''Balabusta'' ( yi,
בעל־הביתטע) is a
Yiddish
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expression describing a good
homemaker
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. The transliteration according to
YIVO
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Standard
orthography
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is ''
baleboste.'' The expression derives from the Hebrew term for "home owner" or "master of the house" – the Hebrew compound noun (lit: "master of the house") was borrowed in its masculine from and was pronounced according to the conventions of
Ashkenazi Hebrew
Ashkenazi Hebrew ( he, ×”×’×™×™×” ××©×›× ×–×™×ª, Hagiyya Ashkenazit, yi, ×Ö·×©×›Ö¼× ×–×™×©×¢ הבֿרה, Ashkenazishe Havara) is the pronunciation system for Biblical and Mishnaic Hebrew favored for Jewish liturgical use and Torah study by Ashk ...
as ; in its feminine form, it is rendered as . The term ultimately became more popular than the original Hebrew expression for a (female) home owner, . (As used in
Modern Hebrew
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, bá'al habáyit/בעל-הבית means "landlord".)
Variants in pronunciation (''balabusta'' and ''baleboste'') are due to the phonologies of different Yiddish dialects, where the
pronunciation
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of ×Ö¸ (komets alef) as /É”/ becomes /ÊŠ/ in some regions.
Connotations
The term historically has the positive connotation of an extremely competent and self-assured homemaker, though for some, the term has come to represent the feeling of being "chained to the stove" and denied opportunities outside the home. The traditional role of the baleboste is essentially that of the wife in Judaism; that is, she must manage the home in both practical terms - housekeeping duties such as cooking, cleaning, and maintaining the household finances - and spiritual ones, as in facilitating ''
shalom bayit Shalom bayit () (also sholom bayit or shlom bayit, or (Yiddish) sholom bayis or shlom bayis) is the Jewish religious concept of domestic harmony and good relations between husband and wife. In a Jewish court of law, ''shalom bayit'' is the Hebrew te ...
'', the Jewish religious concept of general domestic harmony, and good relations between husband and wife.
Due in part to the coincidental similarity of the word to the English colloquialism "ballbuster", defined as "a person who is relentlessly aggressive, intimidating, or domineering", ''baleboste'' as used by English-speakers has taken on the connotation of assertiveness or bossiness.
In popular culture
An
Ashkenazi
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folk song, "Baleboste Zisinke" ("sweet homemaker"), was first recorded by Yo'el Engel, an ethnomusicologist, critic, and composer. Engel joined fellow Jewish anthropologist and writer An-Ski on his ethnographic expedition to the
Pale of Settlement
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, where he first heard and recorded the song.
The song was later reinterpreted by musician
Socalled
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, who sampled a version of it for the song "Baleboste" on his 2007 album ''Ghettoblaster''. The track also features a sample from the midcentury Jewish-American comedian Belle Barth: "She says dirty words in a cute way and everybody digs her the most . . . 'cause she's a baleboste, she makes flanken
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kasha varnishkes
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Martin Davidson
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's
Rechnitzer Rejects group recorded a song titled "Balabustas", an homage to the traditional role set to the theme song of the 1984 movie ''
Ghostbusters
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Homemaker
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Jewish views of marriage
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List of English words of Yiddish origin
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Rebbetzin
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Etymology
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Role of women in Judaism
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Tzniut
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