"Darling, I" is a song by American rapper and producer
Tyler, the Creator
Tyler Gregory Okonma (born March 6, 1991), known professionally as Tyler, the Creator, is an American rapper, singer, songwriter, and record producer. He has been cited as an influential figure in alternative hip-hop during the 2010s. Tyler beca ...
featuring fellow American rapper
Teezo Touchdown
Aaron Lashane Thomas (born October 31, 1992), known professionally as Teezo Touchdown, is an American rapper, singer, songwriter, and record producer. On September 8, 2023, released his debut studio album, '' How Do You Sleep at Night?'', and em ...
from the former's eighth studio album ''
Chromakopia
''Chromakopia'' is the eighth studio album by the American rapper Tyler, the Creator. It was released through Columbia Records on October 28, 2024, serving as the follow-up to ''Call Me If You Get Lost'' (2021). ''Chromakopia'' was written, pro ...
'' (2024). It contains samples of "
Vivrant Thing (Violator Remix)" by
Q-Tip
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featuring
Missy Elliott
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and
Busta Rhymes
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and "
Drop It Like It's Hot
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" by
Snoop Dogg
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featuring
Pharrell Williams
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.
Composition and lyrics
"Darling, I" is a hip-hop and
R&B song
with rhythm inspired by
The Neptunes
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and bouncy clicks in production.
Lyrically, it focuses on Tyler, the Creator's attitude toward his relationships and their future.
While still boasting about the uniqueness in each of his different luxury cars and romantic partners,
he also ponders about having a nuclear family at one point ("I love this girl, though, I hit the gold mine / I'm thinkin' new crib, I'm thinkin' two kids")
but feels as though he is not suited for
monogamy
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,
and laments the potential consequences of his preference for
polyamory
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: "Until I get infatuated with a new bitch / But when that gray hair finally come, at least I felt somethin' if I ain't find the one / Nobody could fulfill me like this music shit does / So I'll be lonely with these
Grammy
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s when it's all said and done."
Critical reception
Matt Mitchell of ''
Paste
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Science and technology
* Adhesive or paste
** Wallpaper paste
** Wheatpaste, a liquid adhesive made from vegetable starch and water
* Paste (rheology), a substance that behaves as ...
'' stated the song "goes from sweet to braggadocious".
Reviewing ''Chromakopia'' for ''
NME
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'', Fred Garratt-Stanley considered it a moment when Tyler, the Creator's "honesty is refreshing, and his lyrical dexterity gives these reflections humour and humanity".
Alexis Petridis
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of ''
The Guardian
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'' called the song "deceptively lovey-dovey" and commented it "manages to spin immaturity with convincing vulnerability." Alex Hudson of ''
Exclaim!
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'' noted the song has "surprising sentimental softness". David Crone of
AllMusic
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cited it as one of the tracks from the album which "sound a little like ''
Flower Boy
''Flower Boy'' (alternatively titled ''Scum Fuck Flower Boy'') is the fifth studio album by the American rapper and producer Tyler, the Creator, released on July 21, 2017, by Columbia Records. Produced entirely by Tyler, the album features guest ...
'' pastiches".
Aron A. of ''
HotNewHipHop
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'' praised the song for its "gorgeous vocal performance from Teezo Touchdown".
Charts
Certifications
References
{{Tyler, the Creator
2024 songs
Tyler, the Creator songs
Teezo Touchdown songs
Songs written by Tyler, the Creator
Songs written by Q-Tip (musician)
Songs written by Barry White
Works about polygamy