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A proxy wedding or proxy marriage is a wedding in which one or both of the individuals being united are not physically present, usually being represented instead by other persons. If both partners are absent a double proxy wedding occurs. Marriage by proxy is usually resorted to either when a couple wish to marry but one or both partners cannot attend for reasons such as military service, imprisonment, or travel restrictions; or when a couple lives in a jurisdiction in which they cannot legally marry. In most
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s, both parties to a marriage must be physically present, and proxy weddings are not recognized as legally binding. Under the English common law, however, if a proxy marriage is valid by the law of the place where the marriage was celebrated (the ''
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'') then it will be recognised in
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.


History

Starting in the
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, European monarchs and nobility sometimes married by proxy. Some examples of this include: * Henry IV to Joanna of Navarre, the daughter of Charles d'Évreux, King of Navarre, on April 2, 1402 * Lorenzo de'Medici to Clarice Orsini in 1469 * Catherine of Aragon to
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in 1501 * Margaret Tudor to James IV, in 1503 * Mary Tudor, Queen of France to Louis XII, in 1514 *
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to
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on October 18, 1615 *
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on May 1, 1625 *
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to Louis-Auguste on April 19, 1770 * Napoleon I of France to Austrian Archduchess Marie Louise in 1810 Further, a famous 17th-century painting by
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depicts the proxy marriage of Marie de' Medici in 1600. By the end of the 19th century the practice had largely died out. Many proxy marriages were carried out during the First and
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s, with soldiers at the front marrying women at home, often participating in the wedding via telephone. During the First World War, proxy marriage was permitted in Belgium, France, Germany, Norway, Czechoslovakia and Italy. On 4 April 1915 proxy marriage was legalised in
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. Proxy marriage was common in the US, UK, Soviet Union and Nazi Germany during the Second World War, where obtaining leave to return home and marry was difficult or impossible. Kansas City, Kansas was known for its permissive proxy marriage laws; one lawyer in the city participated in 39 proxy weddings. In
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between 1945 and 1976, 12,000 women were married by proxy to
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men; they would then travel to Australia to meet their new husbands.


Today

, various Internet sites offer to arrange proxy and double-proxy marriages for a fee, although the service can generally be set up by any lawyer in a jurisdiction that offers proxy marriage. Video conferencing allows couples to experience the ceremony together. A unique "space wedding" took place on August 10, 2003 when Ekaterina Dmitriev, an American citizen living in the U.S. state of
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where the ceremony was performed, married
Yuri Malenchenko Yuri Ivanovich Malenchenko (russian: Юрий Иванович Маленченко; born December 22, 1961) is a retired Russian cosmonaut. Malenchenko became the first person to marry in space, on 10 August 2003, when he married Ekaterina Dmit ...
, a cosmonaut, who was
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ing the Earth in the
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, by proxy.


Legality


Gambia

Proxy marriage is legal in
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under sharia law.


United States

In the
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, proxy marriages are provided for in law or by customary practice in
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,
Colorado Colorado (, other variants) is a state in the Mountain West subregion of the Western United States. It encompasses most of the Southern Rocky Mountains, as well as the northeastern portion of the Colorado Plateau and the western edge of the ...
,
Kansas Kansas () is a U.S. state, state in the Midwestern United States, Midwestern United States. Its Capital city, capital is Topeka, Kansas, Topeka, and its largest city is Wichita, Kansas, Wichita. Kansas is a landlocked state bordered by Nebras ...
, and
Montana Montana () is a state in the Mountain West division of the Western United States. It is bordered by Idaho to the west, North Dakota and South Dakota to the east, Wyoming to the south, and the Canadian provinces of Alberta, British Columb ...
. Of these, Montana is the only state that allows double-proxy marriage.Section 40-1-301
. ''Montana Code Annotated 2015''. Montana Legislative Services. Accessed on May 19, 2016.
Proxy marriages cannot be solemnized in any other U.S. states. In 1924, a federal court recognized the proxy marriage of a resident of Portugal, where proxy marriages were recognized at the time, and a resident of Pennsylvania, where
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s could be contracted at the time. The Portuguese woman was allowed to immigrate to the United States on account of the marriage, whereas she would have been inadmissible otherwise due to being illiterate. During the early 1900s, United States proxy marriages increased significantly when many Japanese
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s arrived at Angel Island, California. Since the early 20th century, it has been most commonly used in the United States for marriages where one partner is a member of the military on active duty. In California, proxy marriage is only available to deployed military personnel. In Montana, a double-proxy marriage is available if at least one partner is either on active military duty or is a Montana resident. In the United states if a proxy marriage has been performed in a state that legally allows it many states will recognize it fully or will recognize it as a common law marriage. An exception to this is the state of Iowa, where it is completely unrecognized.


Germany

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does not allow proxy marriages within its jurisdiction (§ 1311 BGB). It recognizes proxy marriages contracted elsewhere where this is possible, subject to the usual rules of
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, unless the foreign law should be incompatible with German
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(art. 6 ''EGBGB''): this is not the case with the marriage by proxy ''per se'', but would be if, e. g., the proxy was held responsible for ''choosing'' the spouse without further asking rather than only contracting a marriage with a given spouse.


United Kingdom

Proxy marriage was argued for in the House of Commons by
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in 1943. In 2014 it was reported that "proxy marriage misuse" was common in the UK, in which an EU citizen and non-EU citizen, both living in the UK, participated in a proxy marriage in an outside country. These were sham marriages which allowed one spouse to gain EU citizenship. Citizens Advice Scotland warns that "It may be extremely difficult to prove that a marriage by proxy is a valid marriage, both legally and for claiming
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Catholic Church

Catholic Canon Law permits marriage by proxy, but requires officiants to receive authorization from the local ordinary before proceeding.


References


External links


Operation ‘I Do’: Moody AFB Attorneys Help Couple Tie Knot

Ernest G. Lorenzen, "Marriage By Proxy and the Conflict of Laws" (1932)

Double Proxy Marriage in Montana (limited to Montana residents and active duty military personnel, all branches)
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