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"Birthday Cake" is a song by Barbadian singer
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, from her sixth
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, '' Talk That Talk'' (2011). After it leaked onto the Internet, fans expressed interest in the track being included on ''Talk That Talk'', but it was later revealed that the 1:18 (one minute, 18 seconds) length that leaked was in fact the final cut and was not being considered for inclusion on the album. Due to a high level of fan interest, the song was included on the album as an interlude. The full length version, also known as the official remix of the track, featuring Rihanna's ex-boyfriend
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, premiered online on February 20, 2012, to coincide with Rihanna's 24th birthday. The song peaked in the top thirty on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100. The lyrics to "Birthday Cake" express the desire to have spontaneous sex.
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were divided on "Birthday Cake", with the majority both praising and criticising the song's sexual lyrical content. Several critics compared the song to the previous track on the album " Cockiness (Love It)", which also consists of sexually explicit lyrics. Upon the release of ''Talk That Talk'', the song debuted on the lower regions of the singles charts in South Korea, the United Kingdom, and the United States. It was
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Double Platinum in the US.


Background and development

"Birthday Cake" was written by
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,
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, Marcos Palacios, and Earnest Clark, with production helmed by Da Internz and The-Dream. The interlude was recorded in room 1306 of the Radisson Blu Royal Hotel in
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, Denmark. In an interview for The Boom Box, producer answered a question about fans being disappointed that "Birthday Cake" would not be featured on '' Talk That Talk'' (2011) after it leaked online before the album's November 2011 release; the producer explained that only an interlude had been produced, and that a full length version of the song would be released at some point during the ''Talk That Talk'' era, saying:


Composition and lyrics

"Birthday Cake" is an R&B interlude which lasts for one minute and 18 seconds, appearing as the sixth track on the album. The instrumentation of "Birthday Cake" consists of a heavy
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, schoolbells, engine sounds, claps, and electro beats. It also samples the song " Dominator" by Human Resource. The track also consists of hoover
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, synth handclaps, an Eastern-inspired tone and
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. In the song, Rihanna adopts a sensual tone in her vocals, as she chants the song's provocative and sexually explicit lyrics. A reviewer for Flavour described the singer's vocal performance in "Birthday Cake" as "sultry". Nathan S. of DJ Booth concurred that Rihanna sounds "sultry" as well as "playful" on the song. The lyrical content of the interlude is spare and largely revolves around Rihanna chanting, "cake cake cake cake cake cake." Aside from the repetitive chant of "cake", the interlude consists of multiple sexual metaphors. The lyric "I know you wanna bite this/ It's so enticing/ Nothing else like this, I'ma make you my bitch/ And it's not even my birthday/ But you wanna put your name on it" is a metaphor referring to a vagina. Rihanna sings about the desire to have spontaneous sex. Rihanna promises her lover that she will make him do whatever she pleases, singing "I'mma make you my bitch." T'Cha Dunlevy of ''
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'' described the lyric as a "promise", with Rihanna intending to act upon her desires. The interlude ends mid- verse and mid-lyric with a fade at 1:18. Katherine St. Asaph of Popdust described the fade as "ungraceful", as well as writing that it makes the track appear as though it is not finished. Upon the fade, Rihanna puts forward the line "Ooh, I wanna fuck you right now." Dunlevy and St. Asaph were critical of the final line, with the former labelling it as "blatant", and the latter noting that "cursing makes everything obvious."


Critical reception

"Birthday Cake" garnered mixed reviews from music critics. Jayson Lipshutz of ''
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'' praised the interlude, writing "We're all for birthday-themed naughtiness in pop music form, but only 78 seconds of 'Birthday Cake' is just not enough of a celebration!" Lipshutz continued to compare the song's lyrical message to
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's " Birthday Sex". Sam Lansky of MTV Buzzworthy was complimentary of "Birthday Cake", writing, "The only misstep on the album – not because it's not amazing (it is!), but because it's only 78 seconds long. 'Birthday Cake' is more decadent Rihanna filth, this time courtesy of sensual R&B-master The-Dream. Have any Rihanna Navy members made an hour-long mix yet? We need to keep the bump 'n' grind going all night." Pip Ellwood of Entertainment-Focus noted that "Birthday Cake", along with " Cockiness (Love It)", "leave you under no misunderstanding that Rihanna is as sexual as she's ever been throughout her career." Melissa Maerz of ''
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'' wrote that "Birthday Cake", along with "Cockiness (Love It)", were the most provocative songs on the album, describing them as "I-like-it-rough tracks", but criticized them for being album fillers designed to get the listener out of the bedroom and on to the dance floor. Mike Diver of
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disliked "Birthday Cake" as a "wholly pointless minute-something in the company of star producer The-Dream, wasted on the boring profanities of Birthday Cake." A reviewer for Flavour had a mixed reaction to the lyrical content, writing, "I can't exactly say it is a bad song. In fact, I will probably be singing it over the next few weeks. But at this point its like, 'we get it – you like sex.' Chill out about it and sing about education or something – your younger fans need more SUBSTANCE." icref name="Flavour"/> Nathan S. of DJ Booth noted that the song resembles a real life " quickie", continuing to write that the overtly sexual lyrics in the song earned ''Talk That Talk'' the Parental Advisory sticker. Randall Roberts of the ''
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'' commented that the lyrics on "Birthday Cake" "wouldn't seem out of place on Spinal Taps ' Smell the Glove'." Roberts continued to note that "Birthday Cake" appeared to be an afterthought, writing,


Chart performance

Upon the release of ''Talk That Talk'', "Birthday Cake" debuted on several world charts. The song entered the South Korea Gaon International Chart at number 67 on November 26, 2011, with sales of 6,661 digital downloads. In the United Kingdom, "Birthday Cake" debuted at number 172 on December 3, 2011. In the United States, the song charted at number 22 on the US
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chart, which represents the 25 songs which failed to chart on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100. On March 3, 2012, "Birthday Cake" made its first appearance on the US
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chart at number 62, following the release of the official remix featuring Brown, and has peaked at number 30. Due to strong airplay spins, the interlude of "Birthday Cake" peaked at number 4 on the
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chart. "Birthday Cake" was certified two-times platinum by the
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(RIAA), denoting shipments of over 2,000,000 units.


Live performance

Rihanna performed the song for the first time on May 5, 2012, on ''
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'', as part of a medley with " Talk That Talk". The performance started with the original interlude version "Birthday Cake" and featured Rihanna in an all black outfit with a giant spiders web as the backdrop behind her. After she performed a short section of the song, it transitioned into "Talk That Talk", where she performed her part of the song in full, without the rap vocal by
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. The remix of the song was included on her Diamonds World Tour as part of her first act in 2013. She performed it on the
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with a different beat in 2016 with included Rihanna rap in the song.


Track listing

*Album version # "Birthday Cake" – 1:18


Credits and personnel

;Recording *Recorded at Radisson Blu Royal Hotel, Room 1306, Copenhagen, Denmark. ;Personnel *Songwriting – Terius Nash, Robyn Fenty, Marcos Palacios, Earnest Clark *Production – Da Internz, The-Dream *Vocal engineering and recording – Kuk Harrell, Marcos Tovar *Assistant vocal recording – Jennifer Rosales *Mixing – Kevin "KD" Davis *Assistant mixing – Calvin Bailiff Credits adapted from the liner notes of ''Talk That Talk'',
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, SRP Records.


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Certifications


Remix featuring Chris Brown

"Birthday Cake" was remixed with vocals from American recording artist
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, and is a full length version of the interlude which was originally included on ''Talk That Talk''. It was sent to radio as the fourth US single from the album on March 6, 2012. At first, it was rumored that
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would feature on the remix version after Rihanna posted a message on
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saying that she wanted someone "Dirrrty" on the re-recording, a supposed reference to Aguilera's 2002 song " Dirrty". However, the singer later tweeted that she wanted a male vocalist, not a female vocalist, to accompany her on the remix via Twitter with a tweet reading 'No girls allowed on #CAKE'. It was later revealed that Brown was the featured artist on the full length version. Despite receiving negative attention regarding Rihanna's choice of collaborator from the media and fans alike, the singer defended her decision saying that it is simply music. The remix of "Birthday Cakes lyrics are similar to the interlude, but with new lyrics provided by Brown. The collaboration was met with a mixed response from music critics, many of whom were shocked at the fact that Rihanna and Brown had collaborated on a song together despite their relationship history, but cited the remix as an improvement upon the original interlude. The remix peaked at number 24 on the US ''Billboard'' Hot 100 chart, and number two on the R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart. American rappers
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and
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appeared on additional remixes of the song.


Background

Responding to requests from fans, Rihanna posted a message via her official
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account, promising that a full version of "Birthday Cake" was coming. Katherine St. Asaph of PopDust criticized the notion, writing "Honestly, at this point Rihanna and Def Jam would be better off just calling 'Birthday Cake' an interlude, not an incomplete version, because otherwise that's saying the album is released but essentially unfinished." Beck Bain of Idolator noted that the release of the full length song is "doubtful", writing "the song is already too dirty in its current minute-and-twenty-second version. But if ' S&M' could be a single, is ''anything'' too risque for the radio these days?" On February 15, 2012, Kosine of Da Internz, who produced the interlude, claimed that the featured collaborator will "shock the world," and that the full length version would premiere between February 16, and February 20, 2012.


Development

On February 16, 2012, it was speculated that former boyfriend
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was the featured artist on the full length version. Reports surfaced after the pair were photographed leaving Westlake Recording Studios in
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at separate times and Brown being invited to Rihanna's birthday party. Rumors were also fueled when Rihanna and Brown spent time together at the 2012 Grammy Awards on February 8, 2012. The reports gained worldwide media controversy, because Brown and Rihanna were involved in a physical altercation on the evening of the 2009 Grammy Awards. The full length version, eventually revealed to feature Brown, was released on Rihanna's birthday, February 20, 2012. In an interview with ''
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'', The-Dream stated that he believed Rihanna and Brown's past together should not be judged and that "Birthday Cake" is simply a song, saying, "For me, it's just music - two talented people doing a record together, doing two records together, and that's what it was. It wasn't about an incident that happened. The true thing really is to forgive, and you want to believe in people." "Birthday Cake" impacted US Urban contemporary radio on March 6, 2012, serving as the fourth U.S. single from ''Talk That Talk''. On March 15, 2012, Rihanna explained her collaboration with Brown on "Birthday Cake" and the remix of his song " Turn Up the Music" to
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during his morning show: "The first song that came about was 'Birthday Cake'. I mean, we ended up recording them at the same time and executing them together. But I reached out to him about doing 'Birthday Cake' because that’s the only person that, really, it made sense to do the record. Just as a musician, despite everything else, that was going to be the person. You know I thought about rappers, and I've done that so many times, and the hottest R&B artist out right now is Chris Brown. So I wanted him on the track, and then in turn he was like, 'Why don't you do the remix to my track?' and it was a trade-off. We did two records. One for my fans, one for his fans, and that way our fans can come together. There shouldn’t be a divide. You know? It's music, and it's innocent." In March 2012, American rapper
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released his own verse to the "Birthday Cake" remix. The following month, another version featuring Fabolous premiered online.


Composition

Brown's verse begins with the lyric "Girl, I wanna fuck you right now," which is the antithesis of how Rihanna concludes the original interlude, singing "Ooh, I wanna fuck you right now." Brown's verse continues with "Been a long time I've been missing your body/ Turn the lights down/ When I go down it's a private party." Brown delivers his vocals in an aggressive and manipulative manner as he sings "Give it to her in the worst way, can't wait to blow her candles out." At the end of the song, Rihanna performs new lyrics which were not included on the original 1 minute and 18 second interlude; "Remember how you did it/ If you still wanna kiss it/ Then come and get it." According to Ben Rayner of the ''
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'', the instrumentation of "Birthday Cake" consists of "snaky, slurpy, bass-droppin' beats." The song's lyrics revolve around sadomasochistic sexuality and dominance over men, and consists mainly of
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metaphors, including the lyric "Doggy want the kitty."


Critical reception

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'' wrote that the remix came as a shock, because of how Brown "beat her virtually senseless in a car three years ago just before the Grammys", and noted that Rihanna would face harsh criticism from journalists and fans alike for not setting a good example to younger girls. Hardie continued to state that although the collaboration came as a surprise, "We have to admit, it's a pretty amazing stroke of genius in terms of publicity and messing with people’s minds." Regarding the collaboration on the remix Jo Usmar from ''Daily Mirror'' compared the collaboration to the physical altercation between Rihanna and Brown at the 2009 Grammy Awards, writing "In case you've been living in a cave for the last two years this is extraordinarily controversial as Brown was convicted of assaulting Rihanna in 2009 and there was a restraining order issued against him." Ben Rayner for the ''Toronto Sun'' was critical of the remix and the original interlude, writing that "What was empty, unfinished titillation before, then, has become empty, overstated, boardroom-written pseudo-pornography for the pop charts." Jon Caramanica for ''
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'' commented that the remix of "Birthday Cake", as well as the original, was "very much so" a good song. However, Caramanica was critical of the collaboration itself, due to Rihanna and Brown's history, writing "You want to forget? Fine. But don't forgive." Caramanica continued to explain his distaste, writing "It displays an advanced understanding of marketing and an understanding of moral obligations and ethics that's not much more than rudimentary. It is a woman publicly accepting her abuser - nothing more, nothing less." J. Bryan Lowder for ''
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'' labelled the song as "innuendo-iced" with regard to the song's explicit lyrics. Lowder provided an explanation for what he thought the reason was behind Rihanna asking Brown to collaborate on "Birthday Cake", writing:


Live performance

Rihanna performed "Birthday Cake" Remix at Radio 1's Hackney Weekend on May 24, 2012, as the fifth song on the set list. She performed the remix in its entirety, and sang Brown's lyrics. The song was later included on her Diamonds World Tour in 2013 during the first act.


Chart performance

The remix version of "Birthday Cake" debuted at number 20 on the US ''
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'' R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart on chart issue dated March 10, 2012, and received both the Airplay and Greatest Gainer honors. The following week, it ascended to number 17. In its third week on the chart, the song ascended to number seven, and received the Airplay Gainer honor. The song ascended to number four the following week, and was awarded with the Airplay Gainer honor again. It has so far reached a peak of number two. It debuted at number 63 on the US ''Billboard''
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on the chart issue dated March 10, 2012. In its fourth week on the chart, the song climbed to number 39 and became the fourth top forty single from ''Talk That Talk''. "Birthday Cake (Remix)" has reached a peaked of number 24. The remix of "Birthday Cake" debuted at number 73 on the Radio Songs chart, generating a 372% increase in spins, on the chart issue dated March 10, 2012. It reached a peak of number 16.


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