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Aaliyah Saleem (born August 1989), is a British
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campaigner, writer and market researcher. She is an
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atheist Atheism, in the broadest sense, is an absence of belief in the existence of deities. Less broadly, atheism is a rejection of the belief that any deities exist. In an even narrower sense, atheism is specifically the position that there no ...
,
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and
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activist, and co-founder of advocacy group
Faith to Faithless Faith to Faithless is a non-profit organisation in the United Kingdom dedicated to confronting discrimination against atheists and non-religious people, in particular discrimination towards individuals who have left minority religions. It prov ...
. She has also written under the pseudonym of Laylah Hussain.


Biography

Saleem was born in
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into a
Pakistan Pakistan, officially the Islamic Republic of Pakistan, is a country in South Asia. It is the List of countries and dependencies by population, fifth-most populous country, with a population of over 241.5 million, having the Islam by country# ...
i
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immigrant family in August 1989. From age 6 to 11 she attended
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Arabic-led
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s, where she learnt the
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. When she was 11 years old, Saleem entered the Islamic girls'
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Jamia Al-Hudaa in
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. Around 12, she began having doubts about the truth and ethics of religion, especially the condemnation of homosexuality, but her questioning was branded "corruption" and she felt repeatedly repressed to "not pollute the minds of other girls". She was expelled in 2006 at the age of 15, accused of "
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" for owning a
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and consequently publicly humiliated in front of the entire school. She went on to study Koranic interpretation at
Farhat Hashmi Farhat Naseem Hashmi (; born December 22, 1957) is a Pakistani-Canadian Islamic scholar and preacher. She is the founder of the Al-Huda Institute, a network of conservative Islamic religious schools for women. She holds a PhD degree in Islamic ...
's Al-Huda Institute in
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near
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,
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, which was intended to last a year. Finding the lessons in
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difficult, however, after two months she transferred to the Al-Huda Institute's campus in Pakistan to complete the course and, segregated and isolated from her family, she found herself "sucked in" by the repetition and religious zeal. She started to willingly wear the face veil (
niqab A niqāb, niqab, or niqaab (; ), also known as a ruband () or rubandah (), is a long garment worn by some Muslim women in order to cover their entire body and face, excluding their eyes. It is an interpretation in Islam of the concept of ...
), and in hindsight she considered her 17-year-old self to be a fundamentalist who wanted to
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when she returned to the UK. Back in Britain, where Saleem was no longer in a religiously restricted environment and had free access to books, media and television, her earlier doubts resurfaced. She started studying
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, which examined religion from several new perspectives such as
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and
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, and first exposed her to the concept that religions could serve as a means of
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. In the library, she came across
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' book ''
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'', which first exposed her to the idea that
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could be a human
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and might not actually exist, and the
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, which she did not understand, and decided to spend a great deal of time on studying further. After that, she educated herself on
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, and read
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's ''
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''; the sight of the iconic
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photograph was the last straw, brought her to disbelief and made her a
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. By the age of 19, Saleem had reached a point where she no longer believed in Islam, and moved away from it. She believes that "The Islam that I grew up in, that had been, you know, shoved down my throat for years, was actually being shoved down my throat to actually control me. To control what I did, what I wore, who I spoke to, and what I ate and how I thought." Saleem attended
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in west London where she obtained a
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in English. She is a
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er for
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having previously done parliamentary research work for the
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. She is also a contributor and
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ist to ''Sedaa'', a website featuring writers from Muslim backgrounds.


Secular activism

In October 2014, Saleem first spoke out about her treatment at her Nottingham boarding school at the
Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain The Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain or CEMB (pronounced as ''see-em-BEE'') is the British branch of the Central Council of Ex-Muslims.Jonathan PetreNew group for those who renounce Islam, ''The Daily Telegraph'', 21 June 2007 It was launched in ...
's
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2014. In November 2014, she also wrote a more detailed exposé about it in ''
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'' under the pseudonym of Laylah Hussain. Saleem claimed that pupils were only taught various Islamic subjects from a fundamentalist perspective, indoctrinated them with anti-gay, anti-Christian and anti-Jewish views, and had no geography, history, art, sport or music classes. The science class omitted
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and
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, and she was taught that men are permitted to beat their wives. Due to the concerns she raised, the school was subjected to an unannounced inspection in April 2015, and rated as 'inadequate' by
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as a result. When a second inspection in April 2016 did not show sufficient improvements, Jamia Al-Hudaa Residential College was threatened with partial or full closure. The school's management attempted to appeal the decision, while Saleem urged the
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to "move swiftly now to protect these pupils." In 2015 Saleem, with her colleague Imtiaz Shams, an ex-Muslim atheist from Saudi Arabia, co-founded the advocacy group
Faith to Faithless Faith to Faithless is a non-profit organisation in the United Kingdom dedicated to confronting discrimination against atheists and non-religious people, in particular discrimination towards individuals who have left minority religions. It prov ...
. The organisation provides support for people leaving
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and other
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s, challenges discrimination faced by
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people and aims to create awareness of the issues involved in leaving religion. Saleem and Shams began by holding "
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" events at universities, where ex-Muslims and other
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could tell their stories in the presence of peers who had also been through deconversion. In 2015 Saleem represented
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(then the British Humanist Association) at a diversity chamber debate in the House of Lords in which she spoke about the discrimination and persecution faced by many ex-Muslim atheists in the UK and around the world. The following year she represented Faith to Faithless at a further debate in the Lords about the particular problems ex-Muslims face when leaving religion. In late 2015 and early 2016, Saleem recorded two videos offering strategies for Muslim or ex-Muslim women who no longer want to wear the
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– she herself had worn a headscarf from the age of 11 – but are wary of the negative social consequences they may face for doing so. In April 2016 Saleem appeared in the
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two-part documentary programme about the
Deobandi The Deobandi movement or Deobandism is a revivalist movement within Sunni Islam that adheres to the Hanafi school of jurisprudence. It was formed in the late 19th century around the Darul Uloom Madrassa in Deoband, India, from which the nam ...
s, the isolationist traditional Muslim community that was responsible for her schooling and which controls the majority of Islamic religious schools in the UK.


Works

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See also

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Ali A. Rizvi Ali Amjad Rizvi (born 29 May 1975) is a Pakistani-born Canadian atheist ex-shia and secular humanist writer and podcaster who explores the challenges of Muslims who leave their faith. He wrote a column for the ''Huffington Post'' and co-hosted ...
* Fauzia Ilyas * Sara Khan (human rights activist) *
Sarah Haider Sarah Haider is a Pakistani-born American writer, public speaker, and political activist. She cofounded the advocacy group Ex-Muslims of North America (EXMNA), which seeks to normalize religious dissent and to help Ex-Muslims, former Muslims ...
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Ensaf Haidar Ensaf Haidar (; born 1975) is a Saudi-Canadian human rights activist. Born in Jizan, Saudi Arabia, Haidar is the wife of Raif Badawi, a Saudi writer, dissident and activist who was sentenced to ten years in prison and 1000 lashes in 2014. She ...
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Raif Badawi Raif bin Muhammad Badawi (, also transcribed Raef bin Mohammed Badawi; born 13 January 1984) is a Saudi writer, dissident and activist, as well as the creator of the website ''Free Saudi Liberals''. Badawi was arrested in 2012 on a charge of ...
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Maryam Namazie Maryam Namazie (; born 1966) is a British-Iranian secularist, communist and human rights activist, commentator, and broadcaster. She is the Spokesperson for Fitnah – Movement for Women’s Liberation, One Law for All and the Council of Ex-Musl ...
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Muhammad Syed __FORCETOC__ Muhammad Syed is a Pakistani-American writer, speaker, and political activist. He created the Ex-Muslims of North America (EXMNA) advocacy group in 2013 which seeks to normalize religious dissent and to help former Islam, Muslims ...
* Imam Tawhidi * Tarek Fateh


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