
Candaulism, or candaulesism, is a
paraphilic sexual practice or
fantasy
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in which one person exposes their partner, or images of their partner, to other people for their voyeuristic
pleasure
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. Candaulism is also associated with
voyeurism
Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of watching other people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions of a private nature.
The term comes from the French ''voir'' which means "to see". A ...
and
exhibitionism
Exhibitionism is the act of exposing in a public or semi-public context one's intimate parts – for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to grou ...
.
The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as wearing very brief clothing, such as a
microskirt,
tight-fitting or
see-through clothing, or a low-cut top.
History of the term
The term is derived from an account in ''
The Histories'' of
Herodotus
Herodotus ( ; grc, , }; BC) was an ancient Greek historian and geographer from the Greek city of Halicarnassus, part of the Persian Empire (now Bodrum, Turkey) and a later citizen of Thurii in modern Calabria ( Italy). He is known for ...
.
King
Candaules of ancient
Lydia
Lydia ( Lydian: 𐤮𐤱𐤠𐤭𐤣𐤠, ''Śfarda''; Aramaic: ''Lydia''; el, Λυδία, ''Lȳdíā''; tr, Lidya) was an Iron Age kingdom of western Asia Minor located generally east of ancient Ionia in the modern western Turkish provin ...
, according to the story, conceived a plot to show his unaware naked wife to his servant
Gyges Gyges can refer to:
* One of the Hecatoncheires from Greek mythology
* King Gyges of Lydia
* Ogyges
* Ring of Gyges
The Ring of Gyges ( grc, Γύγου Δακτύλιος, ''Gúgou Daktúlios'', ) is a hypothetical magic ring mentioned by the p ...
. After discovering Gyges while he was watching her naked, Candaules' wife ordered him to choose between killing himself or killing her husband in order to repair the vicious mischief.
The term was first used in psychology by
Richard von Krafft-Ebing
Richard Freiherr von Krafft-Ebing (full name Richard Fridolin Joseph Freiherr Krafft von Festenberg auf Frohnberg, genannt von Ebing; 14 August 1840 – 22 December 1902) was a German psychiatrist and author of the foundational work '' Psychopath ...
in his 1886 book ''
Psychopathia Sexualis''.
Psychology
Isidor Sadger hypothesized that the candaulist completely identifies with his partner's body, and deep in his mind is showing himself. Candaulism is also associated with
voyeurism
Voyeurism is the sexual interest in or practice of watching other people engaged in intimate behaviors, such as undressing, sexual activity, or other actions of a private nature.
The term comes from the French ''voir'' which means "to see". A ...
and
exhibitionism
Exhibitionism is the act of exposing in a public or semi-public context one's intimate parts – for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to grou ...
. An alternative definition proposes it as a practice involving one person observing, often from concealment, two others having sexual relations.
Historical instances
In the 1782 case of
Sir Richard Worsley against George Bissett for "
criminal conversation
At common law, criminal conversation, often abbreviated as ''crim. con.'', is a tort arising from adultery. "Conversation" is an old euphemism for sexual intercourse that is obsolete except as part of this term.
It is similar to breach of p ...
"—that is, adultery with
Lady Worsley—it was revealed that Sir Richard assisted Bissett to spy on Lady Worsley taking a bath.
The art collector and connoisseur
Charles Saatchi
Charles Saatchi (; ar, تشارلز ساعتجي; born 9 June 1943) is an Iraqi-British businessman and the co-founder, with his brother Maurice, of advertising agency Saatchi & Saatchi. The brothers led the business – the world's largest ...
has considered the influence of candaulism upon the work of
Salvador Dalí
Salvador Domingo Felipe Jacinto Dalí i Domènech, Marquess of Dalí of Púbol (; ; ; 11 May 190423 January 1989) was a Spanish surrealist artist renowned for his technical skill, precise draftsmanship, and the striking and bizarre images in ...
, citing episodes recorded by the artist's biographers in which Dalí's wife
Gala was displayed to other men.
Robert Hanssen
Robert Philip Hanssen (born April 18, 1944) is an American former Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) double agent who spied for Soviet and Russian intelligence services against the United States from 1979 to 2001. His espionage was described ...
was an American
FBI agent arrested in 2001 for spying for the
Soviet Union
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and the
Russian Federation
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North Asia or Northern Asia, also referred to as Siberia, is the northern region of Asia, which is defined in geographic ...
. It was disclosed that he had taken explicit photographs of his wife and sent them to a friend. Later Hanssen invited his friend to clandestinely observe Hanssen having sex with Hanssen's wife during the friend's occasional visits to the Hanssen household. Initially, his friend watched through a window from outside the house. Later, Hanssen appropriated video equipment from the FBI to set up
closed-circuit television to allow his friend to watch from his guest bedroom.
See also
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Amateur pornography
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Cuckold
A cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife; the wife of an adulterous husband is a cuckquean. In biology, a cuckold is a male who unwittingly invests parental effort in juveniles who are not genetically his offspring. A husband who is a ...
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Droit du seigneur
('right of the lord'), also known as ('right of the first night'), was a supposed legal right in medieval Europe, allowing feudal lords to have sexual relations with subordinate women, in particular, on the wedding nights of the women.
A ma ...
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Erotic humiliation
Erotic humiliation is consent (BDSM), consensual psychological humiliation performed in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This can be for either the person(s) being humiliated and demeaned or the person(s) humiliating, or bo ...
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Fan service
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Il merlo maschio
''Il merlo maschio'' (''The Male Blackbird''), known in the United Kingdom as ''The Naked Cello'' or ''Secret Fantasy'' in the United States, is an Italian film in the '' commedia sexy all'italiana'' style, and presents a theme of candaulism, t ...
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Indecent exposure
Indecent exposure is the deliberate public exposure by a person of a portion of their body in a manner contrary to local standards of appropriate behavior. Laws and social attitudes regarding indecent exposure vary significantly in different ...
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Troilism
Paraphilias are sexual interests in objects, situations, or individuals that are atypical. The American Psychiatric Association
The American Psychiatric Association (APA) is the main professional organization of psychiatrists and trainee ...
References
Bibliography
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Further reading
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American Psychiatric Association
The American Psychiatric Association (APA) is the main professional organization of psychiatrists and trainee psychiatrists in the United States, and the largest psychiatric organization in the world. It has more than 37,000 members are invol ...
, ''
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Text Revision IV'' (DSM-IV-TR).
* Barbara Foster, Michael Foster, Letha Hadady. ''Three in Love: Ménages à trois from Ancient to Modern Times''.
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Geoffrey Chaucer, ''
Canterbury Tales
''The Canterbury Tales'' ( enm, Tales of Caunterbury) is a collection of twenty-four stories that runs to over 17,000 lines written in Middle English by Geoffrey Chaucer between 1387 and 1400. It is widely regarded as Chaucer's ''magnum opus ...
'' (the Miller's Tale is a story that humorously examines the life of a cuckold).
A book by French Queen Maguerite de Valois*
Robertson Davies, ''
Fifth Business''
*
David J. Ley, ''Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them''. .
External links
King Candaules as told by historian Herodotus Archived fro
the originalon 2020-01-02.
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