Background and recording
While recording her fifth studio album ''The Definition Of...'' (2016), Fantasia sought to have more creative control over her music and image. Frustrated with the amount of record label interference in the past, she described executives' plans to determine her sound and style as "prostituting the artist’s gift", and wanted to avoid such influences for the album. Fantasia explained that the album would expand on the "rock soul" sound that she introduced on her previous release ''Side Effects of You'' (2013). She had defined "rock soul" as covering multiple style of music, describing it as an attempt to combine her soulful childhood singing in church with "a certain side of [her] that wants to tap into that whole rock world". "Sleeping with the One I Love" was written and produced by R. Kelly. During the early stages of production for ''The Definition Of...'', Fantasia posted several videos on her social media accounts of her recording sessions with Kelly. In promotional interviews, Fantasia said that the album was initially produced by another artist who she “really, really, really loved", but she switched to a different team for the final product. She explained: "Sometimes, when you work with producers who are artists, it’s very hard, They are doing their thing … and things got a little chaotic.” Derrick G. Kennedy of the ''Los Angeles Times'' speculated that Kelly was the producer mentioned by Fantasia. The instrumental parts of the song were recorded by Thomas Carillo at the Kennedy Compound in Hollywood, Los Angeles, Hollywood. Fantasia's vocals, produced and arranged by Ron Fair, were engineered by Fair and Pat Thrall at Faircraft Studios in Brentwood, California. Abel Garibaldi and Ian Mereness provided additional programming and engineering for the track. Dan Higgins arranged the Horn (instrument), horn section, which was engineered by Fair and John Schacter. Donnie Lylie provided additional music direction and played the guitar for the instrumental, while Steve Genewick handled the engineering for the String (music), string portion.Composition and lyrics
Described as a "vintage-y Soul music, soul ballad with jazz elements" by Kevin Apaza of SpinMedia, Direct Lyrics, "Sleeping with the One I Love" is composed in the Key (music), key of D-sharp minor and has a tempo of 65 Beats Per Minute, beats per minute. Singersroom's Elle Breezy wrote that the single was a "heavy blues tune", and represented how Fantasia "rock soul" sound would encompass various musical genres. AllMusic's Andy Kellman called the song "a spacious, retro-styled ballad", and ''The Boombox''s Amber McKynzie described it as "sultry ode to 1960s in music, 60s soul". The ''Tampa Bay Times Jay Cridlin equated the single to "five minutes of slow-burning flame". Elias Leight of Vogue (magazine), ''Vogue'' felt that "Sleeping with the One I Love" was "one of the more unusual songs on radio at the moment" as it did not contain strong Hip hop music, hip hop elements, and compared it to Shirley Bassey's music. "Sleeping with the One I Love" revolves around Fantasia feeling torn between the stability of her boyfriend and the sensual pleasures of her lover. According to Wanda J. Coppage of Music Times, the lyrics focus on "the story of a woman in search of love, but she seems to find it with the wrong type of men". Throughout the single, Fantasia "candidly and guiltlessly" discusses her affair by singing: "I’m sleeping with the man I love because the one I’m with just ain’t good enough.” In the Verse (music), verses, Fantasia sings about her conflict with choosing between the two men, through lyrics such as: “Yes, I've tried to shake it off, and I even tried to pray / But I'm still waking up in a bed that don't belong to me”. She expresses pain with the lyrics "See my baby's like a dream, but the other man, he haunts me". Other lyrics also include: "I'm still waking up in a bed that don't belong to me...I thought about the cost, but it's a price I'm willing to pay." Breezy questioned if the song's content was inspired by Fantasia's past affair with a married man. The singer explained that the single was about self-love, saying: "My song talks about all the bad relationships but I'm grateful for going through them." Fantasia compared "Sleeping with the One I Love" to her 2005 single "Free Yourself (Fantasia song), Free Yourself", explaining that they both have "that gritty, bluesy feeling". Amber McKynzie described the main theme of the song as "what it’s like to love hard and not get the same love in return". BET Her, Centric's Gerren Keith Gaynor felt that Fantasia was channeling James Brown's 1966 song "It's a Man's Man's Man's World".Release
On May 27, 2016, "Sleeping with the One I Love" was released as the second Single (music), single from ''The Definition Of...''. Apaza described it as "the latest countdown single", as two promotional singles ("Ugly (Fantasia song), Ugly" and "So Blue (Fantasia song), So Blue") were also made available prior to the album's release. RCA Records executives had initially chosen "When I Met You (Fantasia song), When I Met You" (2016) to be the album's second single, but Fantasia had disagreed with the label's decision, preferring to release "Sleeping with the One I Love" instead. The singer said that RCA did not want to promote the song as they felt it was "too churchy", but she had responded: "No, it’s the next single. I’m the one out here on stages and connecting with the people." She proceeded to conduct polls during a series of radio interviews, asking listeners to choose which track they wanted to be released. Ultimately, they voted for "Sleeping with the One I Love", which was released as the second single instead of "When I Met You". "When I Met You" would later be released as the record's third and final single on January 17, 2017.Reception
"Sleeping with the One I Love" received positive feedback from Music journalism, music critics. Apaza praised the single for showcasing Fantasia's vocals, writing that the singer had "out-of-this-world vocals and a grandiose emotion that will leave any listener mesmerized and in awe". Breezy felt that the single was based on a "juicy concept". Both Apaza and Breezy wrote that they were looking forward to Fantasia performing the song live. Amber McKynzie selected it as one of the album's top five tracks, and Gerren Keith Gaynor wrote that it "t[ook] story telling to new height", calling the song "soul-stirring". Jay Cridlin listed "Sleeping with the One I Love" as one of the top 25 songs of 2016, writing that Fantasia "cuts loose on a confident and expansive chunk of retro soul". In ''Entertainment Weekly'', Chuck Arnold identified the song as one of the album's "key tracks". Andy Kellman praised her collaboration with R. Kelly as the "most pairing", writing that the song included lyrics that "she was born to sing". Sarah Grant of ''Rolling Stone'' felt that Kelly had helped Fantasia achieve her "rock soul" sound by "put[ting] her yowl to work on the excellent, chiseled single". The single was nominated for the Grammy Award for Best Traditional R&B Performance at the 59th Annual Grammy Awards, but lost to Lalah Hathaway's 2015 single Lalah Hathaway Live, "Angel". Even though he wanted William Bell (singer), William Bell's 2016 song "This Is Where I Live, The Three of Me" to win the award, Billboard (magazine), ''Billboard'''s Carl Wilson wrote that "it’s too bad it’s at the expense of, among others, Fantasia’s terrific 'Sleeping With the One I Love'". The track also received a nomination for the BET Centric Award at the BET Awards 2017, but lost to Solange Knowles' 2016 single "Cranes in the Sky". "Sleeping with the One I Love" debuted at number 21 on the Adult R&B Songs ''Billboard'' chart for the week of July 2, 2017. It peaked at number seven during the week of November 26, 2016, and stayed on the chart for a total of 13 weeks. It was Fantasia tenth top-ten entry, and the second of the album's two top 20 singles; "No Time for It" (2016) was the first.Music video and promotion
Prior to the music video's release, Fantasia posted several images of herself in costume as three fictional women (Brenda, Pauletta and Rox) on her official Instagram account. For each image, she explained the women's background, and expounded on the concept for the overall visual. The characters include a seductress and a woman who Gerren Keith Gaynor compared to Cleopatra "Cleo" Sims from the 1996 film Set It Off (film), ''Set It Off''. Premiering directly after the BET Awards 2016 Broadcasting, telecast on June 26, 2016, the video features the women's struggles with love as they all pursue the attention of a prison guard. Directed by Derek Blanks, it was inspired by the American comedy-drama series ''Orange Is the New Black'', and shows the guard "playing them all". According to a press release from RCA, Fantasia "portrays multiple characters in a compelling plot twist" in the video. Eeshé White of ''The Boombox'' summarized the video as: "Fantasia appears to be in prison, and is battling with herself." The visual includes a scene in which all of the characters fight one another. It received positive reviews from media outlets. Breezy called the video "intriguing", while Gerren Keith Gaynor described it as a "creative take" on the song. Fantasia performed "Sleeping with the One I Love" alongside "It's a Man's Man's Man's World" during a July 28, 2016 concert broadcast on BET, the first in a series of live concerts on the cable channel. She had also included it as the final song on her set list for Fantasia & Anthony Hamilton: Live in Concert (2016).Track listing
Credits and personnel
Credits adapted from the liner notes of ''The Definition Of... ''. ;Management *Rock Soul Records/19 Recordings *Limited/RCA Records ;Recording locations *Music recording – Kennedy Compound (Hollywood); Faircraft Studios (Brentwood) ;Personnel * Fantasia – vocals * R. Kelly – production, song-writing * Ron Fair – vocal arrangement, vocal production, vocal engineer, strings arrangement, strings conductor, horn engineer, additional production * Dan Higgins – horns arrangement * Donnie Lyle – additional music direction, guitar * Pat Thrall – editing, additional engineer, vocal engineer * Abel Garibaldi – engineer, programmer * Ian Mereness – engineer, programmer * John Schacter – horn engineer * Steve Genewick – strings engineerCharts
Release history
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