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, and continued to drink in a more restrained way for a short while. After talking with
William D. Silkworth, however, he went to Calvary Rescue Mission and underwent a religious conversion; he was then admitted to the Charles B. Towns Hospital for Drug and Alcohol Addiction in
New York City
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on December 11, 1934. Thacher visited him there on December 14 and essentially helped Wilson take what would become Steps Three, Four, Five, Six, Seven, and Eight.
Later life
Wilson stayed sober and eventually formed Alcoholics Anonymous with
Bob Smith while Thacher soon returned to drinking.
Thacher was the Assistant Director of
High Watch Recovery Center
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History
High Watch Recovery Center ...
in
Kent, Connecticut
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in the summers of 1946 and 1947, during which time he remained sober. He returned to drinking after his tenure as Director.
Wilson always called Thacher his "sponsor," and even though he had returned to drinking, Wilson looked after his friend's welfare for the rest of his life. Thacher struggled on and off with sobriety over the years, and ultimately died sober in
Ballston Spa, New York
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from
emphysema
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in 1966. He is buried in his family plot at Albany Rural Cemetery in
Albany, New York
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.
Cinematic portrayals
Thacher was portrayed by
Gary Sinise
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in the TV movie ''
My Name Is Bill W.'' (1989), which dramatized the founding of AA.
See also
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Twelve-step program
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Twelve traditions
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Substance dependence
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References
External links
Edwin Throckmorton Thacher (Ebby)Dick B., Real Twelve Step Fellowship History; The Conversion of Bill W.1958 Speech by Ebby Thacher in Memphis, TN
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1896 births
1966 deaths
Alcoholics Anonymous
Deaths from emphysema