Letitia "Tish" Baldrige (February 9, 1926 – October 29, 2012) was an American etiquette expert,

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executive and author who was most famous for serving as Jacqueline Kennedy's Social Secretary. Known as the "Doyenne of Decorum", she wrote a newspaper column, ran her own PR firm, and, along with updating

Amy Vanderbilt Amy Osborne Vanderbilt (July 22, 1908 – December 27, 1974) was an American authority on etiquette. In 1952 she published the best-selling book ''Amy Vanderbilt's Complete Book of Etiquette''. The book, later retitled ''Amy Vanderbilt's Etiquet ...

's ''Complete Book of Etiquette'',Letitia Baldrige, Obituary, ''The Telegraph'', October 31, 2012, https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/obituaries/9646580/Letitia-Baldrige.html she published 20 books and appeared on '' Late Night with David Letterman'' and the cover of ''

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'' magazine.

Early life

Letitia Baldrige was born February 9, 1926, in

Miami, Florida Miami ( ), officially the City of Miami, known as "the 305", "The Magic City", and "Gateway to the Americas", is a East Coast of the United States, coastal metropolis and the County seat, county seat of Miami-Dade County, Florida, Miami-Dade C ...

, and grew up in

Omaha, Nebraska Omaha ( ) is the largest city in the U.S. state of Nebraska and the county seat of Douglas County. Omaha is in the Midwestern United States on the Missouri River, about north of the mouth of the Platte River. The nation's 39th-largest cit ...

, the youngest child of Republican Congressman Howard Malcolm Baldrige and his wife, Regina (née Connell). Her brother was Howard Malcolm Baldrige, Jr., the initial Secretary of Commerce during the Ronald Reagan administration. Baldrige attended

Miss Porter's School Miss Porter's School (MPS) is an elite American private college preparatory school for girls founded in 1843, and located in Farmington, Connecticut. The school draws students from 21 states, 31 countries (with dual-citizenship and/or residence), ...

in Farmington, CT, where she met Jacqueline Bouvier, the future First Lady. The two also attended

Vassar College Vassar College ( ) is a private liberal arts college in Poughkeepsie, New York, United States. Founded in 1861 by Matthew Vassar, it was the second degree-granting institution of higher education for women in the United States, closely foll ...

together, from which Baldrige graduated in 1946 with a bachelor's degree in psychology.

Career

Early years

After first being denied a position and told to improve her secretarial skills, she reapplied and was hired by the State Department as social secretary to David K.E. Bruce, US ambassador to France. After three years she was appointed secretary in Rome to the American ambassador to Italy,

Clare Boothe Luce Clare Boothe Luce ( Ann Clare Boothe; March 10, 1903 – October 9, 1987) was an American writer, politician, U.S. ambassador, and public conservative figure. A versatile author, she is best known for her 1936 hit play '' The Women'', which ha ...

, followed by a position as director of public relations for the jeweller

Tiffany & Co Tiffany & Co. (colloquially known as Tiffany's) is a high-end luxury jewelry and specialty retailer, headquartered on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan. It sells jewelry, sterling silver, porcelain, crystal, stationery, fragrances, water bottles, watc ...

. Although then a registered Republican, in 1960 she was invited to work for the Kennedy campaign in Massachusetts once he secured the Democratic presidential nomination, going on to work officially for the First Lady after his victory. Baldridge served in the post of White House Social Secretary, coordinating aspects of the Inauguration, receptions, and state dinners. Saying she "had had it" with the long days in Washington and serving the administration on overseas trips, she resigned early in 1963, to return briefly to aid the First Lady after her husband's assassination in November of that year.

After the Kennedy White House

She served on the board of directors of the

Malcolm Baldrige National Quality Award The Malcolm Baldrige National Quality Award recognizes U.S. organizations in the business, health care, education, and nonprofit sectors for performance excellence. The Baldrige Award is the highest formal recognition of the performance excellen ...

. She also did significant charity work with

Jane Goodall Dame Jane Morris Goodall (; born Valerie Jane Morris-Goodall on 3 April 1934), formerly Baroness Jane van Lawick-Goodall, is an English primatologist and anthropologist. Seen as the world's foremost expert on chimpanzees, Goodall is best kn ...

to help fundraise for the preservation of habitats for wild chimpanzees. In 1964, the year after marrying real estate developer Robert Hollensteiner, whom she met while working for a Kennedy family firm, she founded her own PR business, Letitia Baldrige Enterprises, Chicago. Earning the nickname the "Doyenne of Decorum" with a newspaper column and a string of successful books, in 1978 she appeared on the November 28th cover of ''

''. She continued working into late life, publishing books in every decade from the 1950s, her final book being, ''Taste: Acquiring What Money Can't Buy'', released in 2007.

Death

Baldrige died of cardiac complications at a nursing facility in

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, on October 29, 2012. Mary M. Mitchell, a longtime friend and collaborator, confirmed her death. She was survived by her husband, Robert Hollensteiner, and their two children, Clare and Malcolm.Letitia Baldrige dies at 86, by Emily Langer, ''Washington Post'', October 30, 201

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References

Bibliography

* ''Roman Candle'', 1956 * ''Tiffany Table Settings'', 1958 * ''Of Diamonds and Diplomats'', 1968 * ''Home'', 1972 * ''Juggling: The Art of Balancing Marriage, Motherhood, and Career'', 1976 * ''The Amy Vanderbilt Complete Book of Etiquette'', 1978 * ''Amy Vanderbilt’s Everyday Etiquette'', 1979 * ''Entertainers'', 1981 * ''Letitia Baldrige’s Complete Guide to Executive Manners'', 1985 * ''Letitia Baldrige’s Complete Guide to a Great Social Life'', 1987 * ''Letitia Baldrige’s Complete Guide to the New Manners for the '90s'', 1989 * ''Public Affairs, Private Relations'', 1990 (a novel) * ''Letitia Baldrige’s New Complete Guide to Executive Manners'', 1993 * ''Letitia Baldrige’s More than Manners! Raising Today's Kids to Have Kind Manners and Good Hearts'', 1997 * ''In the Kennedy Style: Magical Evenings in the Kennedy White House'' (with Rene Verdon), 1998 * ''Legendary Brides: From the Most Romantic Weddings Ever, Inspired Ideas for Today’s Brides'', 2000 * ''A Lady, First: My Life in the White House and the American Embassies of Paris and Rome'', 2001 * ''Letitia Baldrige’s New Manners for New Times: A Complete Guide to Etiquette'', 2003 * ''The Kennedy Mystique'' (with Jon Goodman, Hugh Sidey, Robert Dallek and Barbara Baker Burrows), 2006 * ''Taste: Acquiring What Money Can't Buy'', 2007

The New York Times ''The New York Times'' (''the Times'', ''NYT'', or the Gray Lady) is a daily newspaper based in New York City with a worldwide readership reported in 2020 to comprise a declining 840,000 paid print subscribers, and a growing 6 million paid d ...

'', July 8, 1992 * ttps://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=11966130 Letitia Baldrige on NPR
Brief Appearance on Letterman

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