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In popular culture, the Bro Code is a friendship
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to be followed among men or, more specifically, among members of the bro subculture. The term was invented and popularized by
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, a character from the television show ''
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''. Katherine Connor Martin, head of content creation at
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, recognized Stinson as "the quintessence of a certain iteration of the contemporary bro".


The notion


Early references

The notion of an unwritten set of rules that govern the relationship between straight male friends is present in modern American popular culture at least since 1991. In the ''
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'' episode " The Stranded", which aired on November 27 that year,
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says the following monologue, in one of his stand-up bits:


"Bros before hoes"

" Bros before hoes" (that is, "man friends before women") is a well-known, slang expression about how men should not abandon their male friends for women they are interested in. The "bros before hoes" expression is often regarded as the "golden rule" of male friendship, and it has been common slang at least since 2001. It was later used by ''
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'' character Michael Scott in " A Benihana Christmas" in 2006, and further popularized by the TV show character
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from ''
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''.


''The Bro Code''

Inspired by the notion of Bro Code that they developed in their sitcom, ''
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'' creators Carter Bays and Craig Thomas, and one of the show's writers, Matt Kuhn, wrote a book called ''The Bro Code''. Published by
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, the book covers 150 rules written in articles of what "bros" should or should not do. The book was penned by Barney Stinson and also credited with Kuhn, who also wrote the entries of Barney's blog, mentioned in the series. The book was first shown in the episode " The Goat". Greig Dymond of CBC.ca calls the book "a tongue-in-cheek guide to etiquette for horn-dog dudes." At the end of each episode, a vanity card is used to display a random rule from the Bro Code, similar to what is done on
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–produced shows. The Bro Code (As shown in ''The Bro Code: As seen on CBS's How I Met Your Mother''):
"When in the course of human events it becomes necessary for Bros to settle a dispute, decent respect to the opinions of the Bro-Kind requires that they should declare the clauses which impel them to argue, Though prudence says it's probably a chick. We hold these truths to be self evident."
-''Beginning of "The Bro Code"''


See also

* Bro culture *
Bromance A bromance is a very close and non-sexual relationship between two or more men. It is an exceptionally tight, affectional, homosocial male bonding relationship exceeding that of usual friendship, and is distinguished from normal friendship by ...
*
Gentlemen's agreement A gentlemen's agreement, or gentleman's agreement, is an informal and legally non-binding wikt:agreement, agreement between two or more parties. It is typically Oral contract, oral, but it may be written or simply understood as part of an unspok ...
*
Man Laws Man Laws (Men of the Square Table) are a series of beer commercials for Miller Lite, inspired by the supposed unwritten codes by which men live. The "Men of the Square Table" are a parody of King Arthur's Knights of the Round Table. The "Square Ta ...
* What happens on tour, stays on tour * Wingman (social)


References

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