Barnaby Kemp Graham Miln (born 6 August 1947) is a British social activist and former
magistrate
The term magistrate is used in a variety of systems of governments and laws to refer to a civilian officer who administers the law. In ancient Rome, a '' magistratus'' was one of the highest ranking government officers, and possessed both judi ...
. He was the first lay person to
come out
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This is often framed and debated as a privacy issue, ...
as gay in the
General Synod of the Church of England
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and thereby the most publicly gay magistrate in England and Wales.
Family background
The Miln family originates from
Barry Mill
Barry Mill is a working listed building, Category A listed watermill in Barry, Angus, Barry, Angus, Scotland, Angus in eastern Scotland. It is owned and operated by the National Trust for Scotland as an educational tourist attraction. Situated i ...
, since 1988 the property of the
National Trust for Scotland
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, in
Barry Barry may refer to:
People and fictional characters
* Barry (name), including lists of people with the given name, nickname or surname, as well as fictional characters with the given name
* Dancing Barry, stage name of Barry Richards (born c. 195 ...
, a village near
Carnoustie
Carnoustie (; ) is a town and former police burgh in the subdivisions of Scotland, council area of Angus, Scotland. It is at the mouth of the Barry Burn on the North Sea coast. In the UK census 2011, 2011 census, Carnoustie had a population of ...
in
Angus
Angus may refer to:
*Angus, Scotland, a council area of Scotland, and formerly a province, sheriffdom, county and district of Scotland
* Angus, Canada, a community in Essa, Ontario
Animals
* Angus cattle, various breeds of beef cattle
Media
* ...
in
Scotland
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. The Miln genealogy back to 1614 is recorded in
Burke's Landed Gentry
''Burke's Landed Gentry'' (originally titled ''Burke's Commoners'') is a reference work listing families in Great Britain and Ireland who have owned rural estates of some size. The work has been in existence from the first half of the 19th cen ...
. Barnaby Miln's coat of arms was granted and matriculated at the
Court of the Lord Lyon
The Court of the Lord Lyon, or Lyon Court, is a standing court of law, based in New Register House in Edinburgh, which regulates heraldry in Scotland. The Lyon Court maintains the register of grants of arms, known as the Public Register of All ...
King of Arms on 8 August 1967, and re-matriculated on 12 October 1998, after the death of his father, Captain William Wallace Graham Miln (1919 - 1994) 1st Battalion, The Black Watch (Royal Highland Regiment) 1939–1946.
Early life and education
Miln was educated at
Mostyn House School
Mostyn House School was a school that was originally opened in Tarvin by Edward Henry Price, and moved to Parkgate, Cheshire, in 1855. From 1862 until it closed in 2010, it was run by the Grenfell family, originally as a boys' boarding school, a ...
, once a prestigious preparatory boarding school for 160 boys from 8 to 13 years, in
Parkgate on the
Wirral Peninsula
The Wirral Peninsula (), known locally as the Wirral, is a peninsula in North West England. The roughly rectangular peninsula is about long and wide, and is bounded by the Dee Estuary to the west, the Mersey Estuary to the east, and Liverpo ...
in
Cheshire
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, where his end of term reports show that he was happy, an all-rounder and clever. This was followed by
Loretto School
Loretto School, founded in 1827, is an independent school (UK), independent boarding and day school for boys and girls aged 3 to 18. The campus occupies in Musselburgh, East Lothian, Scotland.
History
The school was founded by the Reverend Th ...
,
Musselburgh
Musselburgh (; ; ) is the largest settlement in East Lothian, Scotland, on the coast of the Firth of Forth, east of Edinburgh city centre. It had a population of as of .
History
The name Musselburgh is Old English language, Old English in ...
, close to
Edinburgh
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, the smallest of the great public schools with 240 boys with a reputation for being spartan, sporty and very strict. After a year as farm student with Tommy Dale, of
Scoughall
Auldhame and Scoughall are hamlets in East Lothian, Scotland. They are close to the town of North Berwick and the village of Whitekirk, and are approximately east of Edinburgh.
Saint Baldred's legacy
It is said that the 8th-century Christia ...
in
East Lothian
East Lothian (; ; ) is one of the 32 council areas of Scotland, as well as a Counties of Scotland, historic county, registration county and Lieutenancy areas of Scotland, lieutenancy area. The county was called Haddingtonshire until 1921.
In ...
, he was the third generation of his family to be a graduate of the
Edinburgh School of Agriculture. He was elected a member of the
Edinburgh University
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students' representative council and was present and on duty when
the rector,
Malcolm Muggeridge
Thomas Malcolm Muggeridge (24 March 1903 – 14 November 1990) was a conservative British journalist and satirist. His father, H. T. Muggeridge, was a socialist politician and one of the early Labour Party Members of Parliament (for Romford, i ...
, used a sermon at
St. Giles' Cathedral
St Giles' Cathedral (), or the High Kirk of Edinburgh, is a parish church of the Church of Scotland in the Old Town of Edinburgh. The current building was begun in the 14th century and extended until the early 16th century; significant alteratio ...
in January 1968, to resign his post in protest against the council's liberal views on "pot and pills."
Seedsman and plant breeder
His father, grandfather and great-grandfather were each in their time managing director of the largest agricultural
plant breeding
Plant breeding is the science of changing the traits of plants in order to produce desired characteristics. It is used to improve the quality of plant products for use by humans and animals. The goals of plant breeding are to produce crop varie ...
and
seed company
Seed companies produce and sell seeds for flowers, Fruit, fruits and vegetables to commercial growers and amateur gardener, gardeners. The production of seed is a multibillion-dollar global business, which uses growing facilities and growing loca ...
in the United Kingdom,
Gartons Agricultural Plant Breeders
Dr John Garton, of the firm of Garton Brothers of Newton-le-Willows in the United Kingdom was the Originator of Scientific Farm Plant Breeding. He is credited as the first scientist to show that the common grain crops and many other plants are s ...
plc. Barnaby Miln was the elder son of the fourth generation and went on to professional seed and plant breeding training firstly with the family firm, then in
Minneapolis
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, USA, with
Northrup-King
Northrup-King Seed Company was founded in Minneapolis, Minnesota in 1896, and was based there until it was acquired and moved to Golden Valley, Minnesota in 1986. It is now a division of Syngenta.
Company history
Northrup, King and Co. was founde ...
& Co, at the time the world's largest seed company, and at the
National Institute of Agricultural Botany
The National Institute of Agricultural Botany (NIAB) is a plant science research company based in Cambridge, United Kingdom, UK.
NIAB group
The NIAB group consists of:
* NIAB
* East Malling Research Station, NIAB EMR – a horticultural an ...
, Cambridge. Just as he was a fully qualified seedsman and plant breeder the family business was taken over.
Whilst with Gartons plc he was a co-breeder and responsible for the final selection of the first
wheat
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variety to apply for, in 1965, and be granted
Plant breeders' rights
Plant breeders' rights (PBR), also known as plant variety rights (PVR), are rights granted in certain places to the breeder of a new variety of plant that give the breeder exclusive control over the propagating material (including seed, cuttin ...
in the United Kingdom, Gartons Apex Wheat.
Whilst with Northrup-King & Co he originated their
sugar beet
A sugar beet is a plant whose root contains a high concentration of sucrose and that is grown commercially for sugar production. In plant breeding, it is known as the Altissima cultivar group of the common beet (''Beta vulgaris''). Together with ...
breeding programme, managed their
turf grass
Sod is the upper layer of turf that is harvested for transplanting. Turf consists of a variable thickness of a soil medium that supports a community of turfgrasses.
In British English, British and Australian English, sod is more commonly kn ...
trials ground, and studied seed vigour at their Minneapolis and
Eden Prairie
Eden Prairie is a city in Hennepin County, Minnesota, United States. It had a population of 64,198 at the 2020 census, making it the 16th-largest city in Minnesota. The city is adjacent to the north bank of the Minnesota River, upstream from ...
seed agronomy research centres.
In 1973 he set up his own agricultural seed company in
Herefordshire
Herefordshire ( ) is a Ceremonial counties of England, ceremonial county in the West Midlands (region), West Midlands of England, bordered by Shropshire to the north, Worcestershire to the east, Gloucestershire to the south-east, and the Welsh ...
, UK, Milns of Bodenham Limited, later adding two garden centres and a turf grass research facility - where he invented the patented process of seed lamination in 1980. Years later, working near Edinburgh, he developed the process and won the ''
Scotland on Sunday
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''/
KPMG
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Award for Innovation in October 1995. In January 1996 he was the Scotland on Sunday/KPMG Scotland's Innovator of Promise.
Christian Aid
Working as
Christian Aid
Christian Aid is a relief and development charity of 41 Christian (Protestant and Orthodox) churches in Great Britain and Ireland, and works to support sustainable development, eradicate poverty, support civil society and provide disaster rel ...
's horticultural consultant he devised their show garden in 1997 which won a
Royal Horticultural Society
The Royal Horticultural Society (RHS), founded in 1804 as the Horticultural Society of London, is the UK's leading gardening charity.
The RHS promotes horticulture through its five gardens at Wisley (Surrey), Hyde Hall (Essex), Harlow Carr ...
's Silver Gilt Medal (Flora range), the highest medal awarded at that show. The planting theme was
Robert Fortune
Robert Fortune (16 September 1812 – 13 April 1880) was a Scottish botanist, plant hunter and traveller, best known for introducing around 250 new ornamental plants, mainly from China, but also Japan, into the gardens of Britain, Australia, an ...
, the plant hunter, who had introduced the
tea plant
''Camellia sinensis'' is a species of evergreen shrub or small tree in the flowering plant family Theaceae. Its leaves, leaf buds, and stems can be used to produce tea. Common names include tea plant, tea shrub, and tea tree (unrelated to '' M ...
from China to India. Fairtrade and especially Clipper
Fairtrade
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tea from
Beaminster
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was featured. A number of television programmes highlighted the show garden including a
BBC
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Songs of Praise
''Songs of Praise'' is a BBC Television religious programme that presents Christian hymns, worship songs and inspirational performances in churches of varying denominations from around the UK alongside interviews and stories reflecting how Ch ...
with
The Princess Royal
Princess Royal is a title customarily (but not automatically) awarded by British monarchs to their eldest daughters. Although purely honorary, it is the highest honour that may be given to a female member of the royal family. There have been ...
being shown the plants by Barnaby Miln.
Fairtrade Fortnight
As a
Christian Aid
Christian Aid is a relief and development charity of 41 Christian (Protestant and Orthodox) churches in Great Britain and Ireland, and works to support sustainable development, eradicate poverty, support civil society and provide disaster rel ...
consultant Barnaby Miln set up the first
Fairtrade fortnight. This was held initially throughout Scotland. It was launched in
Edinburgh
Edinburgh is the capital city of Scotland and one of its 32 Council areas of Scotland, council areas. The city is located in southeast Scotland and is bounded to the north by the Firth of Forth and to the south by the Pentland Hills. Edinburgh ...
by
Lady Marion Fraser
Lady Marion Anne Fraser (née Forbes; 17 October 1932 – 25 December 2016) was a Scottish music educator.
Personal life
Fraser was the daughter of Elizabeth Taylor Watt and Robert Forbes. She attended school in Glasgow at Hutchesons' Girls' G ...
LT on 12 February 1997 and held from 1 to 14 March 1997 when supporters of development charities like Christian Aid and
Oxfam
Oxfam is a British-founded confederation of 21 independent non-governmental organizations (NGOs), focusing on the alleviation of global poverty, founded in 1942 and led by Oxfam International. It began as the Oxford Committee for Famine Relief ...
demanded their local supermarket stock fairtrade products. Later that year he spearheaded the fairtrade exhibition at the
Commonwealth Conference in Edinburgh.
Plant varieties and family historian

Miln is a descendant of
Robert Fortune
Robert Fortune (16 September 1812 – 13 April 1880) was a Scottish botanist, plant hunter and traveller, best known for introducing around 250 new ornamental plants, mainly from China, but also Japan, into the gardens of Britain, Australia, an ...
, and as a plant variety historian, he has researched the more than two hundred garden plants he introduced to the United Kingdom from China. He has also researched the almost two hundred varieties of new crop plants bred and introduced to United Kingdom agriculture by his family's business,
Gartons Agricultural Plant Breeders
Dr John Garton, of the firm of Garton Brothers of Newton-le-Willows in the United Kingdom was the Originator of Scientific Farm Plant Breeding. He is credited as the first scientist to show that the common grain crops and many other plants are s ...
plc.
Elderly care
For ten years starting in 1981, Miln and his
life partner
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created and built up
Hereford
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's first residential care home for the elderly. The care home initially housed four people, but eventually rose to twenty four residents.
After this time, Miln was then
Bursar
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of the
City of Westminster
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's residential care homes for the elderly.
Career as a magistrate
Whilst still in his late twenties but already a local councillor and
churchwarden
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his name was submitted to be a
Justice of the Peace. For thirteen years he sat on the City of Hereford magistrates' bench and then for three years the
City of London
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bench.
Chairing a court in 1985 he had dealt with a case involving a burglar he sent to prison who responded by saying that as he had
AIDS
The HIV, human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) is a retrovirus that attacks the immune system. Without treatment, it can lead to a spectrum of conditions including acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS). It is a Preventive healthcare, pr ...
, an illness then almost unknown in Hereford, he was being given a death sentence "I know I could be dead within 18 months to two years and that is the worst punishment I could ever have."
In 1992 he became a
Freeman of the City of London
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but not long afterwards Miln stepped down from the bench.
Church of England
Barnaby Miln chaired the steering group during the building of a new church, St Barnabas, Hereford, and chaired its committee from its dedication by the
Bishop of Hereford
The Bishop of Hereford is the Ordinary (officer), ordinary of the Church of England Diocese of Hereford in the Province of Canterbury. Until 1534, the Diocese of Hereford was in full communion with the Roman Catholic Church and two of its bishop ...
on 9 December 1981 and its consecration on 16 July 1982 by the Bishop of Hereford in the presence of
The Princess Margaret, Countess of Snowdon
Princess Margaret, Countess of Snowdon (Margaret Rose; 21 August 1930 – 9 February 2002) was the younger daughter of King George VI and Queen Elizabeth The Queen Mother. She was the younger sister and only sibling of Queen Elizabeth II.
M ...
.
He was a governor of the
Bishop of Hereford's Bluecoat School
The Bishop of Hereford's Bluecoat School (BHBS) is a mixed comprehensive secondary school in the Tupsley district of Hereford, England. It is a voluntary aided school, which takes children from the age of 11 through to the age of 16. It is a Ch ...
, Hereford, between 1983 and 1989 and was present in
Hereford Cathedral
Hereford Cathedral, formally the , is a Church of England cathedral in Hereford, England. It is the seat of the bishop of Hereford and the principal church of the diocese of Hereford. The cathedral is a grade I listed building.
A place of wors ...
when it joined the
List of Woodard Schools
Woodard Schools is a group of Anglicanism, Anglican schools (both primary and secondary) affiliated to the Woodard Corporation (formerly the Society of St Nicolas) which has its origin in the work of Nathaniel Woodard, a Church of England priest i ...
.
In 1985 he was elected for five years to the
General Synod of the Church of England
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after several years as chairman of the
Diocese of Hereford
The Diocese of Hereford is a Church of England diocese based in Hereford, covering Herefordshire, southern Shropshire and a few parishes within Worcestershire in England, and a few parishes within Powys and Monmouthshire in Wales. The cathedral i ...
's revenue committee and honorary treasurer of the diocese, founded in AD 676.
Christian Action on AIDS

Shortly after the court case of the man with AIDS, Miln was in London attending his first group of sessions of the General Synod. He introduced himself to
Robert Runcie
Robert Alexander Kennedy Runcie, Baron Runcie, (2 October 1921 – 11 July 2000) was an English Anglican bishop. He was the Archbishop of Canterbury from 1980 to 1991, having previously been Bishop of St Albans. He travelled the world widely ...
,
Archbishop of Canterbury
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, and asked what the church was doing about AIDS. The Archbishop had just returned from San Francisco and seen for himself the devastation caused to the gay community there. They agreed to work together with the Archbishop hoping that "AIDS would not be like cancer - a word only whispered, for by the church talking opening and honestly about AIDS we can take a lead in pastoral care and education".
Conferences were held in the spring of 1986 in California and London when the
rainbow AIDS Awareness ribbon
Awareness ribbons are symbols meant to show support or consciousness raising, raise consciousness for a cause. Different colors and patterns are associated with different issues.
Awareness ribbons can be worn on clothing like pins, they can be ...
was first distributed and became the international symbol of support for people with AIDS for the next five years. A charity, Christian Action on AIDS, was set up on 14 July 1986, supported by church leaders and with Canon
John Bowker, Dean of
Trinity College, Cambridge
Trinity College is a Colleges of the University of Cambridge, constituent college of the University of Cambridge. Founded in 1546 by King Henry VIII, Trinity is one of the largest Cambridge colleges, with the largest financial endowment of any ...
, as its president and Barnaby Miln as its chairman.
Christian Action on AIDS was responsible for the working papers on AIDS for
the 1988 Lambeth Conference. Once the three-week-long Conference was under way the Archbishop of Canterbury asked Miln to gather support for a last-minute resolution on homosexuality 'to hold the position reached in 1978' in the name of the Bishop of New York,
Paul Moore. Resolution 64 called on all bishops of the
Anglican Communion
The Anglican Communion is a Christian Full communion, communion consisting of the Church of England and other autocephalous national and regional churches in full communion. The archbishop of Canterbury in England acts as a focus of unity, ...
to undertake in the next decade a 'deep and dispassionate study of the question of homosexuality'. This was cited in his Preface by the next Archbishop, Dr George Carey, as a reason for the publication in December 1991 of a Statement by the House of Bishops of the General Synod of the Church of England, Issues in Human Sexuality. Whilst continuing to forbid gay sex for the clergy it gave a permission for laity.
For five years Barnaby Miln travelled extensively speaking to church leaders at the
British Council of Churches
Churches Together in Britain and Ireland (CTBI) is an ecumenical organisation. The members include most of the major churches in England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland. CTBI is registered at Companies House with number 05661787. Its office is in Ce ...
, throughout the worldwide Anglican Communion,
Pope John Paul II
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In his you ...
in Rome and at the
World Council of Churches
The World Council of Churches (WCC) is a worldwide Christian inter-church organization founded in 1948 to work for the cause of ecumenism. Its full members today include the Assyrian Church of the East, most jurisdictions of the Eastern Orthodo ...
in Geneva and Canberra. In her book God & Mrs Thatcher, Eliza Filby describes Miln as the leading Anglican spokesperson on AIDS.
World AIDS Day
In his powerful speech in a major debate on AIDS in the
General Synod of the Church of England
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on 10 November 1987 he proposed a day each year to remember people with AIDS. In response the Bishop of Gloucester,
Rt Rev. John Yates, who was chair of the Synod's Board for Social Responsibility, doubted if anywhere but the United States was yet ready for a special day. But Dr
Jonathan Mann at the
World Health Organization
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was a member of the archiepiscopal working party on AIDS for the Lambeth Conference chaired by Barnaby Miln. He was aware of Barnaby Miln's proposal. This planted the seed for Mann and his colleagues, James W. Bunn and Thomas Netter, to set up what became
World AIDS Day
World AIDS Day, designated on 1 December every year since 1988, is an international day dedicated to raising awareness of the AIDS pandemic caused by the spread of HIV infection and mourning those who have died of the disease. The acquired immu ...
, held on 1 December each year since 1988. The Bishop of Gloucester and Miln were invited to the inaugural one in Geneva.
Family
Miln married Elizabeth née Barber at
St Matthew's Church, Stretton
St Matthew's Church is in the village of Stretton, Cheshire, England. The church is recorded in the National Heritage List for England as a designated Grade II listed building. It is an active Anglican parish church in the diocese of Che ...
in August 1971. Rosalie was born in March 1974. and Graham in September 1978. The marriage ended in divorce. Miln's mother, Norah Kathleen (1918-2012) was the younger daughter of the Reverend Hugh Douglas Swan (1881-1981)
Church of Scotland
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minister of the ‘Muckle’ Kirk of
Peterhead
Peterhead (; , ) is a town in Aberdeenshire, Scotland. It is the council area's largest settlement, with a population of 19,060 at the 2022 Census for Scotland, 2022 Census. It is the largest fishing port in the United Kingdom for total landi ...
in
Aberdeenshire
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It takes its name from the Shires of Scotland, historic county of Aberdeenshire (historic), Aberdeenshire, which had substantial ...
between 1915 and 1951. During World War II she served in the
Women's Auxiliary Air Force
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at
Chicksands Priory
Chicksands Priory is a former monastic house at Chicksands in Bedfordshire.
History
The Gilbertine priory of Chicksands was founded about 1152 by Rohese, Countess of Essex, and her second husband Payn de Beauchamp, Baron of Bedford. Payn ...
and
Bletchley Park
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. Her maternal grandfather was James Farmer Brown, (1855-1929) who was honorary superintendent of the Edinburgh Sabbath Free Breakfast and People's Palace Mission from 1874 for more than fifty years. His four-sided pedestal memorial clock was placed in the Cowgate Nursery School Playground in the Cowgate, Edinburgh, in November 1928 and moved in 2008 to the lower level of Tron Square, Edinburgh, following the redevelopment of the Cowgate Nursery School.
Gay relationships
Throughout his five years on General Synod, Miln worked with the Reverend Richard Kirker, an openly gay deacon who had been refused priesthood by Dr Robert Runcie and who had, with others, set up the Gay Christian Movement, later the
Lesbian and Gay Christian Movement
OneBodyOneFaith, formerly the Lesbian and Gay Christian Movement (LGCM), describes itself as "UK-based international Charity which challenges homophobia and transphobia, especially within the Church and faith based organisations".
History
The Gay ...
, and became its general secretary.
In 1986 Miln met
Derek Pattinson
Sir William Derek Pattinson (31 March 1930 – 10 October 2006) was secretary-general of the General Synod of the Church of England from 1972 until 1990.
Early life
Pattinson was born at Barrow-in-Furness, the only child of civil servant Tho ...
, then secretary-general of the
General Synod of the Church of England
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and chairman of the executive committee of
SPCK, formerly the Society for the Promotion of Christian Knowledge. They lived together for some years in a Church-owned flat in Westminster.
[The Independent newspaper, London, Friday 4 December 1992 ] The then
Bishop of London
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The diocese covers of 17 boroughs o ...
,
David Hope, Baron Hope of Thornes
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, said he assumed "their domestic arrangements were satisfactory and wholesome".
Pattinson travelled as part of his work, and took Miln with him on a trip to South Africa in 1990; questions surrounding the propriety of this caused press attention.
Pattinson was knighted in 2000 and ordained in 2001, becoming the Reverend Sir Derek Pattinson. Pattinson died in 2006 and ''The Times'' obituary stated that he was survived by Barnaby Miln. The ''
Church Times
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History
The ''Church Times'' was founded on 7 February 1863 by George Josiah Palmer, a printer. It fought for the ...
'' acknowledged Miln as the chief mourner at the
Westminster Abbey
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burial.
Andrew Brown of ''the Independent'' reported that Miln had an affair with a man named David O'Reilly. O'Reilly introduced Miln to drugs, and soon Miln was a heavy user. O'Reilly died after an altercation with a drug dealer in London's King's Cross while buying cocaine as a forty-fifth birthday present for Miln. Miln believed it was murder, but the
Crown Prosecution Service
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The main responsibilities of the CPS are to provide legal adv ...
declined to bring a case.
Coming out as gay
The General Synod of the Church of England in November 1987 also debated
homosexuality
Homosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or Human sexual activity, sexual behavior between people of the same sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality is "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexu ...
in a separate debate. At a meeting the night before, in Church House Westminster, Barnaby Miln declared that he was gay to much applause from the Open Synod Group he was addressing.
He led the opposition and bitterly opposed the motion in a debate on Biblical discipline in matters of sexual morality in the House of Laity at
Church House (Church of England) Westminster, on 8 February 1988. In his speech he again declared that he was gay.
Peter Tatchell
Peter Gary Tatchell (born 25 January 1952) is an Australian-born British human rights campaigner, best known for his work with LGBT social movements.
Tatchell was selected as the Labour Party (UK), Labour Party's Parliament of the United Kingdo ...
, the gay activist, sitting in Barnaby Miln's support in the public gallery then shouted abuse at those opposing the motion and was escorted out of the building.
In February 1990 Barnaby Miln demanded an
emergency debate of the General Synod following the leaking of the Osborne report which claimed homosexuals were treated poorly by the church. But the Archbishops of Canterbury and York, joint presidents, said they were not prepared to admit the motion to the agenda.
Despite this, members of the General Synod voted Barnaby Miln one of the Church of England's representatives on
Churches Together in England
Churches Together in England (CTE) is an ecumenical organisation and the national instrument for the Christian Churches in England. It helps its member churches work better together.
Churches Together in England supports a network of Intermediat ...
, and on
Churches Together in Britain and Ireland
Churches Together in Britain and Ireland (CTBI) is an ecumenical organisation. The members include most of the major churches in England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland. CTBI is registered at Companies House with number 05661787. Its office is in Ce ...
, successor to the British Council of Churches. He was a consultant at the World Council of Churches.
Magistrate colleagues sought Barnaby's removal from the bench but he refused and reluctantly agreed to re-swear the
oath of allegiance
An oath of allegiance is an oath whereby a subject or citizen acknowledges a duty of allegiance and swears loyalty to a monarch or a country. In modern republics, oaths are sworn to the country in general, or to the country's constitution. For ...
.
He was not re-elected to the General Synod in October 1990.
Other charities
Whilst on the General Synod Barnaby Miln was a trustee and later chairman of the Langley House Trust for ex-offenders and treasurer of the (British) Churches Council on Alcohol and Drugs. He brought to the latter his experience as a licensing justice in Hereford.
Jubilee 2000
After his fairtrade work in 1997 he was asked to be Campaigns Director of
Jubilee 2000
Jubilee 2000 was an international coalition movement in over 40 countries that called for cancellation of third world debt by the year 2000. This movement coincided with the Great Jubilee, the celebration of the year 2000 in the Catholic Church. ...
, the
developing countries' debt
The debt of developing countries usually refers to the external debt incurred by governments of developing countries.
There have been several historical episodes of governments of developing countries borrowing in quantities beyond their abi ...
campaign, with the specific responsibility of bringing into its network the British churches and to organise a campaign at the forthcoming meeting in Birmingham, England, of the
G8 world leaders. This was to be the
human chain of about 70,000 supporters of Jubilee 2000.
Larry Elliott
Larry Elliott (born 29 August 1955) is an English journalist and author who focuses on economic issues. He was the economics editor at ''The Guardian'' until November 2024, and has published seven books on related issues, six of them in partne ...
, writing in ''
The Guardian
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'' on Monday 27 November 2000 states 'Not only has Jubilee 2000 been comfortably the most successful mass movement of the past 25 years, but it has also shown how the process known as globalisation is nurturing its own opponents.' And Paula Goldman wrote in the ''
Financial Times
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'' "the Jubilee 2000 petition holds two world records, according to
Guinness World Records
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: it was the largest petition ever signed (24,391,181 signatures) and the most international (with people from 166 countries signing). Sheer size was no doubt key to the Jubilee petition’s success: when talking to decision-makers, campaigners could rightly claim historic levels of public interest."
Gay counselling

Once it was known that he was gay, men from all walks of life confided in him about their own
closeted
''Closeted'' and ''in the closet'' are metaphors for LGBTQ people who have not disclosed their sexual orientation or gender identity and aspects thereof, including sexual identity and sexual behavior. This metaphor is associated and sometime ...
sexuality.
After a visit with Graham Scott to leading cities in the United States looking at their gay quarters, in co-operation with Edinburgh and Lothian Tourist Board he proposed that Edinburgh boost its appeal to
gay tourists.
When in 2002 his partner went to live in a
nursing home
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and for the next four years, in
Westminster
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, he set up a fee paying service for anyone wanting to explore their homosexuality and often with fetishes they would find difficult to explain to most people. In 2003 a
Sunday People
The ''Sunday People'' is a British tabloid Sunday newspaper. It was founded as ''The People'' on 16 October 1881.
At one point owned by Odhams Press, The ''People'' was acquired along with Odhams by the Mirror Group in 1961, along with the '' ...
article reported that Miln was running a
rent boy
Male prostitution is a form of sex work consisting of the act or practice of men providing sexual services in return for payment. Although clients can be of any gender, the vast majority are older males looking to fulfill their sexual needs. Ma ...
S&M club in the flat he had shared with Pattinson. The investigation revealed that Miln had rent boys on his books charging £200 each. Miln told the undercover reporter that senior church figures, Westminster MPs, civil servants, and members of the royal household were amongst the clientele for his services and the monthly
orgies
An orgy is a sex party where guests freely engage in open and unrestrained sexual activity or group sex.
Swingers' parties do not always conform to this designation, because at many swinger parties the sexual partners may all know each other o ...
he held. According to the People, Miln tried to recruit the reporter as a rent boy and gave him an ecstasy tablet to help him relax. Laboratory tests later confirmed it was the drug. Miln also reportedly offered the journalist
unprotected sex
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, telling him: "There is nothing better than dangerous sex. I could have
HIV
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but at my age I don't care. If I then give it to someone it will be because of their stupidity." The Sunday People commented that it was a strange attitude from Archbishop
Robert Runcie
Robert Alexander Kennedy Runcie, Baron Runcie, (2 October 1921 – 11 July 2000) was an English Anglican bishop. He was the Archbishop of Canterbury from 1980 to 1991, having previously been Bishop of St Albans. He travelled the world widely ...
's former special adviser on
AIDS
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. A spokesman for the
Diocese of London
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It lies directly north of the Thames, covering and all or part of 17 London boroughs. This corresponds almost exactly to the historic county of ...
said, "The property is no longer anything to do with us." It is not known whether the conversations were recorded, a usual component of
tabloid journalism
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, but the article was published without apparent complaint. The sex club was briefly referenced in a book by
Linda Woodhead
Linda Jane Pauline Woodhead (born 15 February 1964) is a British sociologist of religion and scholar of religious studies at King's College London Faculty of Arts and Humanities. She is best known for her work on religious change since the 1 ...
and
Andrew Brown, a
Guardian
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* Legal guardian, a person with the authority and duty to care for the interests of another
* ''The Guardian'', a British daily newspaper
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journalist, in 2016. Miln was also the feature of a
BBC One
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television documentary ''Men for Hire'' broadcast on Tuesday 5 April 2005. It was reported that he was seeing between 20 and 30 clients a week for
role-play
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in his "headmaster's study" and that most sessions usually ended with sex. Magazine articles and photographs about his work included ''
Zero
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'' in March 2005 and ''
QX'' in September 2005.
Classical music editor, ecclesiastical correspondent
Since 2007 he has reviewed live classical music and opera in Edinburgh, writes about ecclesiastical matters, and since 2012 has been a co-editor of edinburghguide.com
St Vincent's Chapel, Edinburgh
Barnaby Miln has been the Property Convener of St Vincent's Scottish Episcopal Chapel
in Edinburgh's New Town since 2015. He was a member of the General Synod of the
Scottish Episcopal Church
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, one of the provinces of the worldwide
Anglican Communion
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between 2016 and 2023.
Edinburgh Sacred Arts Festivals
With the Reverend Professor Gordon Graham he was the originator of the first week-long Edinburgh Sacred Arts Festival in the Fringe in August 2018, held by St Vincent's Chapel, Edinburgh. Sacred Arts Festivals held in August 2019 and 2021 at St Vincent's were organised by the Edinburgh Sacred Arts Foundation of which he and the Reverend Professor Gordon Graham were the initial Trustees. Since 2022 the Festival has held events in a number of Edinburgh city centre cathedrals and churches: Church of Scotland, Roman Catholic and Scottish Episcopal.The Edinburgh Sacred Arts Foundation became a Scottish Charitable Incorporated Organisation SC051554 in January 2022. Its charitable purposes are the advancement of the arts, heritage, culture or science. The Organisation's purposes are to support, and stimulate artistic activity that draws on the rich Christian inheritance in music, visual, literary, material and performing arts. To accomplish its primary purpose in a way that contributes significantly to the cultural life of Edinburgh during the summer Festivals.
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